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Since many STDs are easier to transmit from male to female than from female to male, it would make more sense to have mandatory STD testing for hobbyists than for SPs. If there's some reason mandatory testing for hobbyists isn't being considered, perhaps it's worth asking why people show so little reluctance to suggest it for SPs.

Rather than looking for outcall/incall/residence/hotel or whatever, I would focus on the lady. Find a lady who has been around for awhile and who is very positively reviewed. If you choose the right lady, the location shouldn't matter too much.

Incase the message was recently deleted here are the Details on the Official CERB Ottawa Christmas Party. This is purley a social get together in a great Bar centrally located Downtown. (not a strip club) When- Thursday Dec 2nd Time- Start time 7:00 pm Gents are to pay in advance $20. This covers your first drink. Either pickup a ticket from Angela you can PM here from here http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=24465 . or you can send an Email (interac) money transfer to [email protected] . Paypal also taken. Once your payment is received, you will get all the party details. Ladies, no charge so please drop by or stay a while. This is a good time to meet some gents or connect with some of the ladies. If you wish to come PM me for party details. Everyone is asked to bring an unwrapped toy for Charity. Hey Everyone, Just wanted to update and say we are 1/2 sold out of tickets now and space is limited for the guys. Don't wait, if your going to go please buy your tickets now. Space is limited in he room we have rented.

I think you will find, with a bit of looking, std testing clinics that offer anonymity with an alias. (in fact it is possible to use your sp name for the test results, get a hard copy in that name, and if you were one who has no issues showing the recent results, it would not be identifying real name. Using sp name that you are known by, advertise by, etc, is actually more relevant lol) I would stay away from walk in general practise clinic or the regular doctor anyway. All too often these places seem to want to talk you out of full testing and/or pre-treatment (say, if you had a possible exposure to chlamydia, typically now they don't just give out the treatment, they want you to wait for test results from what I hear -- that is different than before they would just automatically hand it over) I think I have mentioned now and then that all new clients should be tested before they see the first sp. The NZ example is that OHS policy requires that informational posters be prominently displayed on site (meaning the clients are exposed to the information when visiting), and that no uncovered services are provided (in order to comply with the regulations (cbj, covered daty, etc) It is the hope I believe that exposure to information, and reducing exposure to contact, will have the effect that clients will take themselves for testing and/or be aware of the impact of stds. On the topic of making it mandatory or not, I am on the fence. If you want legitimacy, it will come with regulations. And part of regulations on such an industry will include health and safety regulations and policies. It is or should be within the right of an employer to require a recent test, and/or to encourage regular testing possibly by having technicians visit the work place, or educational training? Sometimes people say "it's sex, it should just be natural to everyone". Well, it is, but it isn't common knowledge and it is dangerous actually to leave it in the hands of the workers to just go ahead and do it on their own. When I worked in a fitness field, in order to be employed you needed to be certified. IN order to maintain certification, a certain number of working hours per year, CPR/First Aid, and a minimum # of training/workshop hours were required in order to renew certification. I was dealing with people, in a workplace, and it made sense to have the kind of knowledge to help them if they get into an accident, injure themselves, get exposed to something. I can't think of any good reason not to have similar requirements for sex workers who have to have licenses, etc. Other industries have requirements and minimum standards. If you want to have credibility and reduce the stereotypes, you up the game.

Dear DocOdd it is well known that when a patient goes to the doctor for a test, and is diagnosed with a "contagious" disease...whatever the brand (from TB to STD and HIV)....the Public Health gets notified (in most countries is the same thing) - I used to work with a doctor. ....then, if a client goes testing and gets a positive, he will be contacted and his wife or whoever shares his life would also be requested to go for a test.....how a client would explain this situation to an SO?????? Dramatic....but he can not avoid to tell his SO because if he has some dignity (I do not mean if he loves her or not, that is out of the question)he would prevent that person from getting sick, otherwise he is a criminal, correct? CONDOMS FOR EVERYTHING....is the only answer to prevent this situations....for daty for blow jobs and rims, intercourse and anal sex.....there is no other except to become abstinent..... and for those who like toys.....wash them after every use with boiling water..... LoraLee

I personally find using a lot of smaller candles around the room to cast a much nicer glow than one or two lights. I like to stick to one very, very light scent (approx. 1 scented candle per 200 -300 sq. feet) and have the rest of the candles unscented. I generally prefer fresh scents, ones that you won't walk in and assume is a scented candle but rather might think is just the lingering scent of the freshly washed linens or you get a very light citrus scent that you can't quite place, something very fresh and clean. As far as candle arrangements I think it's nice to have one larger arrangement if possible, something set up like this... Then I like to have a lot of tealights or votives around the room. This is obviously a table setting which isn't really what you'll need but I thought it might show how a bunch of smaller candles scattered about might dress up an armoir, end table, etc. Anyway those are just my preferences, I'm sure everyone else will have some great advice as well. Oh and a final tip, having a lot of candles lit will increase the temperature of the room. It may help if you lower the temperature a little before your guest arrives, you might be a touch cold at first but once you have 20-30 little flames going in one small room and start to generate a little heat yourself you'll be glad you don't have your thermostat set high.

I've found that for a lot of men, sex is simply the opening for them to ask for what they really want: intimacy, romance, understanding, compassion. When I first started, I thought that that was what the job was about to. But, I've since come to learn that I am providing a service for people to experience their fantasies and desires in a non-judgemental atmosphere, as well as encouraging communication.

Karlie is finally back! She has kept us waiting for over a year. This is one great lady you should get to experience. Great personality, great petite body, great skills and overall very nice person. Posted via Mobile Device

They sure do matter to me!!! Although I like meeting new people?my hope is to connect with them so we can hook up again, ?I would say half of it is for financial reasons, the other half is because for me, it is so nice to look forward to seeing someone that you know will treat you right and that you can have a good time with (this is what make me really like what I do:wink: )?usually no surprises?as you know just what you are in for!! When I first meet someone, I am feeling both excited and nervous at the same time?I like the excitement?not so much the nervousness? Lately I have a been a little weary of meeting new friends, due to a really unpleasant incident that occurred last month (felt shamed, humiliated, and degraded) ??.however, right after the incident took place ( and a few tears later ), the first thing that I thought of was, my special regular friends?.seriously?It was kind of comforting to think about them cause it kind of reassured me that there was nothing wrong with me, I am a very likeable person and if I don?t want to see new people , I really don?t have to cause I have special friends!!! Please note, we all handle our business differently, I am not looking to gain a super lavish lifestyle?therefore, if I only see a handful of friends on a monthly basis, I am ok with that?For me I would rather much see 5 special friends per month, then 20 and take a chance that 15 out of the 20 guys would not be the nicest men?..I realize this is a business, however my personal mental health is very important to me?I know for myself, if I were to see many random clients, I would not be able to keep up my friendly demeanor and attitude?so all that to say I really, really value them !!!