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I personally believe that if a married man is going to fool around on his wife, the kindest and safest thing to do is to hire an escort. Why? Most of us are super safe, get tested for STDs regularly and will never take things further than a sexual relationship. We are professionals. I personally care very deeply about not only my clients, but their sexual partners currently and in the future. STDs can destroy lives and families. I make sure that there is no chance of catching or spreading any type of disease when you are with me. I think most professional escorts are the same and care about not only their clients ... but their significant others as well. We are much safer than picking up a woman in a bar and/or taking on a mistress, who could fall in love with you and try to break up your marriage.

Hey Man, I think Lili is pretty much the same as always. I happen to adore her, as she is incredibly quirky and hilarious. I dont think anyone has ever made my blush more then Lili, which is quite a feat as I am a darker fellow who rarely, if ever, does.

Mod, you just need to inform the guys with 13-inch monitors that size really does matter! :smile: (I can't believe no one said this before now!)

Thanks Dummpy! I am excited to get back into the fun :) Going to take a little while to get used to all the features here!

Anita at the risk of getting into an argument I'm going to not and leave it at that you dont fully understand the SP or SP-client etiquette. And unfortunately have some stereotypes about us SPs and our clients that are very society driven. i can't blame you, but being a member on this boards I would expect more when you read comments by polite gentlmen...not power-hunters obviously services or service-types are communicated clearly between clients and SPs beforehand. why would an SP show up not wanting to be someone's lover? Most SPs get just as much pleasure out of their encounters as the men who pay for their time. if she does that and there has been no communication beforehand that she is an escort that functions solely on company and no intimacy, then she should have clearly noted that beforehand and if the client wishes to go elsewhere he will. if she doesn't clearly communicate beforehand, shes a crappy escort...plan and simple, misleading someone shouldnt happen. You're allowed to have your opinions Anita, but you also have to take what others who are more involved directly say with some belief. The MP and SP world are different I'll agree, but we have more control and dignity in common than I think you're willing to admit

Humm Emma this sounds very familiar to me for some strange reason. I do want to add that the prostrate gland is a small Walnut size bump (if you are healthy) and should feel soft and possibly have some ridges on it. The best way for a newbie to experience this from a mans perspective is on his back. being on all fours is all little intimidating if you've never had one before. So on his back you can start by lubing his ass. You can rim him with your tongue if your comfortable doing it, but lubing should be sufficient. Then I would suggest slowly rubbing the anus and gently and slowly inserting one finger. Always remember slow going in and slow pulling out. This feels the best. Once your finger is in then look for the Prostrate which should be about 2 or more inches in and up towards his balls. Once you have you can rub it gently in circles, side to side or whatever your lover responds to. You'll know when you reach the spot by the way he squirms. You can ask if if he's comfortable and continue massaging. A BJ is wonderful during a PM. Cumming with your finger still inserted is to die for. A man can actually have an orgasm just through getting his prostate massaged. Hope this information from a mans perspective helps Hun

slow and gentle inserting your finger{i wear a condom} into your lovers ass...i like to have him very excited b4 the hand...haha ...make sure hes in the state where he would say yes to anything you ask...rim him then slowly with insert one finger....keep sucking him and arousing him all the while... {tie him to the bed is necessary}haha once he is comfortable with the feel of your finger move in a bit further ...feel for the prostrate...its feels very similar to your g-stop once you have found it massage it .. i like to give a bj while doing this...and a few other things but i can't be telling all my secrets..wink you will be able to tell if he is enjoying it sand I'm sure he will be...look at his face...i bet his eyes are closed or glazed over...and his making some wonderful sounds... you will know for sure he enjoyed it when he cums like crazy... that's the best way to start....from there you can go to using 2 fingers then toys...but it all takes time...don't expect to be rambing his ass with a strap on the next time you see him....little steps please... hope this helped some.. kisses, Emma A

