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I've been asked by a popular SP for a reference, an email or phone of another SP that can vouch for my integrity and/or goodness, I guess to find out who I am? It was really weird asking a girl I know if she wouldn't mind vouching for me to another girl....so weird in fact that I've decided I won't do it any longer. Fuck that. It was embarrassing and humiliating! Oh ya, even after all these hoops that I jumped through she ended up cancelling on me....wtf? If an SP is worried about who I am, they can research me a little bit just like I have to do towards them. Otherwise, kiss my ass! :)

That is soo very true

There is a place in Bedford. It is just not listed as a massage.

I find this thread very interesting... I have clients who are friends...we have great sex, we shop, we talk on the phone, email, chat online, go for coffee/lunch/dinner/drinks... we send each other birthday cards, give each other little gifts...to me this is a friendship...it is a mutual enjoyment of each others company...when one of these clients books a session for an hour, I will automatically allocate extra time because I want to spend time catching up or going for lunch prior to or following our session... I also have friends who are clients...friends who over time decided they wanted to see me in my professional capacity...it is virtually the same as the above scenario... Social time isn't listed in my advertising at all...it used to be but I removed it...I found I don't feel comfortable providing strictly social time...I know my time is valuable and this is my livelihood but quite frankly, if I want to share that time with my friends/clients, I'll do it because it means more to me than simply a business transaction...this is just the way I operate obviously...many wonderful SPs provide "date" packages...it just doesn't work for me... In all this time, I have only had one client who became such a good friend that I could no longer have him as a client...we don't have sex as friends either - although if the situation allowed, I could see it happening...and then I would charge him for a session... :D