Personal hygiene for me is number one on my list and I usually go through a strict preparation schedule which usually starts days ahead of time.
I take myself seriously and I treat my hobby like my business. I want to be at my best all the time.
No exceptions. If I cant do it right , I don't do it at all.
I usually start some of these a few days earlier and Ill explain why,
1) I take care of any excess body hair which includes shaving my balls, my butt hole, nose, ears and trimming underarms. I usually take care of this a day or two before my meeting. The reason is that If accidentally nicked my genitals, ill still have an opportunity to cancel my appointment. You don't want to be anywhere near your ladies genitals with an open wound even if its only a scratch. It just makes it safe for everyone and besides genital hair doesn't grow back in day.
2) I cut and trim my toenails and fingernails. I also make sure that I take care of this a day before again for safety reasons.
You don't want to have any open finger wounds especially if you use digits. I always carry finger condoms for this purpose because I never know when I can injure myself on my way to a date. I go get a manicure and pedicure every few weeks to keep my digits and toes in pristine condition. I never want to have to worry that the lady will be choking on a hang nail if she happens to want to suck on my toes.
3) With an SO in my life, I take great precautions in what I wear on the day of my date. I prepare underwear and clothes a few days ahead of time and change completely before going to meet my lady.
A few reasons for this:
a) even though you may think SO s don't notice they know exactly what underwear and clothes you are wearing that day. They are most probably the ones doing your laundry
b) if you meet your lady I can guarantee you that her scent or that you just had wild sex for 2 hours smell will linger on you and your SO will notice. My SO can smell another woman's scent on me as soon as I walk in the door. It took me a while to figure why she always came and kissed on the days I was bad while other days when nothing happened she couldn't care less. Never underestimate your SO s sense of smell and intuition.
c) I carry the same soap that I use at home to make sure when I shower after my session I smell the same as when I left in the morning.
d)don't forget to change back into the clothes you left home with.
4)I watch what I eat especially the night before. I make sure that I'm not eating anything with heavy scents, curry, greek food or onions and certainly not a bean burrito or anything beans. I think the reasons are pretty obvious. On the morning of my meeting I make sure to a eat a good breakfast which usually includes cerals and some fruit. I'm a avid coffee drinker but I abstain on the days of my meeting and substitute with Ginseng tea. I also hydrate myself lots of water. If my meeting is later in the evening I eat very light during the day but often. Salads, light soup never anything heavy. Trust me it hinders your performance if go out eat a big mac before a love making session.
5)This is a difficult one since I finding the time or privacy is difficult but an important step in my prep.
Now that I'm clean on the outside, I clean my insides and that calls for an enema. It doesn't take long but for me its an as essential and important as washing my dick. I would happy to share information on how to this properly if anyone is interested.
6)Wash my dick, then wash it again. Oh did I mention washing my dick. I carry baby wipes with to make sure that after Ive washed my disk at least 3 times, that if I have to take a leak on my way to the meeting then I am able to wash again. I'm uncut, so for me its even more important to keep my dick clean.
7)I put on underarm deodorant which I carry with me all the time and I use very light deodorant spray for that clean smell. I never use any after shave or heavy perfumes. Some ladies are really allergic.
8) Shave my face as carefully and slowly as I can. Again safety here is required, I Dont want to be nicking my face and showing up with little blobs of Kleenex stuck on my chin. Here I use a face lotion to keep my face smooth.
9) Hand cream is something I always carry in my bag and I make sure that I use it right before I ring the doorbell. I happen to work in construction so
rough hands are part of my life so I do everything to keep them supple.
10) The all time most important, I never brush my teeth or floss right before a date. I always carry mouthwash for right before and after my session. I love DATY and this is all about safety for me and the ladies. Not to mention that we all are connected by sharing the same ladies as well. I want all the cerb members to know that I care about my safety, the companions safety and ultimately your safety.
So please guys and girls......Be safe so we can all enjoy our hobby for a long time.
The Hun