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Well here it goes.... After much debate on posting this, I have decided too. I am apologizing upfront to anyone whom I have offended or put off with what I am about to write. For the respect of people that I have been in communication with I will NOT mention names. I enjoy what i offer and the quality time that I spend with the select few that I do get a chance to visit with. I value my time and yours and ALWAYS try to be accomadating to whom ever I am going to visit with. Hence things do come up, delayed flights, traffic, hotel room not ready for check in, possibly your wife or SO coming home early, child sick or a work related issue. I understand as yes I have another life outside of this situation as well. What I am upset about is the LACK of respect from said indiviudals. I prefer to arrange my visits via email and confirm over the phone, I enjoy getting to know who i may be visiting with and this system works for me ( I am sorry if it does not for you). Yes I screen my potential company and it is for my safety and yours. My door is not a revoloving door and I visit with a few gentlemen a week. I am not a pizza which you can order in 20mins or less. Please do not tell me my donations are too high or not the going rate that is really not your place to comment, so please keep it to your self. I travel because I enjoy seeing all parts of Canada and enjoy the opportunity of all that life has to offer. When you prebook our engagement, and I email to confirm and with details to be told "im in Cuba for the remainder of the month" why would you wast my time, when you knew 2 weeks ago you would be going to cuba. When I visit I provide an expereince that is unique to me. I am NOT for everyone and everyone is NOT for me and I completely accept that. If I feel that I am not for you after a few brief emails I will always happily reccomend someone I know in the area if I am able to do so. I am not a clock watcher and always take my time to get to know who I am visiting with, so we can both be comfortable with one another. I respect the fact that you have a life outside of our encounter, so please respect that the same goes for me. I entertain because I choose too and no, noone is making me do this. I prefer to visit with mature gentlemen and that is my choice. You may prefer a blonde or a spinner, do I question your preference? Why am I ranting on and on..... Yes CERB is an amazing community and there are ALOT of wonderful contributers out there, but due to the amount of recent lack of respect I feel it necessary to make this post. I am not posting to offend anyone, but more to "OPEN the eyes of those offenders".

This is sad I would say it is competition to a degree but Im sure there is idiots having thier jolies on CL Emma says it best get numbers or references I cant imagine and hope it is not CERB members if it is they should be outed although you had 7 no shows I hope it was still worth it and you atleast had a little fun TO THE ASSWIPES who did this if your on CERB grow up these ladies spend money to come here for us to have some variety if it is competition doing it GROW UP if your that jealous of competition theN you should look in your house to see why you have little bussiness or no BUSSINESS IT IS NOT FROM THE TOURING LADIES This sort of behavour is imature if we find it is competition then they should be outed and we all avoid them this shit is not kool

in love with a fantasy and not a woman.... don't you feel silly, loving something that doesn't exist? it must be disappointing when reality collides with the illusion... and the image of her is only too human for you to understand.

I agree. There are some underage girls but you have the right to ID anyone. It is a hit or miss on CL. My personal friends at the Hali PD are aware of these underage girls also and the pimps that are hurting them and getting them addicted to drugs need to be dealt with. It's very sad and I just hope they take action soon and help these girls. Not all CL girls are not legit, as I am one and know alot who are. Some may look sexy but a man should be able to tell a child from a women body wise, maturity level and how the meeting starts (are they nervous or seem scared) big red flag. A true SP loves their job and welcomes you. I can only speak for myself but when I start a meeting I am relaxed and ready for some fun and make sure whom ever I am seeing is on the same level. Kisses, Lexy

I realize that cancellations and no-shows happen on both sides. This thread was intended to bring to light the challenges a travelling SP faces. I realize life happens, and I have never implemented a cancellation fee in Ottawa because when my guests have to cancel it is almost always a reschedule and it rarely happens. But I have the luxury of it being my home town, I have a location and my overhead is controlled. The summer of '05 I toured. I spent 3 months on the road in Ontario, planned the trip to the finest detail and came home with a grand total of $1200 net profit for three months work. Most of that came from quick trips back to Ottawa. I would have 25 appointments for a week in a city and 5 would show. Those that did show often wanted to negotiate my rate that had already been lowered to $250 for 2 hours and I had several that walked without paying. So I made $10 per day for the summer. I didn't add in the expense of advertising which required print ads and that was an added expense that actually put trip into the negative. Very disheartening, and I decided not to take the travel route again. I will never "tour". I came home exhausted, demoralized and it was the reason I pulled my ads across the board. I did not have the sparkle or the strength to meet anyone new. I simply maintained the guests I had in Ottawa and did not entertain any new clients. The issue at hand is the expense incurred. Growing up I had it drilled into my head that if something doesn't start well, it probably won't end well. When I see someone like Emma, who seems to share my committment to this as a profession and is so well liked by those that see her, my frustration with the situation comes to the surface. I would like to see the SP's that take this seriously be taken seriously. This thread wasn't directed at the gentlemen whose conduct is governed with integrity, it was for those that fail to realize their behavior has long term consequences on an SP's decision making process. For all those who weighed in...thank you! Catherine