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GFE is a "Style" of service (Not specific acts and definitely not meaning a "superior erotic service"). GFE (Girl Friend Experience) means that the meeting will not be cold and to the point (Mechanical) it is a more intimate experience and does not imply or include any specific services. Questions like this are really answered with common sense. Chemistry plays a big roll in a successful intimate experience. If the guy is a dick or the lady does not enjoy her job intimacy will most likely not be on the menu with anyone (Indie or agency). Many Agency booked ladies have been recommended over the years. The agencies job is marketing the ladies, booking the ladies, answering calls, emails, scheduling, etc... The ladies often choose to work with agencies when (1) they are new to the business and (2) when they do not wish to do all this work themselves. Without the agency the lady has to pay for her own expenses like phone bills, advertising, etc.. and has to make additional time for scheduling, answering emails, placing ads, etc... etc... (This takes up a LOT of time)... Often well worth the cost of having the agency do this work for you. Don't assume that because the lady works with an agency she is not going to give you the same service. A reputable agency will not continue to book ladies that they get negative feedback as it damages the agencies reputation and in turn other ladies will not wish to work with them as the guys will not want to call them to book the same (or other) ladies in the future. It would just be bad business to keep the ladies who the customers complain about. Don't be lazy when choosing a lady (Like cutting out 1/2 the ladies by saying agencies are not as good as indies) do your homework. Find recommendations that sound interesting to you. Look for things that you value that someone else has experienced and don't be afraid to book a lady through a agency if she comes highly recommended! Keep this in mind... Good agencies have happy ladies and lots of business - bad agencies have unhappy ladies and unhappy clients (as they do things like bait and switch and demand the ladies work ridiculous hours - and often take too much $$ and not enough calls) A highly recommended lady is not going to work for a bad agency for long but many do not wish to work for themselves so they will seek out good agencies to work with. With well run agencies... the agency works FOR the lady (Not the other way around)

Cerb Handles gentlemen...you pick them now use them...recently myself and another lady {which I'm sure there is more} have been getting emails for appointments...when asked for their cerb handle they get all sketchy...??? what's up with that? You email us saying your a member well if you can email you can also" Wow imagine this"...you can pm too... I really don't get what the big secret is...?? If you can't give your handle and/or pm us so we have it then we think somethings up..perhaps your shy {that's silly} but get over it...no one knows who you are....the only ones that will know are the ladies you see and if you pm us and your totally cool then we can add you as a friend and guess what? You then have a reference...so in closing please pm us if you are a member here...emails are fine but Pm's are better..

I remember my first lap dance. I was at a club called Huggies just on the edge of Kitchener. It was a sunny afternoon and I had just popped in for a couple of beers and see what the girls were like. After a few minutes and incredibly gorgeous busty girls come over and asks if she can sit with me. I agreed and apologized as there was no way I could possibly keep my eyes from staring at her chest. It was amazing. She asked if I wanted a dance, explained it was $20.00 and it also came with 2 free drinks. I got a drink for me and 1 for her and we proceeded to the back which was very dark. She sat me down on a leather love seat and we chatted until the next song started. I have had many table dances but this was my first lap dance and I was very excited. Once the next song started I was immediately in heaven. She climbed on top of me and proceeded to undress. I wanted to see her breasts more then anything. When she finally took off her bra I was speechless. I was never a fan of big breasts until then. They were perfect. She took my hands and lay them on her breasts and I slowly worked my way all over and around them. She moved towards me and put her breast in front of my mouth. Am I allowed to lick I asked? Yes was her reply. I licked and sucked her nipples. The entire time she rubbed my cock though my pants. She then stood up and removed her panties. She climbed back on top of me and continued rubbing my cock while I played with her breasts. She would turn around from time to time giving me an incredible view of her amazing ass. This girl was perfect. She told me I was allowed to rub between her legs but I was not allowed to go inside her. I was already in heaven so this was an added bonus. My first ever lap dance was going to be hard to top. Finally she tunred to me and said.....you realize it's $20.00 per dance right. Sure I said. What are we at now. $180.00 she said. One more song I said to make it an even $200.00. I am surprised she never made me cum in my pants. That was also the only time I ever saw her.

I agree with you that independent girls are better choice (my personal view) and not only from service point of view but for more reasons than one. Quality of service I receive is a factor but there are other important factors playing a role in my decision to do for indies only. With indies I have the chance to speak to the lady directly and assess her mood at the time and her personality for myself and ask her directly for her choices and restrictions and make an informed decision rather than a hearsay by someone else who promises on her behalf which may or may not be delivered. They want you to call them back and become your regular so they do their best to leave you happy and satisfied. Since six months ago that I adopted indie-only policy, I have seen over a dozen indies I have not had a single disappointment (100% hit ratio). Whereas my hit to miss ratio with agencies was around 65% and 35% approx.. On another point equally important to me (may be more important) I don't wish to see a large portion of my donation (given as a gift for the girl's time, to the lady I spend time with) going to the agency. The girl doing all the work and the agency gets a large portion of that. That bothered me a lot over the 12 to 15 months that I was having agency girls. They (some) were clearly complaining about this after knowing me well and almost all the ladies I used to see have gone indy already or retired (In all these two years there was only one single case that an indie changed to an agency!!!!). A couple of ladies whom I get to know well, they told me (after they quit agency) that on some nights they used to lose money because they had to pay for the hotel and they did not have any customer for the whole night and in fact they stayed in the hotel room waiting and bored while nobody knocked on the door and these two ladies (one became independent and the other became a nude dancer) were both from the agency who claims to be very busy with many calls!!!!!. To my total surprise, the agency who took as much as $70 off their hourly donations (more so for outcalls to include driver's fee) did not even pay for their hotel cost!!!!!!. Again equally important, in the case of indies, I believe it is more likely the ladies themselves would decide as what their own choices and restrictions are. Or what days or how many hours they would like to work and whom to see (or not to see) and all these are very important to me. I believe that the lady herself can do the advertisement (on cerb, Escorts Canada, or cl....) and book her own hotel with putting a bit of (but not a lot of) extra time but I do agree from security point of view, if the lady is doing outcalls and no friend to watch over her while she is visiting clients, then an agency may be a safer option. Ultimately of course it is the lady's choice only as what option she is more comfortable with, and is best suitable for her personal situation. PS - This post expresses my personal views, statistics and choices.

