It is not a black and white issue. Most men will have a problem with their partner being intimate with multiple clients and then coming home to them. Most men are jealous and can not or do not know how to really handle the thought of their partner being intimate with others -while having a 'relationship' with them.
We have to face something head on - as clients we do not know how or what our female consorts go through physically and mentally to cope with this 'job' and therefore we as men are at a disadvantage from the get go when an opportunity arises to entertain a 'relationship' outside of SP/client with one of our lady friends.
Though it may be easier to date - there are aspects of this world that will scare or disturb us men if our lady friends choose to open up to us - and that will affect the eventual relationship.
In my opinion, for this to truly work, there has to be a tremendous level of mutual trust, understanding, maturity, openness - attraction in and out of the bedroom and from a guy perspective - one has to look beyond the profession and look at the person behind the SP persona. Ultimately, it is the person that really matters - not what they do to generate income.
And to level the playing field - us guys need to get some insight into how you ladies cope with your daily grind to perform this 'job'. Only then would we stand any reasonable chance of participating in a 'normal' relationship.