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wow wow wow even tho you say that is your last comment SA (as you do many times) I predict further commentary after this post. Once again you are dismissing the opinions of those who are actually partaking in said acts instead of perhaps realizing that you could learn from those experiences as opposed to your own secont hand knowledge....its ok, just a bit of a pattern....remember, its called open discussion for a reason?: lets first off dismiss the fables of what group sex entails.... Q. domination? or being told what to do or ordered what to do by all participating males??? A. absolutely not! every female participant lays out her restrictions, services and ground rules prior...those who aren't looking for those services go elsewhere. And every male participating waits for the lady to take the lead in the actions....no one orders anyone around like a football coach or they'd not be invited to the next event Q. Group sex entails greek? A. Not if the girl doesn't offer it normally, there are many ways to please men, not simply by penetration in "various holes" Q. The lady must have fantasies of this or only be turned on by these acts to engage in them and not be a classy lady (someone mentioned the word "slut" before?) if so... A. some ladies engage because they are simply curious about a controlled event like this....maybe in the end they decide its not for them. But my dad said once "try everything once...maybe twice if you think you like it and it doesnt kill you, but it shouldnt define you if you were simply inriqued" ...-- now...all this stuff about being under the influence. I know what you're referring to and who you're sticking up for and I dont think that the influence of being under psychological meds for other reasons besides what you think to be her helpless vice to dealing with sex-work (if she didnt want to do it, she wouldnt) is making her any less able to make their own decisions....also I dont think she'd like you to put that out there so best to leave that alone.....drugs, alcohol and being taken advantage of are far from what this group is about. No one is forced to do anytyhing under the influence in that group. All that being said, I am proud saying that I've been to a couple events now, have been fully in control, Have been overly respected in terms of my limitations, have had laughs and chats with everyone participating prior and after as like any other call I've been on...I dont travel to the greek islands, love myself at the end of the day with a huge smile on my face. At The end of the day I can also firmly post my schedule and include the word "CLASSY" without haste. I will also add, I do very well for myself as a low-volume SP, this is my only source of income yet I am extremely well off even if I dont accept group sex events....and I have a child to provide for too, SA, but it doesnt mean that any client should pity or judge me more than my degree-carrying, self-sufficient self should deserve. To assume that we only do what we do for the money is putting us all in the "victim" category....something that many members here know that I dont stand for. "Shes a student, shes a young mother, ...those men must be taking advantage of her and her financial troubles!".........common now have a little more respect for the ladies. When someone tried to tell me that I dont know what I'm getting into or that I'm being brainwashed into something, it makes me loose total respect for them. In the end, your lady of choice will thank you for respecting her decisions and respecting that she is a big girl, capable of making her own choices in life Those who want to turn my smile or other's into a frown or shame can take a hike :)

glad you said that.......I thjought it was just my eyes!!!!!:lol:

There are a few things you can do...Not sure what your situation is credit wise but you can: 1. Apply online for a secured credit card through capitalone.ca http://capitalone.ca/canada/credit-card/guaranteed-secured-mastercard/?linkid=WWW_Z_Z_UNS02_CNCMPMP_C1_14_T_CNCPSE This card is useful if you need to establish credit or begin to repair it. I used this kind of card years ago while in school when I needed to establish credit because I had none. They also have a few other credit cards depending on your situation. A secured card will require a $200-300 deposit which will also be the limit. This card will be accepted by all hotels. Once you begin to show a pattern of paying the card you can apply to have the limit raised. 2. You can go to Money Mart and get a Titanium prepaid card. It costs about $20.00 and you can load money onto it right away. The money is on the card right away as opposed to some C.C. companies where it may take a few days to receive a payment. The only downside is that there is a $2.00 transaction fee for every time you put money on it. Not a big deal imo. Once you get the card, I would suggest booking your hotels through Priceline.com The reason I suggest doing this is because there are many hotels in Ottawa specifically towards the East end ( Chimo Inn, Comfort Inn, Welcome Inn and others in that surrounding area) will not accept this type of card for a regular booking through their website/walk-in or to use for incidentals/deposits. Not sure why but they probably have been scammed. These hotels don't realize that with a prepaid credit card, a hold can be put on it and the customer cannot take the money off the card once a hold has been placed. With priceline you are getting the hotel at a very deep discount 50-70% off and the hotels are nice. Check http://biddingfortravel.com before you book through priceline for people that have posted their winning bids for hotels. This way you'll have an idea of what to bid and there is also a list of hotels categorized by star rating so you also know which hotels that participate through this this site. You don't get to pick the hotel but you do get to pick the level of hotel you want and the area in the city. Once you get to the hotel especially the bigger ones downtown they will accept the prepaid card for a deposit because the room has already been paid for. Doing it this way is a win-win situation because you're getting the room at an amazing rate and they will accept the card. In a worst case scenario, a hotel will take cash for a deposit. Be sure to find out what each hotel charges for a deposit. Most places is $50-75 a night and other hotels such as Westin will require $300. 3.Apply for a regular credit card with a $500 limit if you're a student and still use Priceline to get the best rates for rooms. Remember you don't want hotel costs eating up your profits from seeing customers. This prepaid card is also good for hobbyists because there are no paper trails such as bills being sent to your mailing address every month and you can set up an account online to view your credit card transactions.

Interesting thread. I was informed of the "sub-human" wording last week and was quite shocked. Very strange comment from anyone to anyone. As can be easily seen, there are some very intelligent people on this board. Consulting acts amongst adults is no business of anyone except those involved as long as our imposed so-called moral standards (laws) are upheld. We could have laws that target idiots, but who would make them? A wide reaching stereotype is insulting to hear and should just be chaulked up by the ignorance of the message sender. I do agree that GB has a certain negative connotation, poly does sounds better - thx Annessa for that observation. Life is about the experience. Keep judgements to the bathroom mirror as they should be.

You are as classy as they come!! I love spending time with you alone, in groups, and in social settings, you are the perfect accompaniment to any occasion. I can't imagine life without you. Keep smiling you are part of a new age for sex workers, proud, strong and liberated. If I could pick one person for my daughters to take as a roll model it would be you. Your talents go so far beyond your sexuality you are truly one in a million.

Etas: no, BDSM is not necessarily a sexual activity, but it can be, and this is why I made the comparison. Just as escorting can be only about companionship, and not sex. I do know the ins and outs of BDSM.. S_A, I would suggest you read up on BDSM as it's a topic that is much too detailed and varied for me to explain in a single post (especially via mobile!). I do, however, take offense to the assumption that, should I choose to partake in a group activity (which has yet to happen), that I am simply doing so because I am being coerced, or because I'm hard up for cash. I do what I do because I enjoy it, and I have the ability to make the call on whether or not I will see a particular client. Just as you assume that a woman is being used because she enjoys multiple partners, you're on the same judgemental soapbox as the person who thinks an SP must have been abused to want to sell her body. Take money out of the equation, and assume that the woman is participating in a multiple-partner session because she WANTS to, and because it TURNS HER ON. They are all consenting adults, enjoying their sexuality - why is that so wrong? Edit: Jesus EFF, people. I thought we were all adults here - don't make assumptions based on my participation in this thread. If you'd like to ask me a question, send me a PM. I don't need to hear gossip on my sexual activities, thanks.