CampCo511 100 Report post Posted April 29, 2010 So I've been a hobbyist for a few years now... and in the 10+ women i have seen i have never been able to have one make me orgasm... in the 30-60min apt i make with any sp... hot or not... pro or am... nothing... lol i propose a challenge! :motion: someone find someone who might just be up to it :P :bddog: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted April 29, 2010 So I've been a hobbyist for a few years now... and in the 10+ women i have seen i have never been able to have one make me orgasm... in the 30-60min apt i make with any sp... hot or not... pro or am... nothing... lol i propose a challenge! :motion: someone find someone who might just be up to it :P :bddog: err.....have you considered a medical check up ? Seriously, you might have an underlying medical condition prostate ? kidneys ? testosterone levels ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135639 Report post Posted April 29, 2010 I agree with etasman, the problem is not the ladies it's either physical or psychological and you are searching for help in the wrong places. Your actions in the chat room earlier today forced me to remove you from the chat room and suspend you from the site so I have a good idea of what one this is. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted April 29, 2010 - 30 min not enough time? - start with massage, get totally relaxed and then go from there. Many clients I see do not always get as far as fs, considering the way I do an erotic massage, hj, and so on - do not expect to finish in fs, but at the end move to hj or bj as long as there is no condom. Condoms can add extra stress, imo, for someone who is thinking they are not going to cum. - At the finish, make sure you are NOT on your back. Standing or kneeling is better. - Repeat repeat repeat, meaning choose one sp and keep returning to that one sp until you achieve this goal. Switching partners is almost a guarantee to not get what you are seeking; staying with one sp means that by the 3rd or 4th visit, you will increase your chances of success. Make the first 1 or 2 visits non-fs, and aim for a hj finish. I have found all of the above techniques very successful, and work also well for someone who cums very quickly. The idea is to enjoy the journey. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted May 3, 2010 A girl I know, recounted a story to me of a guy she knows that had the same problem......until she introduced him to another male guy she knows. Neither male is gay, however they both seemed to like each other while in her company and orgasmed quite well.....so she told me! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Loki318 1631 Report post Posted May 3, 2010 A girl I know, recounted a story to me of a guy she knows that had the same problem......until she introduced him to another male guy she knows. Neither male is gay, however they both seemed to like each other while in her company and orgasmed quite well.....so she told me! Interesting .. very interesting I'd like to try that some day .... Loki318 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest s******ecan**** Report post Posted May 3, 2010 As Mod said there are many reasons that can cause this to be an issue. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ottanon 2930 Report post Posted May 3, 2010 Just to pipe in I also have a difficult time to reacha happy ending in an hour. Neither physical or physcological, just me. When I say an hour I mean full on 1 hour. There is the rare occaison that 15-20 mins but very rare. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