Well I decided that my 100th post would be my recommendation of Miss Cloe, and yes I planned it this way! :wink: Miss Cloe will appreciate it as I am compulsively organized like her. This will be long as it was truly a memorable experience on many levels. This will be a different recommendation for me, instead of the naughty byplay I will talk about the experience I had with this amazing, intelligent, inspiring and sensual woman. I noticed Miss Cloe almost immediately when I joined CERB and I decided that it was not if I would see her, it was a matter of when. Her contest which closed recently triggered the need to see her as soon as I could. Win or lose I contacted Cloe immediately in a rambling PM and asked when she would be in Ottawa next, she replied it was about a month away. Despite the long delay between seeing me she still took the time to have many PM's back and forth that were very genuine and endearing. She is a very articulate woman and I could tell right away that she was genuine, caring and personable to boot. A short while later she asked if I would be available June 25th instead of the July date we were discussing. I immediately blocked my calendar and answered with a resounding YES. I knew from the start that I wanted to spend some social time with her so we started discussing that aspect as well. My selection of Prince Songs for her contest really impressed her and I was lucky enough to win the contest and a bonus hour. Being really intrigued with Miss Cloe I decided to use it right away and booked 3 hours in the morning. More notes were passed and every day I was more and more excited. The night before I get an unsolicited note saying she is excited to meet me tomorrow and it put me in heaven and the anticipation rose even higher. That morning I spent an extra long preparation period and as I was reading the news I get a text from her saying she is looking forward to 10am and seeing me. Wow, I just felt amazing and so excited to see her. Driving downtown to meet her I had to calm myself many times and finally the time came and I called her to say I would be there in 5 minutes. When she answered her voice was just what I imagined, sexy French accent to go with a silky tone. She apologized for the noise as she was watching CNN (swoon, I was listening to CNN on XM radio). She told me she would meet me downstairs soon. We had described each other and what we were going to wear (days in advance, we are both very organized :)) and the time came. I saw Cloe through the glass of the hotel and she was wearing white dressy pants and a classy yet nice and tight white top, add to this her sheer beauty, radiant hair, amazing smile, perfect glasses and killer eyes...I was floored. She was genuinely happy and excited to meet me and as we hugged she paid me a great compliment (when a woman like Cloe says you are better looking then she even imagined after I described myself, you can't help to feel good about yourself). I stole my first of many looks at her body (especially her amazing bum and chest) as she turned to enter the cab and I was grateful I chose extra time that morning. We took a cab to one of (if not) the best hotels in Ottawa and went to their upscale dining room for breakfast. I was instantly comfortable with Miss Cloe and we started talking and sharing and just looking at each other. She is absolutely radiant inside and out and we really got to know each other. We connected while we were talking to the point that the waitress had to come three times before we even ordered. Once breakfast was complete we were getting eager to spend some intimate time together and literally rushed out of the dining room. We exited hand in hand and it was completely comfortable and exciting to just be in physical contact with her. Getting back to her hotel we entered her lovely and spacious suite (really, she has the best accommodations I have seen in a long time). As soon as the door closed we had a quick tour then after much anticipation we shared our first gentle and passionate kiss(es). She left me breathless and with a smile she went to change. I freshened up then went in to our playroom (master bedroom in the suite). Candles, music, chilled water and all the comforts you could want/need. Miss Cloe entered with a smile wearing sexy lingerie that simply flowed over her body. Moving together we kissed some more and then she undressed me, while we continued kissing. The next ten minutes we simply touched each other and kissed while standing. It was sensual, erotic and very personal. Her lips were soft, her tongue tantalizing and teasing and the way she touched and moved sent shivers through me. I continually looked into her eyes, eye contact was big with us (take that Malarek!) and I had to comment to her many times that she was beautiful, or her eyes were stunning or her skin was a pleasure to touch. But most of all her eyes held me hostage, they showed her true spirit and soul and it was beautiful and strong. We then moved to the bed and I had to touch and feel her. Helping her with her heels I spent the next 5 or ten minutes just lightly touching her legs, her breasts and kissing her. I was simply appreciating the beauty and sheer sexiness of her body and her glorious soul as I stared into her eyes while we shared intimate contact. ●●●Pauses●●● What happened after that I am going to save as my special memories of the pleasure we gave each other for the next hour. Miss Cloe reached me in a way I have not felt for a long time and it is something I have stopped and smiled about many times since I left her early yesterday afternoon. She gave me a lot of insight and ideas and inspiration as well, both in how I approach myself when intimate and in my business life as well. I can truly say that not only did Miss Cloe provide an amazing (amazing!) sexually intimate experience, but I feel inspired to try new things in other aspects as well. Thank you Cloe for the wonderful encounter and we will see each other soon. Repeat? Yes...in a heartbeat.

With all due respect, we prefer to call it hobbying, kinda like you prefer to call it escorting instead of hooking.

Mod - I personally love the chat and am very thankful for the hard work you've put into creating it. Reading this thread is going to result in my popping in a little more often to show my appreciation. I hope other ladies will follow suit.

