damien709 100 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Why do allot or the older ladies consider themselves top bookers? in my experience the younger girls are better service providers.. what do you think? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Why do allot or the older ladies consider themselves top bookers? in my experience the younger girls are better service providers.. what do you think? Welcome to Cerb, Damien :) To get this conversation started, maybe you could tell us why, in your experience, "younger ladies are better service providers". What does "younger versus "older" mean to you, personally? As far as your first question, I am not certain I understand what it means. Care to expand on the meaning of "top booker"? Thanks :) Additional Comments: Just another question... What makes an SP a good one/a better one in your books? 21 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 An interesting question, I look forward to this discussion! I'm mature and have no issue knowing what my time and service is worth. Every guest has an ideal provider in mind, some prefer younger providers because they are more visual; others prefer a woman who has experience and can take an encounter into deeper connection territory. Age has nothing to do with what a provider considers fair when it comes to considerations; clients determine what they want and decide if the fee is worth the service they are looking for. Obviously there are enough men out there that realize maturity brings a certain element to the equation that is worthy of their patronage... cat 24 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123366 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 I'm a mature provider as well...I don't consider myself a top booker. I consider myself a selective booker. ;) most mature ladies do. We consider quality time over quanity appointments. 23 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf Knight 29667 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 (edited) Damian709, As I'm from you're neck of the woods so I'll welcome you to cerb. The quality or success (what I assume you mean by top bookers) of a companion has nothing to do with age. It has all to do with how that lady interacts with her clients and the experience that she provides. If your "experience" has been that YOU have enjoyed your time with younger ladies more than mature ladies then that's great. Stick with what works for you. I personally have had some of MY best experiences with ladies that would be considered (lol) older. Their intellect and innate ability to understand what I as a client need has been no doubt brought on by their experience and the understanding that the experience is not just about sex. For your first post you decided to poke a bit of a potential hornets nest so please be careful. I recommend that you take your time and read the whole newbie area and become familiar with cerbs rules and tone. It might save you from getting stung. Hmmmm.......ending a post with "what do you think?" seems a little familiar to me, not sure why. Best of luck Edited October 23, 2013 by nlwoodchuck 17 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LonelyPerv 3756 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Welcome aboard Damian709. I have to agree with nlwoodchuck on this one. I've made a couple of posts myself that drew a lot of heat so you have to be careful how you word things here and the tone of your post. For myself, I found a very awesome young lady that I spend most of my time with... so yes, I have to say my current choice is younger ladies. However, don't get me wrong and think that has always been my choice. I have met some very, very attractive, intelligent, and experienced older ladies that blew my doors off. I think that every age has something different to offer and in most cases, the older ladies have the experience to detect what you need and provide that without asking. I'm sure if I had the time, I would love to meet some of the older ladies on CERB. The best way to decide is to just look around. If you see some pictures that draw your attention, you've jumped the first hurdle... you see something you like. Forget about the age thing and take a look at her profile, check out some of her posts, and browse her albums and recommendations. I'm sure you'll find ladies of ALL ages here, very stimulating. Make some comments on pics and maybe post something on her profile. Who knows, maybe she'll make some contact back and you're off to the races. Bottom line is, do not let the age of any ladies here make the decision for you. Go with visual, intellectual, and what your heart feels. I have to warn you though. ALL the ladies here on CERB are incredibly beautiful and very stimulating. You're going to have a hard time picking your first one. hehe Good luck :-) 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CristyCurves 169032 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 (edited) Hi, I'm a mature provider,happily so.Although I do what I have to to market myself. This isn't a business that is kind to aging, nor are some involved in it. But in saying that I don't believe mature means "top bookers, better quality, etc, neither do I think because a provider is young that she'll be more in demand, better looking, etc. Cerb has some gorgeous, incredibly built mature women, some that can certainly hold their own!! I don't like to think one versus the other either, we all have our fans, no one is better than or less than, just different. It's best to have that frame of mind when it comes to most things:) But if your experiences, tastes are swayed towards younger then enjoy and embrace that but don't compare, there's just no need to:) Edited October 24, 2013 by cr**tyc***es 10 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest lkj**4 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 In my experience the older women have something that the younger women don't always have: they know how to fuck! They're not still trying to figure out how everything works but use their experience to to command top booking rights... