My friend needs a random encounter

[r100rs 859]

advice wanted. I wish to setup my best friend who needs a treat but I wish him to think it was random. How hard would this be to setup?

 

do any sp's have experience with something like this.

 

r100rs.

[srch4intimacy 204]

I wish I had friends like you! :)

[Kyra.Graves 23779]

I've done this before and for me it was always important understand the environment you are meeting in, meet in advance and know your expectations.

 

• If you look at the environment you are selecting as the meeting place be sure to know it's demographic. If the people that go there are 25-35 be sure that the SP you have selected's true age is in that range and that she is of the social and economic status of the establishments patrons. If not your friend will feel awkward and uncomfortable with this person approaching them. You want someone that fits in and is attractive but never too over or under dressed for the environment, otherwise it will not feel natural.
  
• Meet face to face at least one week in advance. This helps to ensure that she is who she says she is, she understands and meets your needs and also that you can provide her will all the information she will need in order to effectively perform this task. This is not the normal routine for an SP, this is high end relationship sales, she will have to be rainmaker and closer all within the time frame you have allotted. You need to arm her with the information she needs and know that she may or may not succeed. Simple things like your friend eating bad shrimp for lunch may make him say "Hey can I get your number and call you sometime?" This will cause her to fail. You must pay her for her time, both for meeting in advance (feel free to book her for an hour or two for yourself) and for the time she attempts to pick him up at the meeting point.
  
• This comes to know your expectations. Be sure to know what you want out of this. If you want to boost your friends ego then maybe a long flirtation with a very pretty girl will be what he needs, yes her inviting him back will help but if he declines that's okay because he said no. On the other hand if your expectations are that he 'close the deal' then you might be better off ensuring he knows, you might be dissapointed otherwise as circumstances beyond your control can interfere (see bad shrimp example ;) ). The girl you speak with should review this and any girl that tells you without a doubt she will pick him up and close the deal is lying. So be clear about your own expectations and what type of return you want on your investment, if it's just to help a buddy through a rough time then by all means go for it!
  

Good luck!

[Guest **st t***s @]

this is a wicked idea, must be good friend, was wondering if you were also wanting it to be random so your friend doesnt find out about your hobby

kyra's advice is quite stellar

seems like an expensive set up, but could easily become one of those mastercard "priceless" commercials :-D

[Guest i***k***]

A woman of many talents! :)

[esoterica 624]

A woman of many talents! :)

 

More than one can imagine !

[Akhenaton 221]

It's great to see we have so many multi talented ladies on here :)

 

Thanks for provideing that very nice insight Kyra

[Seymour 3970]

I've done this before and for me it was always important understand the environment you are meeting in, meet in advance and know your expectations.

 

• If you look at the environment you are selecting as the meeting place be sure to know it's demographic. If the people that go there are 25-35 be sure that the SP you have selected's true age is in that range and that she is of the social and economic status of the establishments patrons. If not your friend will feel awkward and uncomfortable with this person approaching them. You want someone that fits in and is attractive but never too over or under dressed for the environment, otherwise it will not feel natural.
  
• Meet face to face at least one week in advance. This helps to ensure that she is who she says she is, she understands and meets your needs and also that you can provide her will all the information she will need in order to effectively perform this task. This is not the normal routine for an SP, this is high end relationship sales, she will have to be rainmaker and closer all within the time frame you have allotted. You need to arm her with the information she needs and know that she may or may not succeed. Simple things like your friend eating bad shrimp for lunch may make him say "Hey can I get your number and call you sometime?" This will cause her to fail. You must pay her for her time, both for meeting in advance (feel free to book her for an hour or two for yourself) and for the time she attempts to pick him up at the meeting point.
  
• This comes to know your expectations. Be sure to know what you want out of this. If you want to boost your friends ego then maybe a long flirtation with a very pretty girl will be what he needs, yes her inviting him back will help but if he declines that's okay because he said no. On the other hand if your expectations are that he 'close the deal' then you might be better off ensuring he knows, you might be dissapointed otherwise as circumstances beyond your control can interfere (see bad shrimp example ;) ). The girl you speak with should review this and any girl that tells you without a doubt she will pick him up and close the deal is lying. So be clear about your own expectations and what type of return you want on your investment, if it's just to help a buddy through a rough time then by all means go for it!
  

Good luck!

 

Very well said Miss Kyra - very well written. :smile:

[d*mm*y 887]

r100rs!! How did you know :D gee things have been very down for me lately :)

 

 

And Kyra thanks for joining in this is the kind of input that wins the creb SP award! Fantastic to have your point of view.

[Seymour 3970]

things have been very down for me lately :)

 

I think the only thing down lately is the god damn stock market. :-(

[r100rs 859]

Kyra thanks for the great reply, I will be taking your advice to heart and will plan this situation slowly and perfectly with no expense spared.

 

xox

r100rs.

 

I've done this before and for me it was always important understand the environment you are meeting in, meet in advance and know your expectations.

 

• If you look at the environment you are selecting as the meeting place be sure to know it's demographic. If the people that go there are 25-35 be sure that the SP you have selected's true age is in that range and that she is of the social and economic status of the establishments patrons. If not your friend will feel awkward and uncomfortable with this person approaching them. You want someone that fits in and is attractive but never too over or under dressed for the environment, otherwise it will not feel natural.
  
• Meet face to face at least one week in advance. This helps to ensure that she is who she says she is, she understands and meets your needs and also that you can provide her will all the information she will need in order to effectively perform this task. This is not the normal routine for an SP, this is high end relationship sales, she will have to be rainmaker and closer all within the time frame you have allotted. You need to arm her with the information she needs and know that she may or may not succeed. Simple things like your friend eating bad shrimp for lunch may make him say "Hey can I get your number and call you sometime?" This will cause her to fail. You must pay her for her time, both for meeting in advance (feel free to book her for an hour or two for yourself) and for the time she attempts to pick him up at the meeting point.
  
• This comes to know your expectations. Be sure to know what you want out of this. If you want to boost your friends ego then maybe a long flirtation with a very pretty girl will be what he needs, yes her inviting him back will help but if he declines that's okay because he said no. On the other hand if your expectations are that he 'close the deal' then you might be better off ensuring he knows, you might be dissapointed otherwise as circumstances beyond your control can interfere (see bad shrimp example ;) ). The girl you speak with should review this and any girl that tells you without a doubt she will pick him up and close the deal is lying. So be clear about your own expectations and what type of return you want on your investment, if it's just to help a buddy through a rough time then by all means go for it!
  

Good luck!

[ulixestrojan 3757]

I hope you report back on how this went - great idea and one to emulate.

[Guest f***2f***]

Can I be your friend? I need a random encounter too!:boobies:

[capitalman 3861]

Boner, we should just hook each other up....randomly guess what the other would like and set it up for each other. :)

[dreamer8 510]

Boner, we should just hook each other up....randomly guess what the other would like and set it up for each other. :)

 

I have done this ... it worked out really well ..used the casino as a meeting place (random encounter) ... the trick is it has to be believable. you have to find an SP that is both your friends taste and almost in his reach (or his perceived reach unassisted). So it appears he just got "lucky".

[getiton76 100]

I wish I had friends like you! :)

 

I wish my friends would do the same too. Although, sometimes I wish some of my friends would just skip the middleman(woman) and do it themselves.

[d*mm*y 887]

I wish my friends would do the same too. Although, sometimes I wish some of my friends would just skip the middleman(woman) and do it themselves.

 

You mean the palm sister? Pamela Handerson? I kinda like the woman in the middle good insulation if you ask me!