timetourist 1337 Report post Posted yesterday at 01:48 AM I saw Moon recently. I find it hard to judge age, but she isn't what I would call old. Definitely on the younger side, not 20 young but young enough for me, and pretty. She gives a good massage and she was very attentive to me while I was with her. I had a great time with her. If all Asian ladies were like this, there wouldn't be any hesitation to go see them. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cjthomas 1669 Report post Posted yesterday at 10:26 AM (edited) 9 hours ago, timetourist said: I saw Moon recently. I find it hard to judge age, but she isn't what I would call old. Definitely on the younger side, not 20 young but young enough for me, and pretty. She gives a good massage and she was very attentive to me while I was with her. I had a great time with her. If all Asian ladies were like this, there wouldn't be any hesitation to go see them. How about we don’t judge age at all. Aren’t we all here to meet someone.To enjoy this hobby and community.Your age preference may not be mine and my age preference may not be yours.These immature terms I keep reading to obviously belittle women of a certain age shouldn’t be acceptable here. I thought this was a community and a place where clients and providers alike could feel welcome and accepted without judgement. Some of you sure spend a lot of time making this place seem unwelcoming to many of us. Any age of consent, any gender, any figure type, any race should feel that they are welcome to advertise or seek out those that they are attracted to without feeling shamed for doing so. If you think it’s funny to refer to a mature woman as an auntie or old, grow up. If you aren’t attracted to someone who is being recommended or pined over keep those opinions to yourself. We are all attracted to different things in different people.You know different strokes for different folks and all that.My taste is for women closer to my age. If yours centres on youth good on you. But how about some of you stop making those of us with certain preferences feel unwelcome unless of course you’d enjoy some of the same treatment. Edited yesterday at 11:11 AM by Cjthomas Misplaced comma 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Incog 1222 Report post Posted yesterday at 11:55 AM 1 hour ago, Cjthomas said: I thought this was a community and a place where clients and providers alike could feel welcome and accepted without judgement. This...from the most "unwelcoming" and seemingly judgemental poster in the Lyla-verse... While I believe you're well intended CJ, please do a quick mirror-check before you post again...I saw nothing offensive or untoward in timetourist's comment...quite the opposite tbh...just my two cents... 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cjthomas 1669 Report post Posted yesterday at 12:19 PM 16 minutes ago, Incog said: This...from the most "unwelcoming" and seemingly judgemental poster in the Lyla-verse... While I believe you're well intended CJ, please do a quick mirror-check before you post again...I saw nothing offensive or untoward in timetourist's comment...quite the opposite tbh...just my two cents... I’m sorry you feel that way. But I understand. Scrutiny is seldom welcomed and perhaps I can assume by some of your posts you enjoy some of the belittlement. I quoted TT not because I felt his post was untoward but because of his quoted words,” I couldn’t judge her age”, which fit my narrative and I stand by my words. Thanks for your response. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31975 Report post Posted yesterday at 04:53 PM 6 hours ago, Cjthomas said: How about we don’t judge age at all. Aren’t we all here to meet someone.To enjoy this hobby and community.Your age preference may not be mine and my age preference may not be yours.These immature terms I keep reading to obviously belittle women of a certain age shouldn’t be acceptable here. I thought this was a community and a place where clients and providers alike could feel welcome and accepted without judgement. Some of you sure spend a lot of time making this place seem unwelcoming to many of us. Any age of consent, any gender, any figure type, any race should feel that they are welcome to advertise or seek out those that they are attracted to without feeling shamed for doing so. If you think it’s funny to refer to a mature woman as an auntie or old, grow up. If you aren’t attracted to someone who is being recommended or pined over keep those opinions to yourself. We are all attracted to different things in different people.You know different strokes for different folks and all that.My taste is for women closer to my age. If yours centres on youth good on you. But how about some of you stop making those of us with certain preferences feel unwelcome unless of course you’d enjoy some of the same treatment. I agree! This place has become so fake and aggressive especially towards us providers Not a nice place to be anymore, I stopped recommending this board to people Oh She's too fat, she's too skinny She's too old, she's too young, she asks for a deposit, she charged too much blah blah blah 🙄 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
