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don't say anything at all. Isn't that the motto for cerb? This isn't just about me this is about another lady and a few gentlemen..i wasn't going to say anything but when I'm not even there and i keep hearing things about a couple of ladies spreading rumors about not only other Sp's but about the gentlemen something has to be said. Please ladies and you know who you are. Just think before you say things. It will come back to us...be it an Sp or gentleman. good people are deciding to leave cerb and i for one Nova Scotia. The pettiness is uncalled for. we are each our own person and you need to learn to be as well. Telling stories doesn't make you more popular. on the contrary it diminishes your character. I'm not saying these things to be mean ...I'm saying them so you can learn. Learn to be yourself...your very own Sp. Be honest and forthcoming and people will like you for you. I wish you all the best.. Emma

I think the fact of the matter her is jealousy plain and simple. What other reason does any lady have to slam another one (even if she did steal your pictures, ad text, bad mouth you to clients,etc) it is not worth it plain and simple. This community is about equal positive contibutions from both Men and Women. Granted the odd thread about discretion and so forth was called for as it is something that effects eveyone. This is the only board where women can speak openly and not get bashed and thanks to a few lovely individuals, it makes us think before we post things as they seem to get taken out of context. As well there are more and more newbies to this board and they can at times be easily taken advantage of (men and women) Being in this community is a privelige an should be a positive experience for all of us. Our individual posting reflect alot about ourselves, and who we are. They show we are more than a pretty face or hot body. If you have an issue with a lady, client or vice versa it is best to deal with it in private and not share your dirtly laundry in public. Granted, it you were robbed or safety was an issue that is a competely different story. Just my thoughts, Emily

One of the distinguishing features of cerb is that members here have tended to treat each other with respect, whether sp's or hobbyists/punters. This makes cerb very different from other boards, where people routinely get slammed for their posts, and vile things are often said to and about each other. I have really enjoyed cerb since joining over a year ago, and I've been able to share the enjoyment of new and exciting sexual and personal experiences with like-minded people. I've learned so much since I was newbie here, thanks to the more experienced members, and I've been happy to make whatever contributions I could. So now it's really distressing to hear that valued and respected senior members are being slandered and maliciously talked about, to the point where they're considering leaving cerb. This would be a huge loss for all of us, not only to lose their insights and their presence here, but because it seems to mean a slide into nastiness and pettiness that have been alien to the cerb spirit. Let's get that spirit back, and not start 2010 on a negative note. Let's remember the advantages of this board, and not forfeit them. We'd all be the poorer if cerb deteriorated.

That's just it antlerman - Adults DON'T do this. Immature insecure jealous kids do.

new member VickyVix

Folks please consider taking First Aid training. In many cases you could have your place of employment pay for it under the guise of the Health and Safety Act. Personally I would prefer seeing this thread close and another open with ATH's question as the main focus. The connotations associated with OD detract from the larger question of a medical emergency.