Cerb is a God send to us companions and Sp's alike...I'm not sure if you gentlemen realize this or not but in order for us to advertise on other sites we have to pay...not just pay to advertise but pay to be degraded,insulted and more. Sure there are lots of decent guys that maybe on those sites but they i think sometimes are afraid to say anything as they might get bashed. I did however have one positive on another Canadian board where someone was saying some BS about me and the guys that knew me all spoke up...it made me feel wonderful...but i decided not to use these other boards anymore...I'm on strike...lol....why a person pays to be treated like crap is beyond me. One would think that if you have to pay to be on a site that one can decide whether or not she has a say in what people say about them....so thank you Mod. kisses and hugs, Emma ps-i like the word recommendation much better then review...another plus

Well here it goes.... After much debate on posting this, I have decided too. I am apologizing upfront to anyone whom I have offended or put off with what I am about to write. For the respect of people that I have been in communication with I will NOT mention names. I enjoy what i offer and the quality time that I spend with the select few that I do get a chance to visit with. I value my time and yours and ALWAYS try to be accomadating to whom ever I am going to visit with. Hence things do come up, delayed flights, traffic, hotel room not ready for check in, possibly your wife or SO coming home early, child sick or a work related issue. I understand as yes I have another life outside of this situation as well. What I am upset about is the LACK of respect from said indiviudals. I prefer to arrange my visits via email and confirm over the phone, I enjoy getting to know who i may be visiting with and this system works for me ( I am sorry if it does not for you). Yes I screen my potential company and it is for my safety and yours. My door is not a revoloving door and I visit with a few gentlemen a week. I am not a pizza which you can order in 20mins or less. Please do not tell me my donations are too high or not the going rate that is really not your place to comment, so please keep it to your self. I travel because I enjoy seeing all parts of Canada and enjoy the opportunity of all that life has to offer. When you prebook our engagement, and I email to confirm and with details to be told "im in Cuba for the remainder of the month" why would you wast my time, when you knew 2 weeks ago you would be going to cuba. When I visit I provide an expereince that is unique to me. I am NOT for everyone and everyone is NOT for me and I completely accept that. If I feel that I am not for you after a few brief emails I will always happily reccomend someone I know in the area if I am able to do so. I am not a clock watcher and always take my time to get to know who I am visiting with, so we can both be comfortable with one another. I respect the fact that you have a life outside of our encounter, so please respect that the same goes for me. I entertain because I choose too and no, noone is making me do this. I prefer to visit with mature gentlemen and that is my choice. You may prefer a blonde or a spinner, do I question your preference? Why am I ranting on and on..... Yes CERB is an amazing community and there are ALOT of wonderful contributers out there, but due to the amount of recent lack of respect I feel it necessary to make this post. I am not posting to offend anyone, but more to "OPEN the eyes of those offenders".

Oh do I ever!! It was a friend's birthday and her one wish was to get a lapdance. We piled into her boyfriend's car and made our first trip to a strip club, Barefax. We had no idea what to expect but an empty bar was definitely a surprise. We made ourselves cozy in pervert's row and got to work on picking out "The One". She had to be hot, and she had to look like she was having fun. Unfortunately most of the girls looked bored, not to mention disappointed that their only potential clients were a handful of drunk chicks that were scrutinizing their lazy spins and hefty bellies. We were about to give up, but damn it, we must have dropped over $200 on booze and we were NOT leaving without some hot titty action. The bass is booming, the lights spinning and out of nowhere this spunky blonde hops on stage with the biggest smile on her face. Wow. She got to work on stage when her eyes met mine. She then dropped on all fours and seductively crawled towards me with a naughty twinkle in her eye. As she approached our side of the stage she grabbed my hand and dragged me up with her. Before I could regain my composure she unexpectedly removed my belt with the flick of her wrist and proceeded to use it to give me quite the sexy beating. I looked down at my friends who were simply dying with laughter as the lady in question buried her head between my legs. That's when I remembered why I was there in the first place. I slowly ran my tongue up her neck and whispered my sexy request in her ear. She looked at me, looked at my friend and gave me a nod. Several minutes later they both return with my friend rather breathless, sweaty and at a loss for words. "WOW!" she yelled, "Best birthday EVER!" That was it, I had to try this girl. I had never experienced a lapdance and she seemed like the perfect candidate for newbies. I approached her from behind, grabbed her lovely bum and slipped a twenty in her hand. She made a sexy purring sound and led me up the flight of stairs with the DJ giving me a big thumbs up. I sat down in the chair with her apologizing for the lack of privacy. I said I didn't mind, especially since we were the only ones up there. That was when she tore off my shirt and bra and stuck her tongue down my throat. Oh, yummy. I frantically ran my hands over her body, thrilled to even be in the presence of such a sexy, vivacious woman. She nibbled on my ear and whispered she had a surprise. She quickly ran off and I heard a faint buzzing that grew stronger as she approached me. She then removed my jeans and placed the vibrator between my legs. I started quivering and moaning which got her very excited. We made out some more with our bodies intertwined when the music changed its beat. "That's it, darlin'" she whispered. Until next time.