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hey folks...it has been a while since I ranted...let alone since I did a little rutting also....but that is another story.... My favorite topics...... Chat....... and trying to negotiate prices...... This time they go hand in hand....so to speak. I am in chat often...and I like to chat and get to know people and the ladies.....it is fun but also frustrating. You see when in chat, you often see people pop in and out so fast you wonder why do they bother.....I was in one day and saw 12 people pop in and out in less than 1/2 hour. I know why they bother. they are looking for the ladies...they want to ask them mostly stupid questions. so are you available? are you actually a woman...you look like a TS? instead of $200/hr.....would you like 2 hours at $300? will you turn on your cam for me? can I turn on my cam for you so you can watch? (this was not me) Then there are those that just plain ignore any one unless they are female...then they start....with all the questions....or they just chat in private and do not participate with the public chat. It is amazig how many of the "chat lurkers" I see have zero posts...nothing....not a word for months......or ever....... What alot of peole do not understand that once you get to know people on chat or in the forums by, the posts you read or what they post.....you get alot more information back. It is true.....gain a bit of a reputation...even if it is 4 posts on ladies you have seen.....it is better than nothing......and if you are known a bit in chat....the same applies. and for God sakes...do not try and negotiate prices........grow up.......the prices stated are the pices to be paid.....if you can not afford it...move on.......save up a little play money. I have to hobby when I can...as money dick-tates (yes I did that on purpose)...I wold hobby all the time...but I save my money for the times and ladies that fir my requirements. I know...same old...same old from me......

When I first joined this community or more importantly started delving into this industry and meeting ladies I wondered why do they ask for references? Why do they not answer blocked calls? Why do they do things the way they do and not another? Well obviously those questions were being asked by a "rookie" whom admittedly didn't know...well anything I suppose! As time went on and my level of experience started to grow I started to observe things. Factor in a lot of face to face conversation with some very intelligent ladies and a picture starts to form. From what I can tell, and this is only an opinion, I don't believe we (the clients) appreciate the ladies enough. Before I continue let me clarify, appreciation is not respect or anything of that sort. I just don't know if we really know what it takes to be a reputable service provider. Think about it! How many phone calls and/or e mails does the average lady have to make in the run of a week. How much correspondence is done when she chooses to meet a new client? Factor in everything else such as clients attempting to negotiate price and/or services. No shows or clients that do show but are always late for their time and thus affecting the ladies life and possibly another clients time. Not to mention the time and effort taken PRIOR to a meeting so she can be ready for US. There is also a "portion of the month" that can complicate an already complicated schedule and routine. Furthermore no the in call location does not clean itself, the ladies hair and makeup do not do themselves either. Take all of this and add to it the ladies have their own lives and in some cases careers or school! I ask you, could you be successful at your chosen line of employment and be a successful service provider at the same time? I also understand that some reading this post will undoubtedly say "well, the lady I saw last night doesn't appreciate me." This may also be true. My only response to that is this. How friendly are you to people in your work place or customers or whom ever that are not appreciative of you and your abilities and talents? Take a step back and see how much effort they have to put in before and after meeting us for usually one hour at a time!

Good thoughts and comments from all your friends on CERB. I am a bit like you as am older but hang around with a younger crowd. In my opinion, when you finally meet the woman you really love, age won't matter if she loves you also. Examples exist of all sorts of successful relationships where there is a huge age difference. Time affects these relationships as it does to all relationships. Yes, it is a risk. You have to, at some point in time, risk committing yourself to someone if you are to have a shot at happiness, as all people even of same age group, have to do. Think about it and go for it.

