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I always think its funny how people assume we don't have a heart...of course we do. We fall in love just like anyone else does. Sure it's not supposed to happen{as some people think} but it does. Will it work? Who knows but if 2 people are willing to give it a try...why not? Who are we to judge? kisses, Emma A

Labels of SP and client limit and define us, we are all human. Can we fall in love? Of course we can. Asking "will it work" is a question that has no answer. What I define as a successful relationship is different from other peoples idea of successful. Accurately define "falling in love" first. It is a phrase that is thrown around and we all assume it means the same thing to all but it doesn't. Is it the physical rush that hits us when we know we are going to get see someone? Is it the constant thoughts of someone that the mind insists on thinking? Is it the impulse that manifests as a physical need to see someone and be in their presence? Is it the chemical reaction that takes place in our bodies that is addictive in its highs and its lows? These are all recognized as initial symptoms of "being in love" but I question if it is indeed love. Society's definition of love is a label of misunderstanding. The concept of love we commonly accept is a two sided blade, the positive emotion we feel towards someone can turn to hatred, possessiveness, envy, resentment and a myriad of negative emotions. Love is a state of being, not a simple human emotion that has duality. Love as a state of being has no negative, it is beyond the human minds manipulation. Do I love my guests, yes I do, each and every one of them. I have several incredible long-term relationships with people who are "clients". Do my relationships fit in the box society trys to impose for love? No they don't. Would I change it? No I wouldn't. Cat

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Absolutely, an SP can fall in love, whether its with a client or not. Just because they do a job providing pleasure for clients, I believe that they long for a "normal" relationship just anyone else. In fact I believe that they long for more than ordinary people. Imagine an SP trying to get emotional fulfillment in a 1 or 2 hour session and then watching the guy leave to go back home. I believe that when 2 people find each other, are very deeply in love and committed that they can overcome all circumstances even if she is an SP. There is a deeper level of respect and compromise that has to be there for it to work. I also believe that both people have to be very secure, not be possessive or jealous and feel good about themselves to be in this type relationship. Although many men dream of falling in love with their fav SP, think about it real hard before you get too involved. Having the love of your life, leaving you in the middle of a quiet evening together evening to meet a client at his hotel room and then coming back home to you may be very difficult for some to handle. Then there are the White knights who want to save the escorts by falling in love with them and then trying to convince them quit the business. It rarely happens but it does. If you think you can handle then go for it. You just may find the love of your life and may you live happily ever after. ATH

Thanks for the advice, i think i will stick here and see what comes around.I have PM ed a couple of people for some direction and so far i am going in the right one (with help):grin:.Thanks to all who helped out

casey, In my opinion stay far away from CL and stay close to cerb. If you read some reviews and/or postings here and send some respectful private messages you will meet some truely wonderful ladies.

That is a credit card SCAM! Don't EVER give your credit card info!! CL is FULL of these card scams!!