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I have been reading about big AL and Soleil events and posts over the last few days, and was brought to a new found level of admiration to both people involved.....actually now 3 people thanks to one silent generous person. I would like to see if we (CERB) could do something for at least 2 of the people involved. You see big AL put himself out there and opened his life and let us in to something very personal and incredibly brave in his life....... Soleil showed here true heart and her love of life by being part of big Al's life...... I feel both these people should be thanked for sharing this with us and by possibly opening some of our eyes and hearts. I would like to ask to see who would help support the idea of having 2 awards bestowed on 2 very special individuals without having to wait for multiple threads and weeks of voting Soeil.........Service Provider Award big Al........Valued Memebr Award All who agree please add your your comment

Recommendation- Soleil: When I 1st got in contact with Soleil, it was a different kind of situation for me. You see, I am a 24 year old male who has Cerebral Palsy and am confined to a wheelchair. At this time I was a virgin and was thinking that I was never going to lose my virginity. My life is really hard and there is not much joy in it. I had been talking with several Sp?s, and had actually been told by one of them that Soleil would be good for my situation. Let me tell you, I am so happy the sp I was talking with, Recommended her form me. Upon receiving Soleil?s name I sent her an email explaining my situation, and within the hour she replied back, within the hor. At this point I knew things were off to a good start. I told her that I had a disability and was in a wheelchair, she was fine with that. It was amazing. She wanted to know all about me and my needs before our time together. She really cares about her work. This was the 1st time in my life that a woman and her beauty and intelligence, wanted to me with me. Here is another point that shows she cares about her clients. With me having a disability, it is pretty much impossible for me to travel. So, she came to me, sounds simple enough, right? The only catch is that I live 4 hours away from the city. This was not a problem for her, at all. When she asked me where I lived I got very afraid, that she was going to tell me that she could not come and see me. The truth is she was excited about the challenge to come and see me. She knew that I need some happiness in my life, and she was not let distance stand in her way. That is a true description of an ?OutCall? She is truly a great person. Without her having such a great personality, there is no way this would have ever happened for me. Before our night together, I would sometimes email her up to 3 times per day with questions, and/or comments. She replied to every one of them. This really put my mind at ease. When Soleil arrived at my door, it was truly a sight to behold. She is an absolutely stunning woman. Her Eyes, legs Breasts, and hot body, are just a few of her attributes, there are many more. She gave me a hug and our night got underway. I must say something before I continue you. Being intimate with me is not an easy thing what so ever. She even helped me urinate (go to the washroom) throughout the night. She was great. This was such a nice feeling for me, trust me helping me go to the bathroom, is not as easy thing to do. Even though this was her 1st time doing this, it was like she had done it 1000 times before. Taking off my garments is not easy at all, ether, due to my very tight muscles. She still did it with a huge smile on her face. During all of this it is very hard for me with my disability, to look ?sexy? Soleil, however, treated me like I was the sexiest man alive. She helped feed/ drink water throughout the night as well, as we had snacks. (trust me, I needed the food and water, lol) My hands do not work well. So, I need help with everything this was so nice of her...... Remarkable.... she did not get upset or anything, just wanted to know what she could do next to help me. By her helping me with ALL of my needs I cancelled my homecare staff, and it was just me and her for the whole night. 2nd, have a slight speech impairment that makes me hard to understand. With Soleil however, she understood everything I said. We did some stuff in my power chair. 1st I am not going to go into detail, but it was magical. What happened next was truly amazing to me. Well, we moved to my bed. Sounds normal enough, right? Not for me it isn?t. You see, I cannot stand up No; I must use a lift to transfer. I had told Soleil about this earlier in our conversations. She had no problem with it. Seeing it in person can me a much different thing. She did not mind in the least, all I have to say is WOW!!!!!!!!!. This is not an easy thing to, but she helped me with no problems. After we got into the bed she helped move me around, as I cannot roll over, or anything. We then engaged in carnal relations, it was wonderful. After we were done, she gave me a sponge bath. We then slept in my bed for the night. Not before we talked and held each other. I could not ask for my 1st time to be anymore better. In the morning we woke each other up, so to speak, lol. Then she gave me a kiss goodbye, and was on her way. If you?re looking for a person, who puts her clients need?s 1st, and treats you like a king; she is the one for you. Not on did she help me lose my virginity, I have made a friend for life. Her name mean?s sunshine and this is what she has brought into my hard disabled life.