Hi SA, This is a ton of feedback from a great group of people. Although I personally find that age and long term relationships a heavily linked. I should also point out that things such as this vary from person to person. The real question is how do you feel about it in the end ? Are you one for a long term committed relationship or are you one for many meaningful ones ?. There is no right answer except what feels right for you and what's in you heart. The answer to the above questions for me for example could change over time or from person to person. Well thats just me. You sound like you have a big heart and alot to share.. good on one hand but very complicating on another. Either way sending you and anyone else good vibes while you try to figure it out. hnh

I find this thread particularly interesting. I am the one who always says that age is just a number, and although it is a bit trite, it is true. I would look at this two ways. Firstly from the sexual attraction aspect, seeing younger SPs or MAs is not unusual, for two reasons. One, the majority of the SPs are in their 20's, so we tend to see them more often. The second is that our society puts a high value on youth, so we tend to see younger women as the "ideal" for sexual attraction. We see it in media, advertising, porn etc etc. Now for me personally, age hasn't been a factor in what attracts me, but I may be unusual. If I find the person attractive and intriguing, then I am going to be interested. I have had partners, my age, older, and much younger. I do tend to younger because I tend to hang around with younger people. That is where my second point is made. I have a lot of friends that are considerably younger than me. We tend to have similar interests, and I generally have a better and more enjoyable time with them than with people my own age. And that is not just in a sexual way, I mean in all types of social situations. It is a group of people I feel comfortable with, and I do enjoy their company very much. And the feeling is mutual from these people. I have been out with some of them, we meet up with their friends, and they get the "What are you hanging out with Grandpa for?" The same way some people ask me why I don't hang out with people more my own age. I think you need to do what makes you feel happy, and comfortable and not be constrained by thinking too far in the future, (You could be hit by a bus tomorrow) , nor by trying to follow some societal norm that is out-dated and in my mind foolish. I think that attitude is immature.

I had a very interesting conversation with a wonderful women of my age a couple of years ago and she stated to me: She thought that by watching porn and what not. Those actions stunted your emotional growth and could keep you fixated on younger ladies. I have no idea if that has any thing to do with it but, who knows. I'm not implying this about you sa just a general comment, once again good luck

In my view its normal to be attracted to women of various ages and attributes whether its personality, chemistry, respect and physical appearance etc. Age is only one factor of consideration and really is not all that important. Could it be that attraction to younger women make you feel younger or a fountain of youth to elaborate further.

Why does a relationship have to be "forever" to be considered successful? Why do we expect it not to change over time? Everything about our existence is transient, either in an expansion phase or a decline phase and will never remain the same. The relationship we have with someone one day is not the same relationship we have with them the next. Every action and every experience changes us so we are not the same people, therefore the relationship between the same two people is never the same relationship. I believe that any relationship can be a positive one if it helps us grow as a person regardless if it lasts for 40 years or 40 days. The one thing I do know is that fear causes us to miss what is really important. The present. If you are afraid of what may happen and it governs your immediate actions you miss out on life now. The future is an illusion because nothing happens in the future, it happens now. Fear and worry keep us focused on either the past or the future which means we end up missing so much of our lives that's happening right now. Face the fear head on and see what happens. The results may surprise you. Darkness cannot exist with light and you may find yourself pleasantly surprised. You have three choices when dealing with any situation that is happening now. You can walk away, take action to change the immediate or accept the situation as is. Its very simple. Allow yourself to experience everything life has to offer, even if she is 22. Life has a way of taking care of the details. As long as you have been generous with sharing yourself it will not be a waste on her part. If you wake up and your over her one day, that is the day to sit and contemplate whats next, not today. JMHO, cat

SA, I don't think attracted to young and beautiful women is a problem. See Larry King and Donald Trump. One should feel lucky. It's also normal for young and beautiful women to fall for sucessful older men. The issue is whether there are sufficient sexual attraction and intellectual compatibility between the two persons. If yes, the age difference shouldn't be a barrier. What you could have done was some heart to heart talk with that young lady. What she wanted, what you wanted. Talk, more talk is good thing and can lead to a good outcome. Posted via Mobile Device

Thanks for the compliments,but lets not forget guys, i love sex to.PM me lets chat:motion::bddog::jackoff:

Hello, thank you so much for this post. I am new here, and to the biz, so new I practically squeek! But, I am so glad that you are acknowledging the effort that goes into that 'unrushed hour'. You absolutely nailed it.