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SexxxyRebecca 57975 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Btw... When are we considered "old" ?!?:icon_confused: 7 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Why do allot or the older ladies consider themselves top bookers?in my experience the younger girls are better service providers.. what do you think? You are stirring up a hornet's nest like nlwoodchuck said. You don't need to put one group of ladies down because you have a preference for another group of ladies. All the ladies are human beings, with feelings and deserving of respect You may have a particular preference for younger woman, and there is nothing wrong with that. But your preferences aren't every man's preferences. I like ladies where I feel a connection can be made, to me encounters are much more than just sex. And I have had wonderful encounters with ladies in their mid-twenties to their fifties. Something else you'll find, while you talk about your preferences, ladies have preferences in the men they see too. They much prefer to have encounters with respectful gentlemen. Your thread certainly doesn't show too much respect or gentlemanly behavior in my opinion to the ladies, and if I notice it, I'm sure the ladies notice it too. Even the ladies you prefer to see, younger ladies, know they, as we all do, will get older. So does that make them disposable to you, good for only so many years. It is really a demeaning and dehumanizing thing to do to a person and lady Ladies who are providers are very special, for it takes a very special person who can provide an escape and companionship for someone. All providers deserve respect, this thread isn't respectful to all the providers out there Frankly I don't know why you felt the need for such a thread. CERB is in part about providing positive recommendations of ladies. Not about putting down ladies because of age. You asked what we thought, now you know what is thought A rambling RG 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
emb3750 9398 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Meh...none of the ladies here are even close to being old, IMO!! ;) Btw... When are we considered "old" ?!?:icon_confused: 12 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 I believe most of us agree that each lady regardless of age brings her own unique style to the table. I have been fortunate to work with ladies from their 20's to 40's. Each lady I have had the opportunity to work with I had tons of fun with. So my stand ( of course) is all ladies are grand but if you have a preference go for it. This life is short so everyone deserves their preference. Please don't compare us, hey I am mature but you are going to have fun with me!! :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin: 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest realnicehat Report post Posted October 23, 2013 I've said it before and I'll say it again: I don't recall ever involuntarily shuddering as a beautiful woman ran her "age" up the shaft of my cock....... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest a**4* Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Why do allot or the older ladies consider themselves top bookers?in my experience the younger girls are better service providers.. what do you think? How did you come up with older ladies top bookers and young girls are better sound's very disrespectful judgeing ladies think about what you are asking before you print Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 I'm a mature provider as well...I don't consider myself a top booker. I consider myself a selective booker. ;) most mature ladies do. We consider quality time over quanity appointments. From what I can gather from your post and in this thread, a "top booker" is a lady that books the most appointments when she is available? If so, like you and many other ladies, I have always enjoyed quality rendez-vous over quantity therefore I can easily say that I am a selective "top booker" of distinctive quality! :) And I am not using the term "top booker" to represent volume... Additional Comments: Awwwwe, this post is not coming out the way I want to... but it makes sense to me in French... 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fresh start 17467 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 I find your question open to interpretation so this is what I think. Please note there are exception to every rule this may not apply to some and not meant to offend anyone. If top bookers mean more expensive, advance booking and screening. Well this tell me that they take their job more seriously and have more experience in the industry. Prices should be and always be set by the lady, which usually reflects her expense and then her profit as she feels what its worth. Things to consider in price reflection is exactly what Emma said some prefer quality service rather than quantity. Some may have incall location that provide special amenities like a shower, parking, discreet, soaps even beverages. Even reputation can play a factor. Advanced booking Well some ladies like to take time and prepare for each encounter and ensure any special request can be met. Some it may be for scheduling reasons and again reputation can play a factor as well. You must remember a good lady take the time to ensure she is clean and ready. (Make sure you do the same) not all providers stay at hotels all day waiting or at incall location. Touring girls is another factor. Screening This is done for safety reason and some time it help her to see if you're a good fit. Any sp can provide you with sex heck even a blow up doll can, it's each individual experience that they provide that should be considered. Chose the one you like wether its looks or experience or perhaps a certain fantasy they can provide. Remember you shouldn't judge a book by its cover, you may be disappointed or even miss out on certain things others may provide. If I may suggest go in with a open mind and try new things you never know what you like until you've tried. I once met a lady who gave me a prostate massage, wasn't expecting it and well omg it was one of the most memorable encounters I've had. Truly enjoyable! Have fun and good luck! