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There's no need for this reprimand. The guys of Moncton were great :) I would go back in a heartbeat. Monctonians were as happy to see me and Emma as we were to see them. Perhaps it's best to let the girls speak on this issue instead of judging other hobbyists. By the way- Moncton and Saint John are EQUALLY cool!! What's with the rivalry? I'm convinced your two cities could have a great love affair. You know what they say... petty arguing hides something much deeper. xoxo Amelia

I am not sure how to explain the way I feel about this thread as I respect everyone's point of view but I can't understand how someone would respond to a potential client in such a rude way. I mentioned in another thread once we (SP's) owe potential clients the same respect any other service provider owes to people interested in their service/product only that normally they are not as lucky as we are to get to decide if we want to see the person interested or not which is not how it usually works in any other business and when it does, one of the first things someone dealing with clients is taught is to always be respectful so yes, there is nothing wrong with choosing not to see a client but that can be done without being harsh or impolite. As for the chat/pm exchanging well, I was surprised to find that most ladies do not want to chat 'just for conversation' I mean, I understand there is some members there who definitely do not know how to approach a lady but I have had the pleasure of being in very nice conversations with a few of the gentlemen there some of them I know I'll never meet as they are not in Ottawa but I still enjoy our chats and learn from them. Anyway, I'm glad things were clarified between MH and the girl and I guess a piece of advice or lesson for all of us is not to answer PM or email if we are in a bad mood :)

There are so many wonderful Service Providers. Emma and Emilly set the bar so high. I realize there are other comments made about what true GFE is. I have to say this: I know what true GFE is not. A true GFE makes you feel like: A girlfreind makes you feel when you are together for the first time. So many providers have that miscatagorized so badly. GFE means "Girl Friend Experience'. it is not a term to be thrown around by providers that want to use it for advertisement and then not really offer it. I am not talking "unsafe" practices. I just wish that providers who wish to say GFE in their profiles really mean that they offer a girlfriend experience. I had to say that Frank

Dude...dont take it personally... take a break... learn and let it go... theres a learning curve for some on here... me included... those of us who have cl'd may not be used to the higher class of lady on here... the rules, thoughts and ways to present yourself on this board.... just chill... read some posts, forums etc... and realize this isnt just a "hey wazzup...yo...howz $80" kinda place.... nice women on here... great forums and threads to read... some amusing some informative.... enjoy it, and stop getting wound up over a small misstep.... and just so you know... other people have learned from this whole thread as well...myself included...i think its been very informative for clients and sp's alike, so all in all it was a good thing this was all brought up!.... so there you go, albeit unknowingly, you have contributed in a positive way to cerb and its members...lol.... now let it goooooo...pls.... cause somehow im subscribed to this thread and dont know how to unsubscribe...and i keep getting emails...that i dont want to keep getting...lol

I agree with Lindsay, Le Nordik is the best! In terms of who I will not see, I think that a last minute booking is never a good thing for a first experience with someone. Usually when I have a same-day request I will let them know that I normally only see regular clients for last-minute sessions and then give my pre-screening questions if they are interested in seeing me another time, many of them don't reply after that- which shows me that they didn't really really want to see me, only in that moment. Not the kind of client I am looking for... I have my questions almost as an extra hurdle to jump, the ones who can't be bothered to answer them thoughtfully (or at all)are the ones that I weed out. It is important to remember that many of us are inviting you into our private spaces, physical and residential! We need to feel that you are respectful, caring and deserving. Do your best to give a good impression, and you will soon be rewarded!

We're ALL prostitutes under the law, regardless of how we each individually identify. I'm sure you meant no ill will Lindsay, but dividing us based on "class" isn't helpful. Legally, things just get more and more depressing.

hmm...you seem to advertise yourself alot I've noticed.

Yes Lindsay!!!! Contrary to popular belief, most of us want to enjoy the encounter as well!

