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Good Afternoon My Stalker, I hope that you are reading this post, so you can understand that I have had enough. At first i thought you would eventually get the hint and leave me alone, but you still persist. For almost a year now, you have gone out of your way to obtain another visit with me when I visit your city. After a visit with you that left me feeling uneasy I decided that I did NOT wish to see you again. You made me very uncomfortable and actually really creeped me out by the way you acted. You Pm'd, which I at first ignored and then I blocked you. Then you started with the emails, most of which I ignored (except for the one in which I told you that I no longer wish for you to contact me). After that is was the phone calls (32 in one day). What part of I dont wish to see you anymore do you not understand? Do not email me from a new email addres (1 of 4) that you have created all in which have your name in some form another in it. Your name is not that common and I am not stupid, it is not hard to put 1 and 1 together. You have made me so uncomfortable I had to change my number (incase you are still calling), and I don't always advertise my visits in your city as I don't want the grief. I have now seen almost every hotel in your city as the chance that you find out where I am staying is less possible that way, as you seem to like to hang arround the outside of my hotel on occasion. I am not sure what else to say to you, except for you to leave me alone, I have asked you nicely in private and now in public. If I have to go to the police, that will be my next step. Please do yourself a favour and take a moment and look at how you are behaving, if you need to walk away from this industry as a hobbiest that may be best for everyone as one day you may take things too far. I believe in complete discretion and stand by my words at all times, so I will never mention your personal details on this board, but I will to the police if you give me no other choice. I have done my best to be as polite as possible and the things I wanted to write to you in this post would have been removed. Emily

I actually drove 8 hours to see a 24 year old virgin with Cerebral Palsy a couple of months ago. He had emailed many other SPs, but apparently I was the only one who responded. We exchanged emails for months beforehand, due to his excitement and inexperience. When I finally got there, I met one of the sweetest, kindest and warmest people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. I mean this guy was an inspiration to me. He had nothing, (couldn't move his hands properly, couldn't walk and was wheelchair-bound for life). Yet, he rarely stopped smiling, he was generous and thoughtful and most importantly of all, I made a dear and special friend. It didn't occur to me, when I received his email, to say no. Just because he got a shitty hand dealt to him, in my mind, doesn't exclude him from needing to be held, caressed and cared for. I say do it Erin! Remember that each one has special needs, and one of those is to be touched. The disabled, I found, need it more than most.

I have been thinking about doing a bit of specialization and focusing on the needs of dis/abled clients. A close friend of mine from high school has cerebral palsy and has a severe walking impairment. He was a virgin until he was 27. The unfortunate truth is that most people see the dis/abled as sexless, but they have needs like everyone else. So I'd like to be that open-minded individual who can help them reconnect with intimicy and learn to be sexual. Plus, I slept with my friend and it was some damn good sexin'. Also, I feel that for me, this would be a way to reconnect to sex in different ways. Consider someone who is deaf/blind: you talk using the Deafblind Manual Alphabet, using touch to communicate. I found this brilliant page on the subject: http://www.tlc-trust.org.uk/advice/page6.html I'm wondering if anyone knows of any forums relating to sex workers and dis/abled clients? Where might one advertise? Any ideas or suggestions appreciated! xx Erin

This may sound stupid to the casual reader, but those of us on CERB I'm sure will understand. I have always wanted to do something to help people, make a difference etc and when I got into sex work, I really felt like I had found my place. Most people won't understand that, because they don't understand that not everyone has regular access to sex. But I've always thought that everyone should be able to get laid regardless of ability, social skills, etc. Truthfully, if everyone was getting laid and we didn't have such strange taboos and stigmas surrounding sex, we'd all be much happier.

- 30 min not enough time? - start with massage, get totally relaxed and then go from there. Many clients I see do not always get as far as fs, considering the way I do an erotic massage, hj, and so on - do not expect to finish in fs, but at the end move to hj or bj as long as there is no condom. Condoms can add extra stress, imo, for someone who is thinking they are not going to cum. - At the finish, make sure you are NOT on your back. Standing or kneeling is better. - Repeat repeat repeat, meaning choose one sp and keep returning to that one sp until you achieve this goal. Switching partners is almost a guarantee to not get what you are seeking; staying with one sp means that by the 3rd or 4th visit, you will increase your chances of success. Make the first 1 or 2 visits non-fs, and aim for a hj finish. I have found all of the above techniques very successful, and work also well for someone who cums very quickly. The idea is to enjoy the journey.

Last January, I posted Brynn's website in the "Exemplary Escort Websites by Agencies or Independants" thread and subsequently wrote her asking if she would visit Ottawa. Disappointingly, she said no. Several weeks ago I was delighted to see that she was touring Ottawa. Unsure about booking weeks in advance, I did so nonetheless and after meeting her this earlier week, no regrets. Upon her opening the door, I was greeted by a stunningly drop-dead gorgeous woman. Having requested that she wear a skirt and blouse, her choice tastefully and truly accentuated her sensuality without being vulgar. As we sat down to get to know each other, I found an educated, intelligent and articulate woman whose personality would set anyone at ease. Within minutes, I felt like I was with an old friend. After an enchanting and arousing while, we moved to the bedroom where we continued to kiss, caress and tease our clothes off. Taking a brief interlude for a shower, we were soon again intertwined, rolling on the sheets. From the moment she opened the door, she had my mind and spirit fully aroused. Brynn was always wanting to take care of my needs and determined to ensure that both mind and body would be fully satiated, all of the while staying within her boundaries. I as well took delight in wanting to please her, which was easy as it is rare to find someone so willing to communicate what she wants. Her go with the flow attitude and humour was wonderful for when things worked and when things did not. Laughter is such an essential quality when in bed with someone. Brynn has certainly mastered the enchanting ability to take time and make it seem longer. The brief time we spent together felt like all evening. At no time did I feel rushed. When I left, I left with a smile, one that can only be achieved after spending time with a wonderful and exciting woman. Since I started to meet courtesans, I have found that I seek and am very much attracted to a true GFE. Brynn Winters is the personification of GFE. She not only met all of my expectations, she exceeded them, blew them out of the water and then some. I am so pleased that she has decided to return to Ottawa and I look forward to meeting up with her many times in the future.

