urbankid 126 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 Hi all. I'm a rookie to the hobby, and my first experience - after the usual but significant investment of time into understanding how this work, choosing a SP, contacting her, etc - was going to be terrific, realizing a fantasy with a gorgeous gal... Except she did not show up for the outcall. I've reviewed details: time and location were clear, we had talked about how it would unfold, and this morning nothing: cellphone is answered but no voice, no email, no cute SP. I certainly hope nothing bad happened to her. But here I am, ready for a party that won't take place :-(. What's your advice? And does this happen often in the milieu? Urbankid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135639 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 This does happen from time to time, you should email or call her and ask her why. This happens in any business and no matter what business you are in it is unprofessional to miss an appointment. I would hope she has a good explanation for this, especially if she is a recommended SP. Hopefully you did your research and chose someone with a good reputation - the chance for a no-show is much less if the SP comes highly recommended. Keep in mind that we all get sick, have emergencies and miss appointment because of human error all the time - it would have been nice to get a call from her with an explanation but hopefully a follow up call or email will help clarify this for you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Peachka 4334 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 Hi all. I'm a rookie to the hobby, and my first experience - after the usual but significant investment of time into understanding how this work, choosing a SP, contacting her, etc - was going to be terrific, realizing a fantasy with a gorgeous gal... Except she did not show up for the outcall. I've reviewed details: time and location were clear, we had talked about how it would unfold, and this morning nothing: cellphone is answered but no voice, no email, no cute SP. I certainly hope nothing bad happened to her. But here I am, ready for a party that won't take place :-(. What's your advice? And does this happen often in the milieu? Urbankid It always helps to have a plan B. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 Hi all. I'm a rookie to the hobby, and my first experience - after the usual but significant investment of time into understanding how this work, choosing a SP, contacting her, etc - was going to be terrific, realizing a fantasy with a gorgeous gal... Except she did not show up for the outcall. I've reviewed details: time and location were clear, we had talked about how it would unfold, and this morning nothing: cellphone is answered but no voice, no email, no cute SP. I certainly hope nothing bad happened to her. But here I am, ready for a party that won't take place :-(. What's your advice? And does this happen often in the milieu? Urbankid I agree with Peachka, just call someone else. Always have a plan B. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
v*****m*n 220 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 give her a bit of time and lets hope she has a good reason for missing the apt. I hope you did not pick this sp from CL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123366 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 just don't tell the someone else she is "plan b"..:wink: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
v*****m*n 220 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 just don't tell the someone else she is "plan b"..:wink: from what I have read and heared, I don't think you were ever a plan B Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerican 657 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 just don't tell the someone else she is "plan b"..:wink: By God Emma you are always a Plan A+++ I never have a plan B, nor do I want one, I plan my encounters far in advance and know what I want...if it goes sideways (only happened once...for a good reason) I will wait for my next chance. If I really want to see X person (which is why I chose them) how could I have as pleasurable a time with another that just happens to be available. My expectation was for X and Y may not offer the same things or be the same body/look type. I dunno, I guess I have never felt that I have to have sex today or right now no matter what...I prefer the experience over the simple act. Currently I have 2 encounters set up this month (hopefully a third soon)and eagerly anticipate each one...if they fall through at the last minute, I will be disapointed, but will just go home and watch some porn methinks. As to what you do, it is a bummer, but put the planned money aside and move on, the best thing about hobbying in Ottawa is the sheer amount of amazing women we can encounter. I would still send an e-mail and give her a chance to let you know what happened, if it was an act of God or explainable reason I am sure she will make it up to you. If not visit the announcements section, then the recommendations section and try to contact another lovely and interesting woman for an encounter at a later time. I think especially because you are new at this you should make sure you do all you can to ensure you will enjoy yourself, pick someone that suits your fantasy and not just your immediate urge...if you do and it's mechanical or not what you were looking for, you may not want to try again as you were double burned. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 just don't tell the someone else she is "plan b"..:wink: Yep, that would be a very bad idea! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
urbankid 126 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 It seems the optimistics among you were correct: my SP just had an emergency, followed by an apologetic email. I hope to find out more and re-schedule. Interesting lesson to self, though. For those who were suggesting a plan B: how do you do that without booking two SPs an ditching one, which is presumably a no-no? UK Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coachg 388 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 I have to agree with all the seasoned veterans on here..if you are dealing with an unknown, then always have a plan B, but as the insightful Emma A suggests, for god's sake never reveal that they are plan B. If you are dealing with the incredible Emma A or a similar lady, then you never have to worry about a plan B, because that plan is going to be out of this world. You will get the hang of it in no time, kid. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 Never happened to me, but if it did, I have a whole list of regulars that are one phone call away that would love to be in my company. ATH Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135639 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 For sure! Never book two at the same time just in case. You would end up as a no show with one and be on a BAD DATE list very quickly doing that. Remember the ladies share info about NO SHOWS, Bad CLIENTS and even such things as pushy and intoxicated behavior and one wrong move could make it so no reputable SP would book with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
R********2 100 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 Yep... as "frustrating" as it feels hang in there! If you want fine wine but you get beer how good can that be? Years ago I did the plan "B" and then even went to plan "C" all in the same night… NOT satisfied :sad: (plan B and C did show up and both were incredibly sexy woman... one of them I'd seen many times before and always had a good time with her except on this night [plan B]) IMHO if your mind is set on a date with a special SP it isn't satisfying to go right to someone else, at least that's what happened to me. So my plan “B” now is to have a good time without an SP. I know that others may not feel the same but hey… we’re all “wired” differently. Roam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
want some fun 721 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 I know what it like you sped time getting ready time is set for 12:00 am and then you don t hear from her till 3:30 am on a work day :ablow: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted September 3, 2009 It seems the optimistics among you were correct: my SP just had an emergency, followed by an apologetic email. I hope to find out more and re-schedule. Interesting lesson to self, though. For those who were suggesting a plan B: how do you do that without booking two SPs an ditching one, which is presumably a no-no? UK You can use as a plan B an sp who does not require advance notice or who only books appts with a shorter lead time. Plus, you can make it easier by having your plan A at an early enough time that you can put plan B into action. Sometimes a client has a certain day or amount of time available to him for this activity, so waiting for another day does not always work. But no you don't want to book two appts for the same day and time "just in case", then end up cancelling one with very short notice. That may backfire, cuz I assume plan B may be another day's plan A lol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted September 4, 2009 Agencies make a good plan B. They don't require prior appointment and you can get a lady (do a search to find out who are the recommended agency ladies) with hour notice. See the thread on Ottawa agencies and their contact info (if you live in ottawa). Never book more than one lady at a time, but my plan B includes a list of agencies, their contact info and their recommended ladies (especially those I have seen before). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted September 4, 2009 just don't tell the someone else she is "plan b"..:wink: I was going to say...but Emma beat me to it.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted September 4, 2009 Agencies make a good plan B. They don't require prior appointment and you can get a lady (do a search to find out who are the recommended agency ladies) with hour notice. See the thread on Ottawa agencies and their contact info (if you live in ottawa). Never book more than one lady at a time, but my plan B includes a list of agencies, their contact info and their recommended ladies (especially those I have seen before). Some of us only require a lead time of one hour if we're available, so don't discount other independents who might be available with short notice. Calling an agency doesn't guarantee they'll get there any faster than the rest of us. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cordsboy 184 Report post Posted September 4, 2009 I have a preferred list to deal with such situations Plan A - SP you book with Plan B - back up SP you can call on short notice Plan C - a porno and a bottle of hand lotion Plan D - My wife :butt: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
