Recognized while out

[Oscar10 192]

Do SP's & MA's go out and let loose with friends out on the town or are they too concerned about being recognized by their clients?

[Nathalie L 112512]

I think everyone goes out sometimes. I'm not sure what let loose means but I don't think anyone prevents themselves from living because they are an SP or an MA.

 

It's a rule that if you recognize an SP or MA while you're out and about that you don't approach them, the same goes for an SP or MA who recognizes a client out in public. We keep our distance, pretend we don't know each other, and perhaps send a PM or an e-mail to be like "Hey! I saw you!" in a not-so-creepy way ;)

 

Alternatively, (and if more appropriate), you don't e-mail or PM at all... especially if there wasn't mutual recognition or you've never met the person privately.

[roamingguy 300291]

Really, that question is equally applicable to companions (SPs/MA) and Clients if you think about it. Etiquette as noted by Nathalie is to not acknowledge a lady or gentleman if you run into her/him outside of an encounter. Just walk by each other and pretend you don't know one another.

Ladies shouldn't worry about clients outing them.

And guys shouldn't worry about ladies outing them either

We all respect (or should respect) that we all have lives outside this lifestyle and it should be respected

RG

[Guest realnicehat]

Do SP's & MA's go out and let loose with friends out on the town or are they too concerned about being recognized by their clients?

 

Of course they do, why wouldn't they? Clients require just as much discretion as providers do so, more often that not, there is little issue with recognition.

 

I'm curious, are you actually asking if the ladies are concerned how a client might perceive them after seeing them "let loose"? If seeing her down six shots of Patron and rocking the dance floor might be too different from the sophisticated courtesan image she has developed?

 

Personally, I wouldn't think many ladies would be concerned about this. Their clients repeat for a reason and it has nothing to do with what the provider does outside of their time together.

 

In fact, I can think of more than a few that I would love to see cut loose. Ladies, if I ever win the lottery drinks are on me ;)

[Luscious.Tianna 12254]

I personally love to go out dancing and that hasn't stopped since I've become an SP

I myself have gone to the Casino a few times and have seen clients of mine while I was there and once we made eye contact we both respectfully smiled and looked away

I believe most if not all of us have enough respect not to approach a client or and SP/MA

[IsaMassage 54318]

I live my life as anyone else. . Gi where u want to go., do what I want to do... why would It be different than if I was working at a lawyers office., or for the government... or any other profession...

[EmilyRushton 253346]

Whether I am working or off, I live my life the same. However after what happened in April, my life is a bit more under an umbrella so to speak - but that being said not much has changed. I go out, I have fun and I live each day to its fullest. If I see you in public I will not approach you and I expect the same in return.

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

My life hasn't changed. I have run into clients in public and we have an understanding... A smile or a nod is fine -- but don't come over to me and I won't go over to you. I refuse to change my life for fear of ANYTHING. Life is too short!!!! :)

[2bigalow2 2935]

I saw an sp on the bus 4 years later forgot who she was sat beside her she didn't say anything the 1st time the 2nd time she told me who she was. I did not know. I forgot who she was because I only saw her once but she knew who I was. lol

[CoolCucumber 2610]

My rule on this is that I don't initiate any communication if I see an SP I know in public. Once, I was on a date (a long time ago). We were at St Laurent Mall. We practically walked into an SP I had seen numerous times and I discreetly smiled at her without stopping. She mentioned seeing me the next time I saw her ("I didn't know you had a girlfriend", "I don't"...). With respect to an SP communicating with me, I don't mind if I am alone, especially without my kids. A discreet smile is always nice. But if I am alone and she comes to talk to me, I have no issue. If I am only momentarily alone and the SP comes over, only to have someone else I know join us, I have the perfect excuse already prepared, so it doesn't bother me at all if someone sees us.

[2Legit 250]

Etiquette as noted by everyone in this thread is important. However, that doesn't mean I can't do what I always do when I pass by a hot girl... turn my head and check out dat ass :D

[BootyLoving 2441]

^ ass if you could resist!I can't recognize anyone without confirm the shape of the ass. I'll recognize someone's ass before I'll recognize their face!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I've never been one for nightlife but if I see you in public, I don't know you. If you see me, you don't know me either.

 

Discretion is a 2 way street.

[stand on guard 1186]

Nothing is more awkward than answering "who was that?" if you are with someone. If a knowing glance or smile or conversation takes place, no matter how brief, you are definitely putting the other party in a potentially difficult situation. Keep walking and resist the urge if there is one because you can only do more harm than good. If you feel bad about ignoring them, text, pm or communicate privately at a later date.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

A couple of weeks ago I walked in Starbucks and a lady that I have visited with was in the line up (and a long one at that) in front of me as soon as I walked in she saw me but we acted like we were strangers. By the time we ordered and waited for our respective coffees we had spent at least 10 minutes standing next to each other. The whole time we each went about or normal routines, checking our phones, sending a message etc. just being normal "strangers". When her order was ready and she was about to leave we exchanged a half smile and she left. Nothing more occurred. These ladies have lives just like everyone else and they should be aloud to "just live" like everyone else.

