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Folks, Just had to share this experience with you good people on this site?..especially if you are having one of those days??..( i know a few who are.....) A little over a year ago, a good friend of mine became quite ill and was told he needed a kidney transplant?..and it was urgent that this be done??. Unfortunately, he had a difficult time finding a compatible donor, the search was onerous and fruitless?..and just when it seemed that his fate was sealed??a donor was found????. The other day, as I was ripping my hair out, annoyed that I didn?t get to fly the route I bid, annoyed that the damn lawn care guy didn?t weed my lawn properly, and that my son had ONCE again forgotten to take the garbage out?..the phone rang??.. It was my friend??he called to ask me, if I saw how absolutely wonderful the sun was this morning and how truly magnificent it looked as it rose into the sky??..a sight HE THOUGHT a few weeks ago HE MAY NEVER SEE AGAIN??..those comments stopped me dead in my tracks?? I am by no means a religious man, nor someone who is overly sensitive or very emotional??.but his words rang true in my ear??? Regardless of what MINOR stress I was dealing with that day, and God knows we all have stress?..it was NOTHING compared to what this guy went thru??yet he had the most positive outlook on life??.he was simply glad to be alive??.. So, while I am not discounting our daily stress and how difficult it may seem to us??look up in the sky, and all around you?? it sure is great to be alive ! Especially, with all the wonderful ladies we get to meet on CERB?? Enjoy your day??.

Originally I wanted to reserve my 1000th post for a very special event (likely a review of a special girl or discovery of a new treasure or a review of a large number of SP dancers), however, I realized today what a very special place cerb is (something that likely I knew in my heart but never put to test) and decided to dedicate my 1000th post for special sincere thanks to cerb. For some reasons when I came back from work around 3:00 pm and tried to logon to cerb, I wasn't able to logon to cerb :( as this is usually the first thing that I do when I get home after 8-9 hours of intensive work. It makes me feel relaxed and feel being belong to a caring community of friends and read the recent posts by all and ads by lady cerbites and also read my PMs mostly from cerbite friends and hence feel relaxed and cheered up. It was a very boring afternoon as a result of failure to logon to cerb. I wasn't able to communicate with the cerbite friends I have made over years or read their posts/comments. I felt like isolated from loved ones lol. Cerb has become a daily routine for me. Like a TV set which has found a special place in my home without which I would have a boring evening (I love movies), cerb too has found a special place in my heart lol without which I feel lonely. Many sincere thanks to cerb for being such a great community and many thanks to cerbites, in particular lady SPs (whose presence and posts/ads make cerb such a precious fun place to be) as well as gents for making it such a great friendly community. Last and by no means least, I would like to extend my special thanks to mod for making it such a friendly fun place to be by his decisive, fair and strong moderation.

I am going to chime in here as well! First off thank you MOD for answering these questions. The whole debate about couples seems to be along one. To the original poster : Please do not decide what is more work for us. My male clients are not slime balls nor are they sleazy and rude. Two people mean more risk, period! I dont charge double but I do charge more per hour only because it is two people.

1 no should suffice if you say no once and the guy persists, he should be gone. your body, your rules... end discussion.:) Additional Comments: Guys, Lets try to remember here, when we pay for a GFE, what we're paying for for that session is a bit more intimacy in the experience. We want them to treat us less like clients and more like friends/boyfriends. Ok, but let's remember here that cuts both ways. If your girlfriend said "Don't do that, I'm not into it." you'd have to be pretty dense to keep it up right? Why therefore do we expect our lovely SP's to put up with acts they aren't into? Treat our GFE providers like the queens they are, and they'll treat us like Kings. What's so hard here?:)

I think the ''analysis'' of trying to find the right sp for your encounter is much like trying to be sure you have the exact right formula for a ''good time'' whether it be finding the perfect night out at a restaurant or a vacation.. You can research up the wazzoo.. and I do when I vacation but not so much when I go to a restaurant. Even when you do the best research on a vacation.. it may be a 5 star. I may have won awards for the best restaurant reviews, best beaches, best nightlife shows etc. but then your plane is late arriving.. it rains everyday.. you get food poisoning, etc etc etc.. and you think what the heck? I planned for everything and I still had a rotten time. On the other hand.. you wing it.. and just go by feel and backpack through your journey meeting stranger after stranger and adventure after adventure. (I've done both but frankly prefer all-inclusive as I get older..lol) The important factor in any experience is that you go by feel/your gut. You can't plan for everything. Learn to listen to your instincts and enjoy it as it comes. The most difficult time I have with clients are the ones who are too much in their heads.. there's absolutely nothing I can do about that if they are because they are alone in there. I'm not necessarily saying this is you.. but it's just a caution. I think your generalizations are good ''in general'' but as you've found out.. many don't fit into that category. ie.. the ones I've seen pimped were generally the younger ones.. I don't know any girls in my age group who are pimped. Having said that.. I'm sure there are..somewhere. I very very highly recommend you go by instinct and feel.. how? by reading a girls posts on here since you have a large pool on cerb to view from.. and reading recommendations. Ignore whether she's in an agency or her age as a factor unless of course you have a preference.

Wow no follow up, no apology or explanation ? Truly unprofessional and rude, and unacceptable. That type of performance and attitude makes it difficult for everyone both providers and clients. Vote with your feet don't patronize them any more. I'm sure there's two sides to the story but if they went to the trouble of setting up the appointment they should at the very least have the decency and respect to follow up by email or pm. It works both ways.