Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 Curious.....If an SP is in great shape and looks fabulous (not just for her age for for any age), how old is TOO old? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Soleil Sublime 38108 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 Perhaps in her late sixties, early seventies. Athough I know menopause can dry a poor woman out worse than the Sahara, but there's always lube I suppose. Anyway, I think there's a market for any age, and forcing a woman into retirement because of her age, could be considered ageism. Thoughts? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Fantasy 144625 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 I found late sixties and seventies a bit too much. But it's true that there is a demand for older women. Gerontophilia have always existed and will always be. Thought for me 55 yrs old, seem a good age to retired or at least starting thinking of it. But if you start at 18-19, not so sure it's always that a good idea do that job for that long. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 I guess one should hang it up if the biz doesn't give you a buzz anymore. But if the criteria is strictly age, I would feel uncomfortable seeing a lady in her 50s. That being said, I've experienced Lilli-Love and she's in her mid-50s I think. The energy of that lady is unbelievable - she could suck a bowling ball through a straw!! :cooter: I've only been with her once though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
buggernot 588 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 I keep flipping them over to find a date on their bottom, and still haven't found an expiry date yet. Will keep looking. They must be like honey... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 K buggernot...very funny....how about a best before date? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
buggernot 588 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 K buggernot...very funny....how about a best before date? Well that one's easy...with some, it's probably about a minute or 2 before times up. Depends on how fresh they are that day ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 HAHAHA too funny....I love your sense of "dry" humour... right along the lines of what I would answer :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chanel Reign 28097 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 (edited) I am in my 40s and have no intentions on slowing down at 50 or 55. I look at this way - I will probably be doing this until my phone stops ringing. With baby boomers getting older and not all older gentleman wanting to see young girls, I suspect I will be busy for a few more years. I'm just get warmed up! Edited February 7, 2010 by Chanel Reign fix text Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
buggernot 588 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 I have to stop there though. I might get into trouble using any more fruit and vegetable metaphors to describe women... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stevecurious 42059 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 (edited) Physical condition and appearance aside I believe it is inevitably up to both the lady and the clients she has as to what age is too high. To some 40 maybe too high, to others 50, still others may find 35 to be "over the hill." Since this conversation is not about physical appearances it is all dependant on individual tastes and beliefs as to how old is too old. I believe this industry is like every other industry. As long as you are willing and capable to perform the tasks demanded of you in your work place it should be up to you to determine when it is time to retire! Personally speaking I find a mature more experienced woman much preferable than a younger less mature girl. There are aspects of life that a mature lady can conversate with you that a younger girl may not be aware of...yet. Of course I am speaking in general terms and by no means am I lumping all ladies into two categories of "young and old." Strictly speaking I find ladies who are over, let's say 30 years of age for an arbitrary number, to be much more fun and confident than someone who is less "seasoned." Edited February 7, 2010 by S***ec*****s Grammar 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mikeyboy 27113 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 I feel that like in all other industries, the simple rules of supply and demand apply here. As long as she is able to keep a list of clients, she should continue for as long as she enjoys the work. For many ladies, keeping a client long term has as much to do with their personalities as it does their appearance. At the end of the day though, if she no longer has any clients, then it's probably time to stop! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stevecurious 42059 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 Curious.....If an SP is in great shape and looks fabulous (not just for her age for for any age), how old is TOO old? After reading and replying to this thread I am wondering how old is too old for a CLIENT? Ladies what age client is too old for you to see? Guys how old will you be when you stop hobbying? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mikeyboy 27113 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 After reading and replying to this thread I am wondering how old is too old for a CLIENT? Ladies what age client is too old for you to see? Guys how old will you be when you stop hobbying? Good question stevecurious. I'll keep hobbying as long as they'll have me! On a similar note, is there such a thing as too young (above legal age of course) where you would be uncomfortable with a client? (Especially for the more mature sps who maybe even have grown up kids of their own.