[6dave9 4008]

Same scenario for me as described by NLwood about 3 weeks ago.

It was at a McDonalds, place was practically empty.. I surely recognized the Lady, but we had never met.. So it was all on me to remain calm. ;-)

I PM'd her afterwards.. we had a chuckle..

A quick 2c worth..

D.

[BootyLoving 2441]

I remember seeing someone and the next day we bumped into each other at a mall. She with all her girl friends shopping, me with my friends. They we're check her and her friends out ... Like they would any group of beautiful women.

 

I was teased that I wouldn't know what to do with those girls if they showed up at my door. And this is when you tell them nothing... Unfortunately they started to ask me why I was so quiet ...

 

 

My reply, "Still trying to figure out what to do!"

[Layah 7013]

I was waiting to cross the street at a busy intersection downtown. I looked across the street and recognized a client waiting on the other side. He noticed me too. When the light changed we passed each other and seeing as we were both alone, smiled and nodded at each other and continued on our merry ways.

 

The next day, he texted me and booked an appointment. ;)

[JoyfulC 132299]

My husband has a business helping people get themselves and their vehicles home after a night of drinking. I drive the follow car. Although no one is supposed to ride in our vehicle, it often happens that someone will run over and jump in the car with me. Who knows why? And because they've been drinking, I usually find it easier just to let them ride along than to object.

 

So a couple weeks back, I had this amazing session with someone. Later that evening, Fred had a job involving multiple drop offs from one vehicle. It was a truck and space was limited, so one of the guys ran over and hopped in our car. We turned to look at each other... and laughed our asses off! What a coincidence!

[Peter Smith 808]

On several occasions i have run into ladies I have been with, if they don't recognize me I just smile to myself and relive the memories. If they recognize me I may do nothing or just wink. What happens in vegas stays in vegas.

[igab 5629]

This has happened to me a number of times. In all cases I just carried on as if I was normal. On one occasion the SP and I were in a Timmy's line up and we were both obviously alone so we exchanged a "hi, how are you?" like you would with any friend or acquaintance.

[2Legit 250]

I was out and about once, walking along a busy street in downtown Montreal. I spot one of the popular at that time agency SPs with some dude. As I walked by them I slightly turned my head to check her out (she was wearing very hot jeans!)... and she turned too and gave me a smile. I smiled back and just kept walking...

 

Next thing you know, her "agent" publicly accused me on another internet review board that I was stalking her!!!! LOL LOL LOL... I was like WTF!!! True story. Later I found out that since I haven't "seen" her for a long time and since business was kinda slow in the middle of the winter, her "Agent" on purpose accused me to drum up business and make me feel bad for not "seeing" her, so that I would call him. Of course her "agent's" strategy didn't work since I don't fall for this kind of crap. Pardon the language.

 

Lesson learned: Girls need attention, moreover girls in this line of business need WAY MORE attention than others.

[Guest realnicehat]

Lesson learned: Girls need attention, moreover girls in this line of business need WAY MORE attention than others.

 

I think maybe you'll be offered another lesson once the ladies of cerb read the above statement. ;)

[Ashley Ann 75247]

Just want to start by saying that I have had many public run ins with clients-and I have to say 98% of them are just as private about our encounters as I am, and they all handle themselves accordingly ;) as do I :)

 

Here is a story on what NOT to do when you run into an sp in a public setting.

 

I was at the casino last year with a gf of mine. We had a very nice time. About a week or so after-I meet with a regular client of mine-who indicates to me that:

 

1) Was with his friends and he saw me

2) Told his friends how he knew me and what I do

3) Tried to find me-looked all over the casino-so he could introduce me to his friends as an sp

 

Thank GOD-he did not find me that night. When he told me this-I could not believe it...His intentions were not meant to be bad-however I feel humiliated that he just spit out that info about me-that these guys know who I am as VANESSA VALE-yet I have no clue as to who they are or what they look like. IT was super invasive. And no offence, but also scary when someone can act so stupidly carless when it comes to discretion.

 

He thought this would benefit me financially. I would rather starve and have my lights turned off than expose myself as an sp to whomever, because just like our clients, many of us ladies have to keep this hush hush too ;)

 

It would be just as bad as me pointing out to my friends who I spend time with as an sp....privacy is important for both parties.

[waterat 20911]

Vanessa I totally agree this dude's action were incredibly careless. Definitely a cautionary tale.

 

Not that it excuses his actions in any way - perhaps he was 'extremely, extremely inebriated' a la Rob Ford! lol

 

It is important to always remember that discretion is paramount.