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest realnicehat Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Why do allot or the older ladies consider themselves top bookers?in my experience the younger girls are better service providers.. what do you think? What do I think? I think that if you are going to make a statement like that you should help us understand by sharing some more of your experiences. I would be curious to know how many ladies (young and old) you have met in order to form this hypothesis. I'm also curious as to what gave you the impression that older ladies consider themselves "top bookers"? Is this based on your experience? Ads and posts? Pricing? Some clarification regarding that term may also be helpful. Are you really asking why more experienced ladies feel that they can command the donation they do? If so, the simple answer is "because they can". As many have said, the ladies determine their rates based on what they feel that they bring to the table (or the bed, or the shower, or the ottoman....). Regardless of age, I would hate to meet the provider who feels she isn't worthy of the price she has set. Personally, I don't share your opinion but I would welcome more information as to how you got there. I'm not trying to put you on the spot but explaining your position a little more clearly would go a long way towards securing your reputation on the board. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Personally, I don't share your opinion but I would welcome more information as to how you got there. I'm not trying to put you on the spot but explaining your position a little more clearly would go a long way towards securing your reputation on the board. I don't share his opinion whatsoever, I find it disrespectful to all the ladies. Don't worry, you didn't put him on the spot, he's the one who put himself on the spot. Remember, he wants to know what we think RG 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SassiesWorld 12587 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 seems to me that he is biased ... but to each their own ... as a mature provider and selective ... I will refrain from even considering booking with this gentleman in the future when he realizes that we have more experience and will know what buttons to push and play with ;) and not booking quantity but giving the quality that most are looking for :) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest realnicehat Report post Posted October 23, 2013 I don't share his opinion whatsoever, I find it disrespectful to all the ladies. Don't worry, you didn't put him on the spot, he's the one who put himself on the spot. Remember, he wants to know what we thinkRG I realize that, as first posts go, he laid down a doozy. What I'm hoping is that, with some further explanation, he will prove it to be a naively worded inquiry based on a legitimate curiosity rather than a simple troll bomb. It is exactly the kind of awkward question that a discussion board newb would throw out, oblivious to how disrespectful it may be or how the more established members might react. Either way, we've tossed him enough rope to either pull himself in or hang himself. I'm hoping he picks the first one...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Well pretty sure this is a post meant to stir up all kinds of ulterior outcomes. Why did you feel that this was a post that should have been discussed? I mean, come on...we all have our preferences, from small to tall, thin to PHAT, long hair, short hair, young and mature...what outcome are you looking for? I seriously doubt the outcome is one that you would hope for...I guess you can see we all agree and are on the same page about this topic. Hopefully your next post will be more worthy of a discussion. No sugar coating here folks, it is what it is. BTW I am 39...is that old??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf Knight 29667 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 I realize that, as first posts go, he laid down a doozy. What I'm hoping is that, with some further explanation, he will prove it to be a naively worded inquiry based on a legitimate curiosity rather than a simple troll bomb. Tick, tick, tick..................KABOOM! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Well pretty sure this is a post meant to stir up all kinds of ulterior outcomes. Why did you feel that this was a post that should have been discussed? I mean, come on...we all have our preferences, from small to tall, thin to PHAT, long hair, short hair, young and mature...what outcome are you looking for? I seriously doubt the outcome is one that you would hope for...I guess you can see we all agree and are on the same page about this topic. Hopefully your next post will be more worthy of a discussion. No sugar coating here folks, it is what it is. BTW I am 39...is that old??? No sugar coating it, none of the ladies who posted here, for that matter anywhere, and none of the ladies who were so gracious as to allow me to spend time with them in encounters (and I'm a very lucky man for getting to know them) are old...so no, 39, your not old. RG :-) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 I don't think assumptions about his motivations are necessary. His inquiry isn't that off base as I have had young female providers ask me the very same question because they couldn't understand how I could command double what they asked and book more calls than they did. It's comes from the naive view that great sex is only for the young by the young and is a belief held until one day you look in the mirror and you're not young anymore but still sexual! Let's allow him the opportunity to grow a little bit in the awareness that great sex is ageless and starts in the brain, not the body... cat 16 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cleo Catra 178382 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Can't speak for anyone else, but I can definitely say that I am MUCH better in bed at 31 than I was at 19, and if I'd tried to get into this business at a young age I would have failed, miserably. So, for me, I know that I would NOT have been a 'better service provider' when I was younger, not by a long shot. With a bit of age comes maturity, sexual knowledge, and experience. I truly believe I get better with age, and feel confident that's the same with most - if not ALL - women. 14 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