timetourist 1337 Report post Posted 19 hours ago 13 hours ago, Cjthomas said: How about we don’t judge age at all. Aren’t we all here to meet someone.To enjoy this hobby and community.Your age preference may not be mine and my age preference may not be yours.These immature terms I keep reading to obviously belittle women of a certain age shouldn’t be acceptable here. I don't care about age at all. I have seen SPs from age 19 to 50 and enjoyed my time with all of them. My post was not intended to judge by age. It was just information. The ads in question mention a girl of a certain age, weight, and show a representative picture. If I show up and am happy with the representation, then all is well. If I show up expecting a slim 25 year old and a 200lb lady with a pot belly answers the door, I'm going to be a bit unhappy. To be clear, I have booked more than 1 BBW in the past and was extremely happy with the service in all instances. The women that answered the door in those cases were exactly as expected, and amazing. Even so, I wouldn't come on here and say someone was old and/or ugly, even if the person answering the door wasn't who I was expecting. It's just not who I am, and my tastes aren't necessarily the same as someone else who might find that person beautiful. So, I am sorry if some took it as being judgemental. It wasn't intentional. I was just letting people know that I enjoyed my time with an amazing young lady, and she could have been within an age range close to what was advertised. 2 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coco1 121 Report post Posted 4 hours ago (edited) 15 hours ago, timetourist said: I don't care about age at all. I have seen SPs from age 19 to 50 and enjoyed my time with all of them. My post was not intended to judge by age. It was just information. The ads in question mention a girl of a certain age, weight, and show a representative picture. If I show up and am happy with the representation, then all is well. If I show up expecting a slim 25 year old and a 200lb lady with a pot belly answers the door, I'm going to be a bit unhappy. To be clear, I have booked more than 1 BBW in the past and was extremely happy with the service in all instances. The women that answered the door in those cases were exactly as expected, and amazing. Even so, I wouldn't come on here and say someone was old and/or ugly, even if the person answering the door wasn't who I was expecting. It's just not who I am, and my tastes aren't necessarily the same as someone else who might find that person beautiful. So, I am sorry if some took it as being judgemental. It wasn't intentional. I was just letting people know that I enjoyed my time with an amazing young lady, and she could have been within an age range close to what was advertised. I fully agree with you, I find people around have become very thin skinned. I understand this is a "recommendation board" and negative reviews are frowned upon. I can fully understand this as everyone has different tastes. But if a girl blatantly lies about her description in an ad or a reviewer is way off base in their recommendation, this stuff should be called out without facing the wrath of indignant forum users. Edited 4 hours ago by Coco1 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cjthomas 1669 Report post Posted 3 hours ago 38 minutes ago, Coco1 said: I fully agree with you, I find people around have become very thin skinned. I understand this is a "recommendation board" and negative reviews are frowned upon. I can fully understand this as everyone has different tastes. But if a girl blatantly lies about her description in an ad or a reviewer is way off base in their recommendation, this stuff should be called out without facing the wrath of indignant forum users. There is a section to post incidents involving scammers and those up to no good. Calling them out isn’t the same as some asshole belittling some provider because she isn’t of his preferred age or ideal of beauty. Different tastes should be respected here. I’ll continue to call out those who have no issue belittling some provider because they aren’t to their standard of. beauty. No need for that and it’s not funny. It’s adolescent and pathetic. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31975 Report post Posted 2 hours ago 2 hours ago, Coco1 said: I fully agree with you, I find people around have become very thin skinned. I understand this is a "recommendation board" and negative reviews are frowned upon. I can fully understand this as everyone has different tastes. But if a girl blatantly lies about her description in an ad or a reviewer is way off base in their recommendation, this stuff should be called out without facing the wrath of indignant forum users. Everyone has their preferences Im not always attracted to everyone I meet We like what we like BUT there are ways of being respectful when speaking on someone Being an ass hole doesn't make you cool Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites