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I recently posted a review where I used the expression "not a spinner." I had a couple pms with questions from well-meaning guys asking whether these words were code words for overweight or large?? I DEFINITELY did NOT mean that, but instead I was using this expression to mean that the lady was not extremely tiny or thin ... characteristics where I think the term "spinner" is appropriate. The lady I was referring to has a beautiful figure, so I feel very badly about people questioning the meaning of that reference. Of course, including a reference that someone is not "__________" leads some reads to believe that the opposite is true, so I'm going to avoid that sort of reference in the future in favor of something postive that is less ambiguous. I'm trying to decide what other better reference terms exist and whether the "not a spinner" reference has been a source of confusion for others or frustration to the ladies. Your thoughts appreciated.

As someone who regularly attends church, I'm having some trouble with this one ... frankly that's a remarkable statement to make. The difference is that one is a little old lady and the other one is trying to kill a lot of innocent people. With all respect, equating the two seems to imply an huge amount of insecurity as to the role of organized religion in society. I personally believe in a woman's right to choose, but most of the people who object are less concerned with controlling other people lives and decisions than they are in simply trying to protect what they perceive to be unborn human life. Its a really difficult topic and tears at people's hearts. BTW, Ken Phelps doesn't represent organized religion any more than your average radical Islamc cleric nutjob represents most Muslims.

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This is a touchy subject, because no matter what way you refer to her, there will be someone saying "is she a BBW/ is she a large woman/ etc..." Here is the word I use to describe myself "curvy". I still get "so you are a BIG woman?" I am not a large woman, but I am far from a spinner. As far as your reco goes, write what you wish and how you feel about the lady! No one should be judgmental towards you or the lady. I agree that a spinner is someone who is so tiny you could spin them around on top of you! A curvy woman should be someone who is in the average weight range, who has curves that appeal to you.

http://www.amplifyyourvoice.org/u/AFY_Will/2010/2/24/In-Utah-Miscarriage--Criminal-Homicide This is the scary side of Tea Party politics... "Christian" sharia laws that punish the woman for unplanned or unwanted pregnancies. We often spout off endlessly about Islamic fundamentalism, but we have a North American version in the Bible belt. This IS the new conservatism...

my first motorcycle was a 83 honda shandow. Had to sell it need $2g worht of work, and the insurance went up the same year. Wish i couold afford one now.

I have met many jealous wives/girlfriends there with their husband/boyfriend. One time, I asked a man if I could sit with him and he said yes. We struck up a good conversation and I was about to ask him to the champagne room when his wife appeared back from her trip to the washroom and chewed me out for sitting with her husband. I think she was completely out of line because, after all, they are in a strip club, and if he was not supposed to be talking with dancers while she was in the washroom, why didn't he tell me he was just waiting for his wife? Long story short, there are wives/girlfriends who go to the strip clubs either because they are pressured to, or because they want to "babysit" their husband/boyfriend. The accompaniment rule doesn't stop them. On a side note, I'm thoroughly against the accompaniment rule. This isn't the 19th-century and women should be able to go all the places that men go without a male companion. Sheesh!

I am surprised a guy would consider it offensive to a lady to ask her to provide a reference. My opinion, any SP expecting a one way monogomous relationship from a hobbiest has some issues...frankly I'd be scared if that was expected of me. This is supposed to be about variety, fun, maybe experimenting and trying new things. And with the question of references, something to keep in mind for everyone. The ladies can get reviews and recommendations, and the guys, if they pass muster, can get a reference for future encounters. Guess the point I'm trying awkwardly to make is we are not all have anonymous encounters, our character and reputations mean something, and this is a community Some probably convoluted ramblings RG

could be a little classier way to ask

I am in Edmonton downtown today and see some MPs are located within walking distance from my hotel. Where I am from, extras are $$ for everything in addition to the house fee. Is that what the going rate is in Edmonton? Do the girls offer extras in MPs or do I need to call a provider?