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Suffice it to say that SPs didn't really voice in until Mia's entry. This was her decision and the SPs respected her decision to sit quiet and see if it died down. Her explanation is clear and accepted by the SPs for reasons that are our own. There seems to be no reason to continue with the discussion. If someone tried to sneak back in to see me after I had told him that he was not welcome, he would have received the same treatment from me as did Mia. Enough said. cat

I posted this on the other site and wanted to paste it here as well: You know Gents, I've been sitting back and watching this all unfold while other people comment and say their piece about something they know NOTHING about. After taking time to calm down, think, and be rational I have this to say. First, when honesty is betrayed, there is nothing that says I have to risk my safety, comfort or well being to Protect My Reputation or Please a Client. Not only has Explorer69/Pike or whoever else this gentleman is lie to me about his identity, he also lied to me about being a member of any boards, and that he had NEVER seen me before. I have met him before, and after that meeting, never wanted to see him again. He is quite aware. Don't be fooled. Once I realized he had been lying, which was in fact when he called upon arrival, that is when I decided that since he was not concerned with me and my rights/feelings that I should treat him with the same rude and inconsiderate fashion. As I've said many times, Respect and trust is a two way street. Yes, maybe I should have picked up the phone, said I refuse to see you etc. And for that I was wrong. However, once that trust is lost, do I really Owe Him Anything? Secondly, The whole reason I ask for so much "personal Info" is because I've been put in situations like this Too Many Times. I'm very happy to be low volume, and see the people who love seeing me. If you want to be a new client, I encourage it! I love meeting new interesting people! But I shouldn't feel like I'm asking for too much. Lots of girls give references, and we have No Problem Doing It! It shows that we respect each other and care for one an-others safety, and that we aren't insecure that we'll "lose our client". It's not trashy. It's safety. What personal info do I ask for that others don't, other than the reference? Does the fact that I want your phone number so I know it's you when you arrive bother you? Frankly, good luck finding a girl who doesn't want Any Phone Number. It can be Any Phone Number You Are Comfortable Giving Me. Your choice. Does someone really think I'm going to go out of my way to try and ruin a man's life just because he wrote something negative about me? Really? I'm sorry, but just because this man decided to act childishly does not mean that I am the same. And just because some gentlemen have been unlucky in having a crazy girl out them, does not mean all escorts, including me, are like that. Maybe those gentlemen should have been More Careful themselves in choosing a SP? So maybe being picky isn't so bad after all? Also, my reviews have stemmed back for a few years as well. It's not like they all happened over night. I have been a trusted SP for a while. Oh and by the way, even though it hasn't changed on on the other site, this site noticed and joined your two accounts Pike/explorer69. Funny, I didn't think two different gentlemen would be able to have the exact same experience and write the same post, and 5 minutes apart, on two different sites. Hmmm.... Weird huh? Warmest Regards, Mia

This has nothing to do with the "other" site. Her response was direct and given only after days of speculation (both in public and private) to the identity and professionalism of the sp. So to avoid being slandered in pm's she posted her response. I think she has the right to defend herself publicly. Kim

Mia has carried out her response in a way that was not threatening towards other members nor did she she directly 'trash talk' the person who originally started this thread. She gave an explanation here in an attempt to state her side of the story which no longer meant that this was a hypothetical situation. She was simply defending herself and has every right to. So far this thread has been carried out in a civil manner and hopefully it stays that way. Does anyone think that it's perfectly acceptable for a person is going to lie about certain facts, have multiple identities here and then not expect the SP to come forward and defend herself and her reputation? I would certainly hope not! I realize this board is known for being a positive community but let's face it, situations like this will always come about and someone should not be able to start a thread about another person even though names weren't mentioned here yet they were on another board ( easy to put two and two together here) and have that person being seen in a negative light without being able to defend herself. If it is not okay to air dirty laundry on here, this thread should have been stopped from the beginning.

I never really understand the point of these threads to begin with. They usually go, "this happened to me, now here's my biased side of the story, please validate I am correct". And in this case you've got someone putting it out there like they're taking the high road by not naming anybody, but then giving enough details for others to speculate. Just get rid of this shit, it's neither productive, informative or interesting. I read the other board, you can just tell sometimes that there's relevant information missing. When a guy says he tried contacting a girl and she won't respond to him, 9 times out of 10 it's because he was a dick somehow. Of course that part always seems to get left out.

Very classy reply, by a very classy lady. She didn't have to, but good of her to feel that it was in her best interest to share her side.

Hi Summer, I don't live in Halifax, but some safety tips I have implemented and follow very strictly consist of having a phone buddy. I usually call on my way to the appointment, when I have arrived and after I have left. Screen your booty off until you are satisfied with the info collected and scan the environment for quick access to objects for protection or that could be used on you. Not to scare you but your life is more important than the greens. Just my 2 cents ;-) Yazzy xoxo

To stay safe for residence outcalls: Screen your clients - Name, Address and phone number, ask if anyone else will be in the home as you do not want any surprises. Ask for a reference as well from another provider. Call them back on their land line, google them, and check in once you arrive with someone you trust. As well always dress discreetly and park up a few houses.

And for the Ladies...

I have never messed up anyone's appointment but have come close to making errors. Hopefully it will never happen but if I made a mistake or forgot you I would do something to make it up to my client. At the very least I would offer a free massage or more than likely I would offer a make up date on me. We all make mistakes but as a S P I would want to show my client I was really sorry and this would be a great way to make ammends.

Agree with the others. We too often hear about guy 'no-shows' in both a public way and I believe in the ladies private area. And I have no objections to these communications. I have never missed a date but have had a couple of times where 'our meeting' was forgotten. In both cases the cirsumstances made me question the sincerity of the lady. But if you've been genuine a client has no recourse but to just move on and not consider that lady again. The good news is that the majority of ladies are of the highest calibre in their business and as professionals. You would hope in your case you'll receive some kind of explanation. But don't count on that happening and move on. Odds are you next experience will be much better. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

There is no such thing as free sex. Posted via Mobile Device