Wow......quite the thread....interesting, We get SO caught up in who is right and who is wrong, we fail to really see the the big picture here.....and that is.....really who cares ??? Move on, in the grander scheme of things, this really is insignificant....... Was the Ladies response rude ?..... it APPEARS so, but without really knowing all the facts it is difficult to judge what caused the response and why she would offend the OP, who appears to have been polite with his approach..... in any case, if that were the response I would receive, I would stop the correspondence, and not continue discussion with the lady, who at that point has lost my business.....and if that is her typical attitude, she is well on her way to driving herself OUT OF BUSINESS Then, I would decide which one of the FANTASTIC ladies on CERB, I would choose to see, which would very quickly lead me to forget the rude encounter.... Why bother finding out what was wrong ? With so many wonderful ladies available, move on without any further thought......consider she did you a favour by further narrowing your selection ......... SNK

Regardless what was happening behind the scenes (longer pm's, "potential client to a pumpkin" what ever) As far as I'm concerned there has to be diplomacy used, that is where clients value the opinion or statement made by the provider. Even so, if client x tells potential clients a-z you don't think that if might affect her business? This could of gone for 2 days, but end result is how to handle it correctly and courteous about it. I don't tell newbies that pm myself and ask me for advise for ladies "Sorry but I don't chat this is boring"

I think I got a similar PM! And Erin put it fabulously: ladies want to see guys who genuinely want to see them. Not just because we're the first ad you saw, or whatever. It's not dating, but in a way it is - we want to see guys that we're not clashing with: emotionally, mentally and physically. Posted via Mobile Device

I think the bigger issue here is that you didn't use PM effectively which can irritate a lot of users, not just ladies in this industry but in all businesses that use social networking. Private Message is a lot like email, it isn't a form of instant communication but rather should be used much like writing a letter. When you write a PM you should include a greeting, a brief introduction (provided you have not communicated before), the purpose of your message and a closing. The message you sent had no clear no purpose so the person responding did not know it's intent and effectively had no idea how to respond or what the appropriate response would be. If you had said "Hi Kyra, My name is Wally and I was reading your post on Widgets, I thought it was rather funny. I am a shy guy and I wanted to take a moment to introduce myself. I live in Nantucket I own a large bucket factory which brings me to Toronto regularly. I hope to hear from you soon. Kind regards, Wally" I would know who you are, what the purpose of the letter is and I would be able to start a conversation. At this point you will find out if you are contacting the type of lady that interests you as you seek someone that you can connect with in advance (via conversation), there is nothing wrong with either styles of companion but they are different and you can choose which suits you best. If she does not wish to connect via conversation she will let you know and you can seek out someone that will, if she prefers the connection then you can carry on with the conversation and arrange a date when you feel comfortable. The point is to ensure that you are using PM, email, text, etc. effectively, failure to do so and the message will be lost no matter what lady you contact. I very much enjoy a conversation with my companions must admit that had you sent me the same one line PM you sent her I would likely wait 3-5 days to respond then would reply with the word "good" or "pleasing". It should be noted I would reply without quoting the original message. ;)

Rude doesn't begin to describe it. It seems the person in question forgets that the "S" in SP is service. I don't know many people who would have much success in any service industry with that attitude. Not to say she had to reply, she could have ignored the PM or replied in a polite manner. That response was rude and arrogant. Probably a good indication of a person to avoid, and quite probably an indication of less than stellar service.

First and foremost, how the lady in question responded to your PM was totally rude and could have been handled much better. That being said, if you were interested in getting to know her better to decide whether you want to book or not, it may have been better to be upfront about it, rather than just ask how her night was going. Those kind of PM's come off as "time-wasting" because it seems as though you simply want to chat, but have no intention of booking. If you had PM'd me asking how my night was going, I probably wouldn't have even replied.

-Explicit Questions -Guy on the phone did not even read the ad because they ask what your description is so most likely they are looking at a bunch of ads and probably don't even realize who they're talking to. One guy even starting calling me by another SP's name. And the SP was actually someone I knew. - I'm allergic to latex condoms which then leads them to ask for something else... enough said. A guy's basic introduction to me on the phone should not begin with "Yo" "Wassup" or "Hey babe". Guys who text when I specifically said "Don't text me!" Don't haggle with me on the phone or by email. Are you disease free? Are you sure? This is an insult. Why is it that WE as SPs are the ones who are always viewed as having STDS? Guys engage in this hobby so it is not completely one sided here. And are they stupid enough not to realize that no one is actually going to admit to this? Can you take a shower when I get there so I know you're clean? I will only pay you after the hour. Send me some facial pictures