Why do YOU hobby?

[Guest Ou**or**n]

"Lots of sex with beautiful young women."

 

In the end this is the best reason :)

[PistolPete 61421]

Because I wake up in the morning with a woody.:handjob:

 

So my tendency is to use it then lose it, and besides far too many ladies, so little time :mrgreen::69::motion::bddog::bjs:

 

Thanks ladies I enjoy my hobby:bowdown::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:

[f158 973]

I am a newbie with 2 sessions to my credit (ty to the beautiful Megan).

 

I have turned to this hobby, because i find it to be a more honest, respectable way of enjoying pure, erotic, enjoyable sex without feelings of guilt and shame.

 

And, I repeat what Newton said: I love sex...and I love women.

 

I do have a s/o who does give out and I want to keep her cause I love her - but I need a little variety. So, I much prefer to visit a service / massage provider for pure, honest, erotic sex than put on a mask, be dishonest and find someone for a cheap tawdry one night stand and feel guilty for the next week.

 

I hope this makes sense to you!

 

Michael

 

I could not have said it better! At 47 I've been a very good boy for over 20 years but I have to say that I started to get that "itch" (a good itch ha ha) a few years ago and went out to see if the grass was indeed greener on the other side.....I did have an affair with another married woman and I soon found out that not only was the grass greener...but felt very nice and soft between my toes....the lovemaking was fantastic, just what the Doctor ordered, however I did find that having an affair was such an emotional roller coaster ride......so I got off that ride and now visit the occasional service provider whenever it fits my mood. I find this to be much more honest and I can emotionally compartmentalize my encounters and still feel good about myself.

 

I'm a mere newcomer to this life and already I've met and experienced some wonderful women and I think I'm a better man for it.

 

Thanks CERB for putting that skip back into my step :motion:

[goodguy613 223]

Great topic and so many different reasons, I am not exactly what you call and active hobbyist but I do enjoy reading all the posts and viewing the amazing photos. We are truly fortunate to have such beautiful women sharing their thoughts and images and when the mood strikes we are able to enjoy a fleeting moment in their arms.

 

For me it is about the new experience, I admit was a late bloomer and had little experience before I was married. Most of my previous experience was limited to a few positions. Since then I have ventured out to try many different experiences including some that I believe may be illegal in some provinces :grin: and they have each contributed to my overall well being.

 

I also have the opportunity to do things that by SO doesn't enjoy, it wasn't a big deal earlier but now I have learned more and worked on technique so I am grateful to the beautiful women of CERB who allow me to enjoy my occasional cravings.

[Guest isla*****d]

I'm a newbie too! I've been meaning to hire an escort but haven't yet :sad: mainly because I'm a student and money is tight until this summer (Hopefully).

 

Some reasons why I'm wanting to 'Hobby' is because I want to try different and safe experiences. Plus I'm really shy and I hope this will make me come out of my shell more :grin:

 

Can anybody recommend someone for my first time experience? :?:

[Guest S**a*Q]

I honestly wanted to go to Amsterdam and go shopping for a ladyfriend...

 

But since I got into this business, on the other side of everything, I've realized that there are tons of hotties here in Canada/Ontario that I wanna spend time with!!!

 

My one reason, is cause I've never done it before, and I don't like to not have done something... Gotta add that to my repetoire of things (or people) I have done!

[RedShirt 150]

I am new to this as a few others have said. I am completely in love with my wife, but we never have sex. I just needed to experience great sex again. I blame the media for marketing it so well :lol:

[wpg2010 203]

Hot women that I would not meet any other way

 

Fantasy "everything is about me"

 

Ego "everything is about me"

 

No drama

[PAPERSILO 41]

i havent yet . been so busy with work do not have time to go out and meet any1 . just joined this site yesterday on the advice of a co-worker , so have been checking out sum of the posts and learning which ladies would be best for me to start with . always been afraid to try , thinking for sure i would get busted , but but thru this site i do feel a lot more confident now . thanx every1 .

[Guest isla*****d]

i havent yet . been so busy with work do not have time to go out and meet any1 . just joined this site yesterday on the advice of a co-worker , so have been checking out sum of the posts and learning which ladies would be best for me to start with . always been afraid to try , thinking for sure i would get busted , but but thru this site i do feel a lot more confident now . thanx every1 .

 

I'm in the same boat

[RedShirt 150]

PAPERSILO and islandspud, just be be smart about it and only go if you feel safe. If anything about it feels off then do not bother. Plus if your worried about getting caught, look for situations that do not deviate to much from your normal schedule. Also act normal. Although in your mind you might think every one knows what you are up to, they don't and they don't care.

[Reddog01 30280]

My two cents:

• For the lack of experience when younger;
  
• For the excitement of something new;
  
• Missing something at home;
  
• Interacting with a beautiful woman without strings;
  
• For the adventure and maybe the "risk" of doing something illicit; and
  
• Lastly, maybe because of an addittion to this activity.....
  

Sometimes you can get what you are looking for at a SC, re the 4th bullet above, but the risk of getting emotionally involved might be more. Although, I imagine that if you keep seeing the same SP this could happen as well.

[antlerman 17064]

I prefer going back to Latin sayings.....

 

EGO hobby quoniam EGO can.............I hobby because I can

My all time favorite.....

 

Qui can hobby operor , quod thse ut can non lurk

Those who can hobby do, and those that can not lurk

hjehehehehehehe

[Cato 160314]

I prefer going back to Latin sayings.....

 

EGO hobby quoniam EGO can.............I hobby because I can

 

My all time favorite.....

 

Qui can hobby operor , quod thse ut can non lurk

 

Those who can hobby do, and those that can not lurk

 

hjehehehehehehe

 

Spoken with all the eloquence of my good friend Cicero.

[Newton 714]

Mine:

 

I need, so I do.

 

I hobby because I can

[Ice-T 157]

I love women, especially sexy women who know what they're doing.

[swegin 5885]

I think for me it's the fact that I'm fairly well-off, and I'm at a point in my life where I'm fairly relaxed and I know what I want. I enjoy enthusiastic women, and touching, and new experiences.

[renegade 11027]

I have been with my so for 36 years and and could never "Cheat" in a traditional way on her,it was after an extended illness she had and still has that caused me to seek the services of a professional to capture some of the intimacy I missed-My first experience was almost my last,it was that bad-lol-however i tried again after doing my homework here and received all i was looking for and more, there are truly some very special women here and that has helped me keep my relationship healthy however i still feel some guilt - guess i always will

[justanotherguy 100]

For me the answer is simple. I love women but I like the freedom of being single.

[misterdynomite30 174]

I hobby for various reasons :

 

- No guessing games about if the money you spend is going to get you laid or not.

- No ties or strings and the respect is there after you part ways.

- The balance of Mutual benefits ;)

- Im single and honestly love the excitement/rush of meeting with a new someone for the first time for a fun time.

- Your business is hush hush (unlike picking up at bars)

- I love sex

 

;)

[stevecurious 42059]

Your business is hush hush (unlike picking up at bars)

 

This one comment really does apply to a lot of guys. Especially those of us who live in small communities where everyone really does know everyone elses business!