C-36. Now what?

[Guest *Ste***cque**]

Here is my hobby strategy once C-36 is law.

 

This is more for SP's I haven't built a relationship with already.

I will only book appointments with reputable SP's or with a woman who has been vouched for by a reputable SP.

I will only discuss companionship(no sex acts) in all texts and emails, which is still legal. How much for an hour of your "time"?

When I arrive at the location I will say hello, provide my envelope and say "thanks for giving me some of your time". I will wait for her to make the first move, which she usually does anyway. I may even say with a smile "I wasn't expecting this" once she starts kissing me, and then dive in. :)

I will stick to CERB.

Yes, this may seem extra paranoid but better safe than sorry until I get comfortable that she is reliable.

 

For SP's

 

You can run your business any way you choose but I won't be reaching out to SP's who clearly are advertising sexual ........ on their website. I can't really act surprised when things turn sexual if it's advertised all over your site.

I even wonder how safe using acronyms will be. It doesn't require much of a leap for law enforcement to figure these out.

If I contact a woman for an appointment from a cell number or email she provides on her site which advertise sexual ........ I am breaking the law, period, with serious consequences attached. My safety is solely in her hands at that point.

Ideally, I would prefer seeing a woman who only advertises "companionship", and posts pictures but nothing too sexually suggestive.

I suspect an SP would be able to explain on her site how she enjoys travelling, long conversations or quick chats and enjoys reading and writing sexually suggestive literature. She could even post a few examples of her writing on her site. That way I could learn whether she likes intense eroticism or more of a romantic version. She could get her preferences across, I could decide if we are likeminded and I would not be breaking the law by reaching out to this person to book some time with.

 

I realize this may seem extreme and most of you can continue on as before. I think by making some changes to your advertising an SP can still get the message out while not making her clients break the law.

 

Maybe this is just the wishful thinking of a desperate man. :)

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

I get what you mean for sure. I have never really been a naughty advertiser, so for that matter there is not much change for me.

 

I will not be changing my photos, as I do state I am a Model, and ...... art is a style that many artists use as a genera, not saying my Photo's are pornography however. In fact, 2 of my photo's were used in an art gallery here in Fredericton, was topless but very tasteful. So if they can hang that on a art gallery wall, I am more then comfortable with showing my model portfolio.

[Guest ***y****9]

Maybe i am naive, but I really question whether things will change that much under ..... For the first few months, everyone will be cautious and then we will be back to normal in terms of pms and phone conversations.

Text is the only slightly risky activity as there is proof.

I may be in the minority but I'm not very concerned

[peacectryguy 12523]

Problem is not so much if I remove what I do on my site,that is already not graphic, I am not into graphic details but it is what I don't do that cause problems.

I do not want to have to explain during a meeting the activities that are a no-no...I prefer the expectations to be clear beforehand but if all that is allowed is very vague some confusion can occur and some disappointment ...or the way I see it I will end up spending even more time in emails exchanges to make sure we are on the same page...which was the point of having a site: not repeat all the time the do's and don't...

 

Lily, I understand what you are saying but I think it is something both SP's and clients will have to deal with. The first few minutes of a session will have to be devoted to discussing these things instead of just "getting right to it". A little inconvenient, yes but something people will have to do. Honestly, in many cases, we already do this and I don't think it's really that big of a deal. It only takes a couple of minutes and can be done without ruining the atmosphere or moment pretty easily. Hell, I've discussed it with some ladies after coming out of the shower.

The emails are another option, I suppose but sometimes not practical if a guy is at work or on his phone. I think there are only a few "menu" items that are sticking points anyway. We all know what they are and if we haven't already established which certain providers we see who offer those, some of us may just have to deal with a little less sometimes until we do. I can't speak for everybody but I think we can adapt pretty easily if we just are smart about it.

[mrgreen760 37785]

Simple for me, if I haven't met you prior to December 6 then in all likelihood I won't meet you after Dec 6. I have a couple of long term options and when they go I'll probably follow suit.

 

I've never been a "menu" guy as chemistry is the key for me and I've always marched to my own drummer so reco's and reviews don't mean very much.

 

Too much hassle or too many hoops to jump then I'll lose interest pretty quickly. I have a short attention span :)

 

Peace

MG

[Guest N***he**Ont**y]

I will be following with great interest all that will be occurring. I have made enough contacts and friends in my "CIRCLE" that I will not be seeing any new comers into the industry. I wish you all well and much success in your chosen profession.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Problem is not so much if I remove what I do on my site,that is already not graphic, I am not into graphic details but it is what I don't do that cause problems.

I do not want to have to explain during a meeting the activities that are a no-no...I prefer the expectations to be clear beforehand but if all that is allowed is very vague some confusion can occur and some disappointment ...or the way I see it I will end up spending even more time in emails exchanges to make sure we are on the same page...which was the point of having a site: not repeat all the time the do's and don't...

 

I have begun to use code phrases on my website or will let them know on the phone... "G" ( I can't use the full word here) is a place that is NOT stamped on my passport." If a person doesn't understand what that means, good luck to them. People are going to have to read between the lines. Another is "I will or will not travel the world twice in an hour." "6-9 is one of my favorite numbers." Let's get creative people! This is how it was done before all this menu b.s.

