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wow wow wow even tho you say that is your last comment SA (as you do many times) I predict further commentary after this post. Once again you are dismissing the opinions of those who are actually partaking in said acts instead of perhaps realizing that you could learn from those experiences as opposed to your own secont hand knowledge....its ok, just a bit of a pattern....remember, its called open discussion for a reason?: lets first off dismiss the fables of what group sex entails.... Q. domination? or being told what to do or ordered what to do by all participating males??? A. absolutely not! every female participant lays out her restrictions, services and ground rules prior...those who aren't looking for those services go elsewhere. And every male participating waits for the lady to take the lead in the actions....no one orders anyone around like a football coach or they'd not be invited to the next event Q. Group sex entails greek? A. Not if the girl doesn't offer it normally, there are many ways to please men, not simply by penetration in "various holes" Q. The lady must have fantasies of this or only be turned on by these acts to engage in them and not be a classy lady (someone mentioned the word "slut" before?) if so... A. some ladies engage because they are simply curious about a controlled event like this....maybe in the end they decide its not for them. But my dad said once "try everything once...maybe twice if you think you like it and it doesnt kill you, but it shouldnt define you if you were simply inriqued" ...-- now...all this stuff about being under the influence. I know what you're referring to and who you're sticking up for and I dont think that the influence of being under psychological meds for other reasons besides what you think to be her helpless vice to dealing with sex-work (if she didnt want to do it, she wouldnt) is making her any less able to make their own decisions....also I dont think she'd like you to put that out there so best to leave that alone.....drugs, alcohol and being taken advantage of are far from what this group is about. No one is forced to do anytyhing under the influence in that group. All that being said, I am proud saying that I've been to a couple events now, have been fully in control, Have been overly respected in terms of my limitations, have had laughs and chats with everyone participating prior and after as like any other call I've been on...I dont travel to the greek islands, love myself at the end of the day with a huge smile on my face. At The end of the day I can also firmly post my schedule and include the word "CLASSY" without haste. I will also add, I do very well for myself as a low-volume SP, this is my only source of income yet I am extremely well off even if I dont accept group sex events....and I have a child to provide for too, SA, but it doesnt mean that any client should pity or judge me more than my degree-carrying, self-sufficient self should deserve. To assume that we only do what we do for the money is putting us all in the "victim" category....something that many members here know that I dont stand for. "Shes a student, shes a young mother, ...those men must be taking advantage of her and her financial troubles!".........common now have a little more respect for the ladies. When someone tried to tell me that I dont know what I'm getting into or that I'm being brainwashed into something, it makes me loose total respect for them. In the end, your lady of choice will thank you for respecting her decisions and respecting that she is a big girl, capable of making her own choices in life Those who want to turn my smile or other's into a frown or shame can take a hike :)

Etas: no, BDSM is not necessarily a sexual activity, but it can be, and this is why I made the comparison. Just as escorting can be only about companionship, and not sex. I do know the ins and outs of BDSM.. S_A, I would suggest you read up on BDSM as it's a topic that is much too detailed and varied for me to explain in a single post (especially via mobile!). I do, however, take offense to the assumption that, should I choose to partake in a group activity (which has yet to happen), that I am simply doing so because I am being coerced, or because I'm hard up for cash. I do what I do because I enjoy it, and I have the ability to make the call on whether or not I will see a particular client. Just as you assume that a woman is being used because she enjoys multiple partners, you're on the same judgemental soapbox as the person who thinks an SP must have been abused to want to sell her body. Take money out of the equation, and assume that the woman is participating in a multiple-partner session because she WANTS to, and because it TURNS HER ON. They are all consenting adults, enjoying their sexuality - why is that so wrong? Edit: Jesus EFF, people. I thought we were all adults here - don't make assumptions based on my participation in this thread. If you'd like to ask me a question, send me a PM. I don't need to hear gossip on my sexual activities, thanks.

Perhaps we should refrain from using the term "gang bang," since it is negatively associated: Group sex is a better term.

You are as classy as they come!! I love spending time with you alone, in groups, and in social settings, you are the perfect accompaniment to any occasion. I can't imagine life without you. Keep smiling you are part of a new age for sex workers, proud, strong and liberated. If I could pick one person for my daughters to take as a roll model it would be you. Your talents go so far beyond your sexuality you are truly one in a million.

Poly. Plural. Gang Bang. Rounders. Multi. It doesn't matter how it labeled. It has been around since the beginning of time. I have been reading the threads concerning this and quite honestly none of this makes any sense to me. Not because of the actions or the reactions, the participants or the detractors. It's the judgment. The detractors voiced an opinion of disapproval, they passed a judgment. The participants reacted with disapproval of the disapproving opinion and passed a judgment. Who is right? Seems to me like everyone's doing the same thing. The question is would you rather be right or happy? Judgment in itself is a divider, it keeps us separate and consistently isolates. It serves no purpose except to reinforce the belief that "I'm better than". Last time I checked we all put our pants on one leg at a time and stick our fingers in places we don't admit to. I have a saying that I use "Your opinion of me is none of my business" and it serves me well. There will always be misunderstandings, thats why we are here to communicate. No 2 people will every have the same "line in the sand". Those lines move with time. For some it's forward and for some its backwards. Back in the day, bachelor parties had group scenes of sorts. Been there. Would I go back? I don't know. It doesn't seem to hold any draw for me at this place in my life. Was it fun? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. We all have the choice to participate, opinionate, and ignore. Perhaps if all involved stopped and looked within to see what the moment requires of them, this situation would rectify itself and take it's place where it belongs. Catherine

In Canada, I have never had issue with LE but in the US, a very different story. So for those traveling south of the border, please do your research! As for STD's and STI's, I have never had one. Like Emma; I am tested regularly. I do believe that the statistics account for the general public who are not as fastidious with health issues. An evening out with a little too much wine and one's judgment becomes cloudy and mistakes are made. I have never believed that SPs pose the greatest health concern. We are more aware because it's our job to be. Most of us can identify by name visual dangers and I am vigilant at inspection as a precaution with all guests. I believe there is risk in every situation which warrants awareness. But we all take risks every day from contracting Staph by showering at the gym to getting hit by a truck crossing the street. We simply weigh the risk and take as many precautions as possible otherwise we would never get out of bed. Life is to be experienced every moment of every day because that is all we are ever guaranteed to have. Cat

Please, whatever you do don't contact other members looking for the street address,phone number,rates for an SP. Do that on your own, simply send a pm to the lady you are inquiring about, (don't worry lads... the ladies don't come out of the computer screen and bite you). I get numerous requests from(newer) hobbiest requesting info on the ladies,that she does not even put in her advertisement. Why would I answer that for you? What makes you think I would know? Did you read the recommendation section? I have protected the SP'S I've seen by sending a pm to them, "that so and so contacted me looking for your address, and phone number " those ladies have thanked me for not giving out that info if it was not posted in their ad. Remember YMMV... and the please, just ask yourself, you will not get that info from me.

Quite honestly, if their oral hygiene is non-existant, then other areas are just as bad, or worse.. Which will quickly earn them a "thanks, but no thanks"! Posted via Mobile Device