If I may, I'd like to first thank everyone sincerely for the accolades. For me, the chance to bring some much needed joy into BigAl's life was an incredible opportunity, and I never considered for a moment not to do it. However, I would like to divert the attention from myself, and let you all know about someone else in this situation, who's altruism has restored my faith in the generosity of man. During the 'Dis/Abled Clientele' thread started by the tenderhearted Erin xo, BigAl mentioned he only receives $372 a month for disability. A fellow compassionate Cerbite, from Winnipeg, offered and donated $300 towards BigAl's next visit from me. November 2nd, his 25th birthday. Now this member has requested to remain anonymous, but his sympathy and understanding towards BigAl's financial difficulties, and the kindness and generosity he has shown myself and BigAl, deserves to be noted. With this members permission, I informed BigAl of his early Birthday gift. As you can well imagine, it made BigAl's day, and then some. A former stranger has now become a dear friend, and they'll probably never meet. But this is the sort of selflessness that makes my eyes tear. Some of you have sent me PMs to personally congratulate me. I am touched by my fellow Cerbites' warmth and compassion, but BigAl is the real hero in this story, not me.

I have no idea how to start this particular post other than to simply say that you must read this recommendation and then take five minutes of your day to send Soleil a compliment! I for one, being a health care provider, know how cerebral palsy can affect someone's body. I believe she offered service where others may not have. So to Big Al it sounds as though you had a great time and made THE right decision on who to see. To Soleil you deserve a pat on the back if only for the four hour commute to and from the date. All the best to you both and Soleil if you are ever in my corner of the country dinner is on me!

Hey all! :smile: Just needed to get something off my chest here! :boobies: I have been receiving lots of phone calls and messages from people who have been asking things like "What services do you provide?" "What are your rates?" "Do you do in-calls?", etc...:confused: Please people...I'm begging you.... :???: please take the time to read the info you find before contacting someone... I get contacts that I know can only find me online because I don't advertise anywhere else, and then they begin bombarding me with a ton of questions that I know they can find the answers to right in front of them. :idea: I have had two hang-ups even, because I start to tell these folks to look at my site for the info, because I prefer to not talk too much business over the phone...guess a girl with a brain intimidates some people lol! :lol: I do understand that CERB has limited information on profiles...but bless them for giving us this place to be able to talk about things like this and keep some decorum in the profession! But I do have links to my website all over the place and it is easy to find. I really would like it if you could look over more then just the photos and then call or message me. If there is something you would like to know about me that isn't posted on the site , by all means go ahead and ask! I don't bite...unless asked! :-D But almost everything you would need to make a well informed decision is there for you to see, and then the finer details can be worked out when contact is made. Don't get me wrong...I enjoy the conversations I have with the people who contact me. :motion: But I would rather spend the time talking about other things that would make the meeting we have even better. So, anyway, that's pretty much all I have to say about that! :-P Any feedback is appreciated as well! Thanks all! :eek: Julie

This is long overdue! If you like smart, sexy, sensuous, very pretty and fun women keep reading. If you don't.....then move along:)! I've had the pleasure of seeing Auralie about every three weeks or so since November 09. I'm a gentleman and won't get into intimate details, suffice to say that if you are polite, courteous, respectful and engaged you can have a fabulous time. I know I have and could not recommend Auralie more highly! Peace Mr Green

It just goes to show that there still are some compassionate people left in this world! If everyone was one half as generous/compassionate as this unnamed stranger, society would be far different! Kudos to Al, Soleil and the unnamed stranger!

I thought i would answer your questions just from my point of view only.