[FunValerie 8573]

I agree. Let's get creative. There was life before menus and there will be life after menus.

[kmwq 5477]

Simple for me, if I haven't met you prior to December 6 then in all likelihood I won't meet you after Dec 6. I have a couple of long term options and when they go I'll probably follow suit.

 

I've never been a "menu" guy as chemistry is the key for me and I've always marched to my own drummer so reco's and reviews don't mean very much.

 

Too much hassle or too many hoops to jump then I'll lose interest pretty quickly. I have a short attention span :)

 

Peace

MG

 

Mr G, why do you say Dec 6? I thought it's law now.

[mrgreen760 37785]

Mr G, why do you say Dec 6? I thought it's law now.

 

I think 30 days after Bill-36 passed it comes into effect. November 6 was the date it was declared. (Apparently my understanding is incorrect)

 

And the reality is if I haven't seen some one by now then I have reasons other than Dec 6.

 

Peace

MG

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

Mr G, why do you say Dec 6? I thought it's law now.

Some parts are already law and some come into effect only on Dec. 6th.

[LeeRichards 177238]

Some parts are already law and some come into effect only on Dec. 6th.

 

Why yes. After passing a totally dangerous and tunnel visioned bill like this one..... a gov't needs at least 30 days to build a new bomb shelter. But these fucknuts will probably fly a CPC flag on top of the shelter anyways..............

[kmwq 5477]

Thanks, I didn't see any provisions in the bill for the 30 days and if there isn't a provision then it's law now. But, I should say the I only skimmed because who can actually read all those crazy words without falling asleep.

[stevechristie 100]

Thanks for outlining the bill

[CostaRiz 110]

Yes, 30 days, see "COMING INTO FORCE" at the end of

http://www.parl.gc.ca/HousePublications/Publication.aspx?Language=E&Mode=1&DocId=6767128

It says:

COMING INTO FORCE

Thirty days after royal assent

49. The provisions of this Act, other than sections 46 to 48, come into force 30 days after the day on which this Act receives royal assent.

[Guest *Ste***cque**]

Problem is not so much if I remove what I do on my site,that is already not graphic, I am not into graphic details but it is what I don't do that cause problems.

I do not want to have to explain during a meeting the activities that are a no-no...I prefer the expectations to be clear beforehand but if all that is allowed is very vague some confusion can occur and some disappointment ...or the way I see it I will end up spending even more time in emails exchanges to make sure we are on the same page...which was the point of having a site: not repeat all the time the do's and don't...

 

Hi Lily,

 

My personal preference is for the woman to indicate on her website her tastes with a "certain" literary style or story. She can say "I enjoy reading and writing naughty literature and would love to discuss this with you when we meet, if you are so inclined". "Here's a few samples that I've posted on my website". You can be very creative in your story about likes or dislikes.

As an example:

 

Her version of 50 shades of grey - We finally meet after fantasizing about it for so long. As I opened the door, I grabbed him to me and we kissed long and deep. His fresh breath was warm against my neck which was driving me crazy. I told him about the things I fantasized doing to him and now that he's here I can hardly resist. He said he had been thinking about me as well and was having a hard time resisting kissing every part of my body. I told him to take me completely, but safely. Everything was his except for my ass. I was not yet ready for that carnal pleasure, I breathed in his ear. We tore each others clothes off and headed for the shower knowing we would need to be clean before getting so dirty...

 

Our first date - he was so gentle, knowing I was worried about going too far on a first date. He intuitively sensed my desire to take it slow. I wanted him but wanted it to be special for us both. He said he wants me to be his girlfriend and to experience all the pleasures that couples share. I told him we should go slow at first until we got to know each other better. He was fine with certain things being off limits for the time being. With a smile I led him to the bed where I kept a supply of condoms, knowing we may be enjoying "several" bouts of ecstasy.

 

LOL. I hope you get where I'm going with this. Being a cautious person I would prefer a lady let me know her interests in this way as opposed to more direct discussions with acronyms. Story telling is just a form of artistic expression, after all. Now, maybe some people won't be able to read between the lines and for them you can have a more frank discussion but this allows the rest of us to share our interests, legally.

 

I'll admit, this does seem somewhat silly but for us paranoid clients seeing you for the first time, it's comforting to know I'm not breaking the law by seeing you for your time and having heavy discussions on literature... and who knows, maybe we hit it off? :)

 

Damn system won't let me type ero tic.

[Anderson1111 130]

So the new laws don't come into effect until Dec 6th, but I thought it passed last week. Is there something I'm not getting?

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[Midnite-Energies 110563]

Every new bill has a 30 day provision after receiving Royal Assent before it becomes law. This is in the federal comments of how a bill becomes a law. It is not specifically written into this bill because it covers every bill.

 

The 30 day provision gives those who need to comply, support, carry out etc. to get their ducks in a line.

[LeeRichards 177238]

The 30 day provision gives those who need to comply, support, carry out etc. to get their ducks in a line.

 

Tracie..... I work every day surrounded by a wildlife refuge. NOT once have I been able to get the damn ducks to fucking line up !! ;) So if you do please share your secret with me :) !!! hehe