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bucky501 923 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 some of the SPs I have had the pleasure of their company are 40+ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bucky501 923 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 some of the best SPs I have had the pleasure to spend time with are 40+ there are a lot of good reasons for that And Meg...you are a perfect example:ablow: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 I will absolutely keep doing this work until no one will pay to see me anymore! There is something to be said for a Mrs. Robinson :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123366 Report post Posted February 6, 2010 I'm 40 + and proud of my age. I started doing this when i was 37. I totally love it. I have found sex has gotten much better since i was young. Being able to be sexually free is a wonderful thing. I have done things i would never have done when i was younger. Thinking they were crazy..haha..maybe I'm just crazy now....lmao crazy yet loving it more all the time. I'm much more confident in my sexuality now. As far as the youngest men i would see that would be 25...i have seen younger and just didn't feel right about it. My oldest son is 21 so it just seems weird to me. The oldest client i have is 84 and is still a wonderful lover...for some people it's the act of making love not the action that counts.:wink: 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest C*****tte Report post Posted February 6, 2010 In terms of clients I have had a client in his 80s. He was absolutely delightful and I hope to see him again if the opportunities presents itself. He is in a city I do not visit often. I have had many clients in their 60s. Also delightful. I have more of an issue with those under 30. They tend to be a bit more judgmental about my choice to be an escort as well as have less respect for the art of good sexual encounters. Yes, stereotyping on my part. If we engage in an interesting dialogue via email and we are on the same page I will see someone from the under 30 set. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stevecurious 42059 Report post Posted February 7, 2010 I have more of an issue with those under 30. They tend to be a bit more judgmental about my choice to be an escort as well as have less respect for the art of good sexual encounters. Yes, stereotyping on my part. If we engage in an interesting dialogue via email and we are on the same page I will see someone from the under 30 set. I have heard of this before from some well known and respected ladies. At first I took issue with it, seeing as I am in my late twenties. However after I took a step back and looked at it from HER point of view I started to understand why ladies have this opinion. Charlotte is quite correct if you are under the ladies age limit as it were and you are able to conduct an initial contact in an adult manner you will usually be lucky enough to meet that particular lady. FYI the first impression you get of a person who uses: gr8, dis, dat, u, luv, etc. in his opening email is generally not good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ottanon 2930 Report post Posted February 7, 2010 I agree. I prefer more mature SP's. I feel guilty seeing a 20 year old. I am in my 40s and have no intentions on slowing down at 50 or 55. There are some fabulous 50 plus Sps including our own Joyful Spirit, Christine. I recently met an SP in Toronto who is 68 years old and still in the business. I look at this way - I will probably be doing this until my phone stops ringing. With baby boomers getting older and not all older gentleman wanting to see young girls, I suspect I will be busy for a few more years. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stevecurious 42059 Report post Posted February 7, 2010 I agree. I prefer more mature SP's. I feel guilty seeing a 20 year old. Although I do not feel guilty seeing a twenty year old I find that I do not (generally speaking) connect mentally with ladies this young. I find that a woman who is more experienced...with life in general has more to offer.In my experience younger ladies are more concerned with getting you in and getting you off! Where as women of an older age are more open to conversation and getting to know you prior to "going into the other room." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted February 7, 2010 I am in my 40s and have no intentions on slowing down at 50 or 55. I look at this way - I will probably be doing this until my phone stops ringing. With baby boomers getting older and not all older gentleman wanting to see young girls, I suspect I will be busy for a few more years. I'm just get warmed up! I couldn't have said it better myself. I admire SPs like Christine (Joyful-Spirit) who looks fabulous at 50+. So at what age will we start being referred to as "Golden Girls"? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BownChickaBown 4829 Report post Posted February 7, 2010 Age is all in the Bed! :motion: If you only do missionary @ 20 it's like you are 80. :handjob: If you swing from the chandelier @ 80 it's like you are 20. :bddog: IMO, Expiry date = Death. :pimp: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted February 7, 2010 I've always thought "when you stop making money" then you're too old. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