Victoria Jolie. So many great points! I would like to comment on some of the points you bring up. There are 4 types of ways of receiving data when communicating according to NLP (neurolinguistic programming), and therefore a variety of preferred types of communication. Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic and A-D auditory digital (data/information/science). When people first attempt to communicate with all of those to attract a mate they give off the best first impression but as they get to know one another better they relax and fall back to their dominant mode. You are not auditory.. at least on the phone. You may or may not be in person.. ie enjoy hearing naughty talk. I'm primarily kinesthetic and I feel out a person through their voice on the phone. ie. I get a vibe. I can also get a vibe from seeing the person's photo and especially their smile which is why I find it important to not only see sexy photos on a website but also relaxed smiling photos! Too many of the girls have glamour photos but none smiling.. I filmed with Niki V about 5 years ago and was so pleasantly surprised by her winning smile when I met her in person. Not at all evident on her site. I don't mesh at all with people who are A-D because they have no clue how to touch a person and can't carry on a conversation. Those people seem robotic to me. I do have a colleague who is like that and she's great for sharing information but we can't hang out and have a beer. A person who calls who is only interested in information without any feeling will not make me connect so I will not respond appropriately. They might go away feeling nothing or feeling ignored... either way no loss on my part because the session would have likely zapped my energy anyway... confusing me as to how to please them. Other times I have pleased them a lot but with no signals coming from them I have no idea until they thank me at the end of the session. I'm sure you've all had this experience. It has nothing whatsoever to do with your skill if you don't speak A-D :) My best clients are kinesthetic and visual like me. They are excellent skilled lovers who can soak up my attributes visually and touch me in a way that I feel I'm being sculpted from scratch by god himself. So.. before the internet.. we only had the phone. I used to do very well on voice ads because I have a sexy voice. My description was indeed what sold them as I booked appts with a mere 60 seconds over the phone. This can also conjure up a visual image to the visual client. Imagination is my most powerful ally both for the client and for me. I hear ya mod on the horrible voice. Sometimes an accent can even turn me off if it's one I associate abrasiveness with. I can usually instantly hear if someone is a heavy smoker.. but none of that will deter me if they are respectful and appreciative. I used to work a variety of customer service jobs over the phone and in person during my lifetime. When you work for someone else you have no choice but to accept the good and bad from everyone. As a provider however I have the freedom to refuse service in person or over the phone to anyone. I don't think any of the girls in this thread are saying that we are bitchy to the callers we don't like. The initial poster was merely venting and I think now understands why this happens. It will give her and the rest of us more tolerance which is the best outcome from this discussion. A DVD on how to explain better business practices for escorts? Possible but not very likely.. These same errors in business occur in every industry. Most restaurants fail that start up. Many retail stores have employees that don't seem to know what they're doing. Think of virtually any business you have dealings with and they all pretty much fall short. Also..trying to explain certain things about nuances is virtually impossible. The main reason some escorts are in this business is for the freedom to run things the way they want. Some are in the biz because they are inept at working in the real world whereas the ones who stand out have soooo much experience in the real world it translates to this business as well and they are successful and popular. There are so many girls who do a great job and you have way more choices than ever before so count your blessings instead of trying to help those who are bad at their job. Like attracts like. The ones who are lousy at answering their phone will get clients who don't care. The 'tire kickers'' (got that from Christine) will continue to call around til they get the price/activity that sparks their interest and care little how the girl looks or sounds. Then will complain about it afterward. Well.. you get what you pay for.. and you who put little effort into research deserve to be disappointed. sorry to be so long winded.. but just had my morning cup o'joe and I'm a bit verbose :)

I voted for The Simpsons, as imho it is comedic genius - the last few episodes have been hilarious! Longest running cartoon ever for a reason. ...and I agree, it's also the show that paved the way for South Park, FG, AD, the Cleveland Show, Ugly Americans, etc. Anecdotal evidence is the fact the Simpsons and South Park have had silver-screen movies whereby Stewie Griffin: The Untold Story went straight to DVD. Also, D'oh is now in the dictionary. Family Guy is a predictable regurgitation of jokes and days gone-by for me. Stewie and Brian have their moments, but far enough apart that I can't watch the show. As an example, I lean much more to the humourous stylings of Arrested Development moreso than SpongeBob Square Pants. ...but still love the toilet humour. :twisted:

Well after reading Mod post yesterday i longely reflect on it and slept over to come with: I think both party have to do their part While i agree with some points that MOD refered to..Here is my opinions: Some ladies don't advertise phone number because probably like me, they don't like talking on the phone and have not much patience via this line of communication.It does not only apply to my work but also when i call my bank,rogers,etc. In no way it does reflect that in my session i am not patience and attentionate So the question would be why do you post you phone number then..Well i though i would try to accomodate everybody. The reality is that you can't please everybody,that in our society we leave in a world where most are concentrated on themself(i include myself in this). Older i get i have learn and yet still have to learn to put myself in others shoes.Alas i am not perfect. To recognize who is not a serious caller or time waster...But where do we draw the line who is? To my personal experience each guy that call believe that they are serious that their call are important. Would it be not common sence to think that if you call and wish to have few minute to talk that the phone call could start by something like: Hi i'm John from Ottawa i have read your ad or website and still have few questions..Do you have few minutes? Then hi how much do you charge? Or are you available now I personaly know that opening a dialog like the first example would probably make me want to give you a couple minutes and if i can't talk,ask you to either call me back at a certain time . The second example while it may obvious for you for which city you call it may not be for me.That is were i think that the gent has to put themself in our shoes. The reason i was mentionning that getting familiar with each girl website or ads is that some prefer you to call,some email.. Some travels extensivly...I'm on the last i travel extensivly... Is that your problem that i travel to 10 cities in a month..No it isn't..That my schedule is really condense...No it isn't however it can make you understand why i may not have a whole of a lot of time to spend over the phone. That many factors can affect me when i answer the phone... While i am willing to walk half the road to meet you...And make effort to answers more often questions over the phone i think that some guys that are serious and want to feel our personality should do their part and be courtois when calling. I can't even count anymore how many time someone call and ask me if i am in a city that i am not and when i answer they don't bother to say thank you but just hang up... As Mod said that phone call might be what it take for a client to sell the deal: Well i agree however if you are buyer would you have not done a little bit of homework before buying. If i have someone that has took few minutes to see my site and decide hey let give her a call to see what she is like over the phone...Well i have to say that you most likely will get a positive response if you show me up front that you have read and just need to re-confirm few things. It will make it easier for me to assume that you are serious and do give you some time over the phone. As for the person that has mentionned the video..I am not sure to who it is point out but i know that personaly so far everybody have brought their own cameras..There for have their videos. That i have Video YMMV because unfortunatly not every day i do feel like having someone filming me and if i can't accomodate someone for extra like this and greek i don't take the money requested for those extras. I have no need to rip off anyone and most that have met me that have left tips or extra money always been told that they were extra money that they could either come back to pick it up or i could apply it as a credit That recently i add to my website that if you choose that option that you would be ask to sign a waiver..Why? While i have mention many time that it has to be for personal use someone thought it would be great to put it on porn site..There for breaching my privacy If want to be on the internet i would have put them myself. So lastly i will make my efforts to accomodate more often gentlemen to answer questions over the phone..:boobies: VJ

I am the guy that Soleil drove 8 hours in a 24 hour span, to see. she was the most amazing woman I have ever met. I have CP and have been confined to a wheelchair all my life. being 24, I was getting very concerned that I was always going to be a virgin. Having the chance to be with a person like Soleil, was the best expreince of my life. Just to have a woman who wants to spend time with me in an intimite was Unforgettable. I really feel that we have a conection I have never had a girlfriend but, I was made to feel very special. disabled people have urges just like anyone else, and people need to know this. Masterbation is very hard for me, as well. I always have had lots of love to give, but have never had the chance to show it. during Our night. i did Not feel disabled al all. IT WAS AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!