I use firefox and I don't have a authorization error so because I can not recreate this error I can't help you fix it. Maybe someone else has a tip for you? If I leave the room without logging out I do get an authorization error if I try to go back in right away. I need to wait (up to 2 minutes) before the chat system clears me (this is because live streams are sometimes interrupted so it does not log you out instantly, it gives your internet connection a chance to re-establish the stream before logging you out). If you use the LOG OUT button to leave you can come right back in. As for changing it from 5 minutes to 10 minutes... let's see how the 5 minutes goes. You can always log back in if you take longer than 5 minutes to smoke or pee. Yes, of course. It would be virtually FREE to run a chat without audio and video streaming... but the live video and audio is the selling feature (to get the guys into the room and to give the ladies another marketing tool)... and it works for the ladies who use it! The other discussion boards have chat rooms too usually.. they are DEAD most of the time. This site is unique and has potential to be very popular because of this... this is what the guys want! A few may tell you differently (probably because they think that is what you want to hear from them) but those same guys are in the chat room looking at the ladies live cam streams daydreaming and fantasising about a visit with them). If you convinced yourself that the cam is not a selling feature... you are missing out! Exactly! We are the ONLY escort site with a live audio and video enabled chat room. It should be packed!! It's unique and the other sites don't do it cause they don't want to spend the money! You don't get anywhere in this world by following or coping other sites. You need to stand out and be unique. Offer something that the people want. No matter what anyone tells you the chat is VERY busy when the ladies come in regularly and use the cams... and the ladies on cam are booking LOTS of appointments. It is a very unique tool the ladies can use! That is silly! No one is pressured to do anything, if someone does pressure the lady they get banned from the chat if the lady wants to report them. 1/2 the time the guys will report the idiots before the ladies have the chance! I think some of the ladies are not yet comfortable going on chat (and maybe jealous that some do very well with the chat video). Many of you are very self conscious and shy. So be it... when you get over your shyness come make lots of money as the cam will sell you better than any other tool you have at your disposal. In the meantime the ladies who are using the cams will clean up! If someone bugs you in chat... annoys you, asks for a free show, etc... Just click the REPORT USER button on that persons account in the chat and it snap shots a copy of the chat to me and I ban them. Simple. But really this rarely happens... we do monitor the room a lot. You can also IGNORE a user and VOTE TO KICK a user. Some idiot asking you to take your clothes off and give him a show is just annoying to click on his name, choose IGNORE USER and be done with him (Report him first to me however so I can just ban him and block his IP as no one wants to see that persons text). If your providing free entertainment your doing something wrong! You should not see it as wasting your time. Have fun, enjoy the time, relax, tease a little or just go in without your cam off and have a text chat... no matter that your marketing yourself... do whatever you want in the room and use whatever feature you feel would assist you. If you see it as entertaining someone for free and not marketing yourself ... well I will bite my tongue and just say "you are very wrong". If you can not see what a HUGE marketing potential the chat room is you must be blind or possibly jealous that the other ladies who are not afraid to get on cam are cleaning up. This business is all about selling a fantasy. Sex sells... and what better way to entice a guy that to show him LIVE on his screen what you look like and your personality. If television commercials were as affordable as ads in a newspaper or online every serious escort would have a commercial on TV. Nothing sells a product or service better than tv! I did not write the software for the chat room, I can not alter it (We purchased it as you see it, it has lots of features but we are limited to what we can do based on what it has been programmed to do by the developer) It is what it is... a web cam and audio enabled room. People keep asking me for features and changes to that chat room... I can't do it. It's not something that can be altered. Maybe they will make a feature like that in a future update but at this time it is what it is.. GENERAL NOTES TO THE LADIES ABOUT CHAT If you don't want to use a cam... don't! If you don't want to use a mic... don't! If you don't want to listen to someone bugging you... click "ignore user" If you want to report someone for being a tool... click report user If you want to complain about the ladies who are using the cam and mic and making a lot of appointments and flourishing off the chat room... don't! (It's your own fault for not seeing the potential!) My advise if you are sensitive: Grow some thicker skin and ignore the idiots or stay out of the chat room. I can not be in the room all the time to moderate it. I will kick them out and ban them but they will come back (nothing we can do to really stop them all together so it will happen - if you ignore them they get board and go away, when you show them it is bother you... well you are encouraging them to be assholes and only adding to the problem. That is exactly what they want and those guys are not about to spend any money on booking you so just report them and click on the IGNORE USER so you don't have to see them type any more). Simple and easy solution for all.