I have done many over nights...i find it's not about how many times you can get off but more of the being able to relax,feel comfortable and taking things slow...falling asleep together,being able to cuddle and feel close to someone..that's been my experience..it's not always a marathon..lol

Hats off to all you big hearted ladies. There is a young guy in a wheel chair in my neighborhood that I see often on the front porch of his house on a busy street. I can only guess what he thinking, watching pedestrians, cars, cycles go by. As I roll by on my bicycle, I think to myself, " I got problems ???, I can go anywhere, whenever I want" When we were born none of us had the choice of parents, body, or country. Some of us lucked out , some of us didn't. Humility is the first character trait that I sense for whenever I meet someone, and those that equate their luck with superiority, I avoid like the plague. It's what is between the ears that really counts. Rep for all the girls in this thread. Welcome to CERB , big Al.

I have had 2 good regular clients who are Severely disabled. One was made a quadriplegic by a car accident and could only do daty and even had a special table made so that I could perch on it for him like a buffet and he could wheel up to it. I could also sit on his lap on the chair and feed my boobs to him but he wasn't capable of intercourse. That just goes to show you how much sex is between the ears and how a man can enjoy having only oral satisfaction from giving. The other regular had CP and could enjoy intercourse but only with girl on top. He could also enjoy oral obviously. I have heard that in some European countries the disabled have escorts covered on their health care plans! What an awesome idea:bddog:

A little Emma rant: there is a reason why we call them appointments....just like the word means..you pm,call,email whichever to make an appointment...just like you would to see your doctor,dentist..etc. We do have a life outside the biz we are just not sitting around knitting and waiting for your calls...most of us need time to prepare...time to look and feel good before an appointment.. i sometimes as I'm sure others do as well get letters saying such things as: appointment now? ready yet? Can i see in in 15? what the heck is up with that? A lot of times I'm either in bed sleeping or out....I'm not running back to see you..lmao nor am i getting up at 3am... that's my rant for today...:wink: kisses, Emma

I'm just running through all the typical responses I'd expect from other, less-tolerant boards, and I'm starting to realize how this one is very different than the rest... I remember when I was dancing in a strip club, and a guy with a badly-disfigured arm came in and sat down. He was a trucker who had read about tgirls, but just hadn't had the opportunity to meet one. The other girls avoided him like the plague, but I went over, chatted with him for a few minutes, and took him for a few dances in the back. He was so sweet, so shy, and so respectful - the polar opposite of some of the jerks who used to visit that place. After the dances, he asked me if he could buy my panties from me! It was an unusual request, but I had a few extra pairs in my bag, so I gave him a pair to keep in his rig. The other girls were grossed out when I told them, but I thought it was a wonderful compliment; he wanted something to remember the experience, and all it cost me was a $6 pair of La Senza panties - a small price to give someone a few moments of happiness. Once in a while, I'll picture him driving in his truck, occasionally glancing at the glove box, knowing what's inside - and I can't help but smile. :) Enjoying sex is a human desire. It exists independent of age, gender, tastes, dis/ability, or partner of choice; at the end of the day, all we really want is to enjoy that feeling of connection with another human being. That's all that really matters; the rest is just a matter of details. :)

I also find I connect well with clients who are dis-abled/differently abled. I even put someting up on my website about it. Erin, will I see you today? I have a really good book I can recommend.

May I ask, out of PURE curiosity, why do you write it "dis/abled" instead of "disabled"? I like to keep current so I ask questions :D BTW Erin, I think you're awesome!

When I first started out, which incidentally is a year ago today, I used to receive calls with a half hour to an hour's notice. I used to do as many as possible, which weren't that many as I HATE to rush. But because I didn't know any better, I figured this is just how it is. Now, don't get me wrong, if I can, I will do a last minute request. However, after building my reputation for the last year, I'm finding (thankfully) more and more clients are booking far in advance, which I love. It gives me time to send a couple of emails, maybe a phone call or two, and by the time the appointment rolls around, I'm not nervous or anxious because we've provided ourselves a bit of time to soak it all in, ask questions, find out each other's preferences, and most importantly of all, ENJOYING THE ANTICIPATION! That's the difference I think. With a new client, whether he be in town or not, it's essential you build some sort of foundation with a newbie so you can ensure the session goes exactly how the client wants it to. Not necessarily guaranteeing a repeat session, but at least giving the client the ride of his life during that one magical hour. It is possible with a little communication. The anticipation of an appointment booked in advance works both ways, believe me.