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  1. 6 points
    I dont see it as money (keep in mind I still see it as BUSINESS...just to keep in line..) My regulars are what make my day in this business...My relief from the BS I have to deal with on a daily basis. Sadly I've lost a couple in the following months for different reasons or reasons unknown and it has definitely left me a tad depressed. It is a very big compliment to have someone want to see you again...and again for that matter. Never hearing back from a regular is kind of like losing touch with an old friend...who you may feel akward by shooting off an email to asking how he's doing for fear of him thinking you were only contacting him for business means. The ones who I see again and again are indeed outstretching their hand to build a solid client-SP relationship (not to be confused with an actual relationship) but it makes conversation easier, catching up fun, and more than often the big hug at the door after reuniting after a few weeks that much more enjoyable. Money aside, The regulars are the ones that are the gems inbetween the rude customers and harsh phonecalls and degrading texts from would-be clients. They are the ones that at the end of the night, we walk to our cars with a smile on our faces. To the "collector hobbiests" I have no quams with wanting to try everything once, but in the end I will say that finding the right person (or two) and becoming a regular of theirs is the biggest honour a girl can give you, and if shes appreciative, a great compliment should you be a gentleman to her for her business and are a noble client...repeat business will definitely earn you a girl's trust and have her earn your's....from that point on it's all YMMV
  2. 3 points
    They sure do matter to me!!! Although I like meeting new people?my hope is to connect with them so we can hook up again, ?I would say half of it is for financial reasons, the other half is because for me, it is so nice to look forward to seeing someone that you know will treat you right and that you can have a good time with (this is what make me really like what I do:wink: )?usually no surprises?as you know just what you are in for!! When I first meet someone, I am feeling both excited and nervous at the same time?I like the excitement?not so much the nervousness? Lately I have a been a little weary of meeting new friends, due to a really unpleasant incident that occurred last month (felt shamed, humiliated, and degraded) ??.however, right after the incident took place ( and a few tears later ), the first thing that I thought of was, my special regular friends?.seriously?It was kind of comforting to think about them cause it kind of reassured me that there was nothing wrong with me, I am a very likeable person and if I don?t want to see new people , I really don?t have to cause I have special friends!!! Please note, we all handle our business differently, I am not looking to gain a super lavish lifestyle?therefore, if I only see a handful of friends on a monthly basis, I am ok with that?For me I would rather much see 5 special friends per month, then 20 and take a chance that 15 out of the 20 guys would not be the nicest men?..I realize this is a business, however my personal mental health is very important to me?I know for myself, if I were to see many random clients, I would not be able to keep up my friendly demeanor and attitude?so all that to say I really, really value them !!!
  3. 1 point
    I've just been flipping randomly through the albums posted on cerb, and I have to say I'm so impressed with the quality and variety of women who belong to our community, in all capacities, as sp's, dancers, MA's, whatever. So I thought I'd say a sincere thanks to every one of you for the pleasure and fun and beauty that you share with us. A special thanks to those who've befriended me here, and even more so to those who have spent time with me. I've met a lot of you in the past 15 months or so, not nearly as many as I would like, but lots; and I've enjoyed every single time. As spring dawns, I'm getting charged up for more fun and more meetings, and wanted to say how much I appreciate these opportunities to know fabulous and beautiful women. So thank you all.
  4. 1 point
    Cato, When you started this post, Cameron and Sabrina came to mind. These woman are just amazing and remarkable people. Amanda, was someone I always wanted to meet, but circumstances kept getting in the way. Thanks for posting a great topic.
  5. 1 point
    Your first time with an SP might bring some anxeity. I get a few newbies and I always tell them to relax. once I know they are comfortable I start to bring out the menu. whether its incall or outcall I know they are nervous and I try and let them know it's about taking it slow and enjoying the moment. Some say start with an agency at first, but that is completely up to you and your wallet and your resources some can only do incalls for some reasons they cant afford a hotel room they can't bring anyone home or whatever their logic is. I see some newbies for thier very first time and some I am seeing them on a repeat second time basis. and I have seen a change from the first time to the second time how much more relaxed they are . so hun don't think about it too much. Remember to be - respectful to the lady you book with, have the money available in an evelop is much nicer. - offer a drink open it the drink in front of the lady, or bring an unopen drink to her for the incall. - use the shower most incalls have a shower. - be ready and showered in the hotel room or your home about 10 minutes before she arrives its ok if your late and get ready while she is there but dont take to long. - good luck and have fun.
  6. 1 point
    I want to just make a point here, which is the fact that "we", as in SP's & Hobbyist's, are somewhat (meaning most of us) a type of secret society if you really do think about it. We are cautious about almost everything we do & say when engaging in this lifestyle. Whether we are using alias names, screening, requesting discretion, requiring an i/c or o/c location etc...the bottom line is that we are overall trying to maintain some degree of discretion, right? So when it comes to something like bumping into someone outside of the experience, the discretion becomes vulnerable. The question of what to do shouldn't be too hard to think about whilst seeking the best answer. Just saying...:rolleyes:
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