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I was thinking some of you may need excuses to tell your S/O so you can make time to see us. Tis the season for the number 1 excuse you could use: Going Holiday Shopping also Forgot your phone in the car battery died doctor appointment Now others can add to the list.. kisses, Emma A

I love gift certificates that come in something fun like a bouquet of flowers or a plush bathrobe. I love to open something and find another surprise hiding... cat

Karine has what I think are some wonderful pictures on her site, I was not disappointed when I met her in person, she's stunning. She made me feel completely relaxed and at ease by her easy going nature from the moment we met. Karine is an amazing kisser; not wanting to get into too much detail I will say she is funny, energetic, accommodating and exceptionally good at what she does. Afterwords we had some time to just lay there and chat which was nice, besides all of the above I come to find that Karine is a very intelligent woman on top of everything else. I would definitely repeat :-) Karine thank you for a superb afternoon break!

Madison I agree with you your sessions are tailored to the individual and do not fall under the normal gfe and pse type services you are wise to (I think ) to have prospective customers contact you directly it guarantees discretion and satisfaction dont get bullied by other providers on this site your right and I bet your busy

I have never hidden any of this from anyone in my life. I have no reason to, I was always the wild child growing up and none of my hobbying came as a shock to anyone. I feel no reason to be ashamed or to feel any level of guilt about any of this. I have always enjoyed myself and have met many wonderful people over the years as a hobbyiest and hope to continue to do the same till the end of my days. :D

First I like to say this is one of the most interesting thread I have read in a long time as everyone has brought up some interesting points. To answer the original comment, just do your homework. Read ads/website from ladies and you will find ladies who offer that service, a few have been mentioned already and some in their ads hint to asking with comments such as: "and more..." I also wanted to comment specifically on Megan's post because I summarized it as providing "honest advertising" As she mentioned in her last para most services are YMMV with obvious reasons such as personal Hygiene etc... Isn't it frustrating to read an ad in any business and find out half of it is bullshit. You get to a store or a hotel and find out your not getting what was written in the ad. As Megan brought up seems some agencies who advertise a lot on the Board/net advertise same services for all the ladies when it's well known on this board that is not the case. At least many here know that not all agency girls offer the same services as not all indy girls do. But to many newbies that want to get into hobbying they sometimes believe all they read and thing they will get what is in the ad. What a shock they get when they meet the agency girl at her room and she tells them she doesn't offer BBBJ or whatever the other service was advertise by the agancy. Poor fellow is put in a bad situation does he leave and the lady looses and he probably wonders if he does leave will there be some tugs waiting for him outside??? Not sure he stays pay for the time without getting exactly what he wanted. Then they write a bad review/comment on other places that allow it. Next thing you know the agency cries foul cause they had a bad review and gets on the Board looking for support to eliminate the bad review blaming it on the client. Here is a good reason agencies here in OT have a bad rep and i stay away from them due to this false advertising. So again there are many views on how much should be advertise. First i would say be honest in what you do write. Personally as was mentioned I see nothing wrong in advertising CIM. One thing to keep in mind, is the less you put in your ad adn suggest to PM or e-mail to find out, the more curious questions you might receive and could be overwhelming. There are more then 20 thousand CERB members so imagine if half of them send you a PM or e-mail to inquire about which services you provide???? Proper advertising is extremely important and some ladies obviously spend time preparing their ads which I think is very professional! To me this is an indication of seriousness, attitude and commitment to their work. I would rather see a lady with a great personality that has less available services then one who offers everything but her conversation is limited to: "your hour is up"

Reading this thread brings many thoughts to mind and heart. Because of the negative perceptions of this business, many SPs leave with no option but to simply cut ties. It is a struggle for an SP to leave for many reasons. Never assume the decision was flippant in any way. There is an emotional commitment to her clients and walking away isn't done on a whim. Most feel that terminating all contact is the only way to go. The shame and social rejection that comes from publicly admitting our profession is overwhelming to all those that do not have the inner fortitude to withstand and come thru it. Other professions allow a forwarding address and relationships developed are allowed to continue and are considered valuable, but in this there are so many challenges it is almost impossible to maintain relationships if a woman has been an SP in secret. The one reason that is consistent with all of those that leave for romantic motivations (which in my experience is the #1 reason for retirement) is the insecurity that comes from their SO. The fallout is usually nuclear in proportion if it is found out that there is a continued relationship with a guest after she has "squared up". Even the most stable of men will have issues with her work, and it will undermine everything in the union, and SPs realize this. It takes an extraordinary man to accept that her work isn't a threat, and underneath the facade SPs want most to be loved and accepted. So they are faced with a choice...the man who wants to love them forever or the man that wants to love them for an hour a couple of times a month. It's a huge gamble in my opinion. If a man cannot accept me in my entirety including my work, then he is not the man for me. From my perspective, a complete cessation of contact with my guests would be akin to cutting off a limb. First and foremost they are my friends. I tried to refer many of them this summer to other SPs and it was an complete and utter failure. The reason I continue to travel back to Ottawa is because I have guests here that count on me and leaving them hanging simply isn't an option. Does that mean we are to close? What is too close? Is loving someone wrong if it isn't in the "traditional" sense? I think the posts above show that guests truly are more than a venue to generate money and I want hobbyists to know that most professional SPs invest themselves emotionally in very deep ways. Always remember this profession doesn't usually attract the woman that is strong and whole. We become SPs because we are trying to fix the financial crunch and do not understand the emotional side of things until we are in it. Some find wholeness, it gives us so much. Others are destroyed by it. I find my work rewards me back in direct proportion to what I invest in it. Each and every one of us are bent in our own unique way. The common perception is that we are money hungry and greedy, but for the good ones it isn't true. We have an unusual ability to love and let go when the time is right. In the grand scheme of the Universe, all relationships are simultaneously precious and insignificant. We must live in the moment, cherish what is now and accept that nothing in this world is stable. Not the concrete buildings we reside in, the earth below our feet or the experiences shared. Every relationship I have is treasured for what it is right now. Tomorrow, if circumstances have changed, I will remember fondly as every experience builds who we are as people and that is what we are here for... Catherine