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I was surprised recently when a potential client wrote that he didn't want to ask his regular paid companion to write him a reference. He said he didn't want her thinking that he was seeing other escorts. The girl in question I know to be very reference-friendly, but he said he didn't want any drama. I am horrified. If I knew my clients were telling other escorts that I would cause drama and be hurt and upset that he was seeing other girls, I would be furious. That is NOT an image I want projected to the CERB community, particularly as it does NOT represent me fairly. That kind of image does an escort a huge disservice, and hurts her business and reputation. It also creates conflict amongst the girls. If other escorts thought I was a jealous drama queen, I would be mortified. By claiming to protect her 'feelings', this client is being extremely condescending and insulting. These kinds of assumptions about possessiveness and territory are damaging to the SP, and reinforce the stereotype that escorts are emotionally unstable. If you like us (and we're glad that you do!) please HELP us create a great reputation. There is nothing worse than having bad word of mouth, especially initiated by clients who are our fans. The idea that we are romantically or emotionally attached to our clients is generally false. The idea that we don't want clients seeing other girls is false (and kind of funny). We work so hard to make CERB and the escorting community a positive, honest environment. I would hate to think that these assumptions are reversing our progress. Your SP doesn't mind that you see other girls. What she does mind is the damage to her reputation inflicted by this kind of client.

Lol. I always thought a True GFE was where the SP gets angry at the gent. He apologizes for a while, then they have makeup sex. And then she gets angry at him again. That's my take on a "True" GFE. Posted via Mobile Device

The council has voted (unanimously) to make it a rule that any Agency, Massage Spa or Private club must be PAID ADVERTISERS in order to post ads on Lyla. At this time this rule only applies to Ottawa and Toronto as both cities have over 5000 posts. NOTE: Any city to reach 5000+ posts will be added to this list. Lyla will NOT charge the Independent providers for using Lyla however anyone who works for a Spa or Agency and wishes to mention that company on Lyla will need to purchase a banner for that company. Agencies/Private Clubs/Massage spas that run MULTIPLE COMPANIES will be permitted to have MULTIPLE PAID ACCOUNTS (One for EACH company) - Each account would require a PAID BANNER. Each paid account could advertise in the announcements area per 12 hour period as well. - Lyla remains an outstanding value for agencies and this will get rid of the "fly by night" agencies and give exclusivity to the serious agencies who do pay for advertising and are branding a reputation. - Agencies will be monitored closely to ensure compliance especially in regards to anyone trying to circumvent this rule with FAKE indie accounts will be banned from the site and purchasing a banner will no longer be a option. If you are unethical we do not want you here. Public gentleman's clubs (Strip Clubs) are welcome to purchase banners and if they wish to advertise directly to Lyla they may do so as well but so far none really seam to want to advertise but some of the dancers do from time to time so the ladies who work for these clubs can still post where they will be working without the need for a paid advertisement at this time. This exception is ONLY for PUBLIC STRIP CLUBS (Not Private Clubs or any other type of adult club). Private adult entertainment clubs will be seen the same as agencies and massage spas and will be required to purchase a banner to advertise. New members (Agencies/Spa's/Private Clubs) will have 5 FREE posts as a trial period. This does not count for companies running more then one business so if you have a paid agency account you can not get a 5 day account for a NEW agency you are opening. Current Agencies/Spa's/Private Clubs who do NOT have a banner yet will have 7 days grace to contact me and purchase a banner from today. Thank you. TheMOD.

Thanks to everyone who organized and donated! Especially to the purrson who donated the spa gift certificate - my little heels could use a pedicure after my trek around the outback!

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Yes I saw a movie on that exact thing. A father on a business trip to a city where her daughter was studying in the University.... You can guess the rest as who was behind the hotel door when he opened that door after calling for escort.... No, actually I am not worried now really but I would have been seriously when I was in contact with lots of ladies in the 19 to 25 age range. Like when I was teaching years ago, I even didn't dare to go to SCs or even dance bars. Came across my damn students everywhere that I went, out of bad luck......

My opinion is that people put way too much emphasis on "acts preformed" than the actual tone of the date. GFE to ME means, we talk, get to know eachother, then move on to something more intimate, kissing, cuddling and MUTUAL satisfaction. I dont believe because you offer GFE means that you have to perform BBBJ or other un-safe acts, just because one may do that with their SO/BF or GF. (For thoose that do offer thoose services, that is their choice) By saying "True GFE", the lady in question might be saying the "True" part, so that you know she will not be giving a mechanical/detached service or maybe it does mean, that she may do BBBJ. No one knows but HER! I think maybe you should email/pm or call her again to clarify what her definition of "True GFE" means. If she wont reply, there maybe a reason and if you absolutly need clarification, move on to someone who has no problem doing so! With every lady there is a different take on the term GFE.

As always, these are events that should never be missed - this one was no exception. I do believe that a fantastic time was had by all... and kudos to Nicki and Angela for their tireless efforts in making this evening a success. Is it bad that I am still a wee bit drunk 18 hours later?

Thanks Nikky, and Ang! I had a blast, to all who had said thank you to me, it was sweet but not necessary as I was not a part of organizing! Thank you to all who came, I had fun. To all who did not make it, you were missed! Thanks again guys!

The upset girlfriend ;)

I find this whole thread kind of funny. It seems to me that the guy was probably just trying to be kind. The points are valid, I guess, but you do see the "that's my client" behavior occasionally in strip clubs, and it can get pretty nasty when the guys show up with hundreds and hundred of dollars. So that's maybe where the guys are coming from if they are reluctant to ask for referrals. However, there are some posts in in this thread that are, in my opinion, kinda depressing to read ... if the whole damn thing is just a fantasy for money, and there is no sincerity or sense of interest in the person you are with, I have zero desire to make an appointment with that lady.

Lou, I applaud you for wishing to appreciate and understand peoples perspectives on Canada. First of all... my vision of Canada includes Quebec amongst all of the provinces and territories! I was born in Alberta, have lived as an adult in Quebec, Ontario, and Saskatchewan.... and see myself retiring in Quebec in the distant future. I appreciate all of Canada and all it had to offer. I would hate to see Quebec separate. I believe that Quebec is an integral part of Canada , but I am a pragmatic individual. We all paid $8 Billion to Quebec in 2010-2011 in equalization payments. Quebec has not been a "have province". One would presume that as a sovereign nation, Quebec would not suddenly be able to sustain themselves...not even taking into account the "start up cost". While I don't want to see Quebec go, I really think Canada (including Quebec) has wasted enough time, effort, and money on the "Quebec" debate. It's time for the Canadians of Quebec to decide once and for all; either leave, or stay with the rest of Canadians and focus on building a strong Canada. In the words of Yoda..."Do or Do not..." Cheers, D

This is a sensitive topic for anglophones as well as francophones. What unites Cerbites is the conviction that a pussy is beautiful no matter what language its owner speaks.