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For those of us who accept text booking and answer questions via text, sometimes the way guys approach it can be really irritating. You should think of it like an instant email, but shorter. Include your name, and ask if the lady is available for your preferred time. Please do not text random one-liners such as, "hey baby," or "hey, how are you?" I'm great, who are you? I understand that this may be some guys way of trying to start a conversation, but this isn't the best way to approach it. Also, unless I blocked your number, I do not keep your info in my phone, so when you text me, I have no idea who you are. I try to remember numbers, but I'm not a machine! *insert robot smiley here* Ladies, other suggestions, comments? Guys, thoughts?

Omg! I would never too afraid of cutting the balls and blood scares me. Such a sensitive area. I can do other fun things with them hehe :bj:

My bought and paid for breasts are by far the best purchase I have made in my life. I can't believe I will ever buy anything in the future I like better. I have a toned and muscular body and now my breasts stand at attention like the rest of me. :icon_smile: Its a great world, every person likes something different and we can all choose to keep our breasts natural and this is just lovely if that is your preferance. For those of us that want to trade in what we have power to us, I'm thankful to be able to choose.

I figure it's not the guy's fault that some agencies take a bigger bite out of what the girls end up with. Don't mean to sound like a bitch, but in 15 years of working as an SP for both agencies and independent, Thunder Bay is the only city I ever worked in where girls "expected tips". This is because when I was there, they would starve if they didn't get tips. In 1997 I went there for one week and all of the agencies operated the same way. They charged $100 for one hour and we had to give them $50. The agency owner told me it was up to us to hustle for tips and that if the guys wanted sex they would have to. Because I never worked that way, I felt very uncomfortable. Sometimes I would walk away with only another $50, making only $100 myself for the hour because I couldn't bring myself to do it. Just to give you an idea, the standard hour rate everywhere else was $250 to $300 in those days. I have no idea how agencies in Thunder Bay operate presently, but that is how it was done then and it was horrible. Of course when I called to go there, they didn't exactly tell me - they just said I could make $500 to $700 a night. I knew some girls that literally walked away with $50 because they weren't hustlers. I am not saying it is like that now, but perhaps the tipping mentality is still there - which by the way is not the girls' fault. I hate to say it but after working in Calgary, Fort Mac, Peace River, Grande Prairie, Dawson Creek, Fort St. John (a real hell hole), Prince George, Kingston and North Bay, Thunder Bay was the worst city I ever worked in as far as rates went. I hope some things have improved in Thunder Bay since that fateful trip I took in 1997. If a lady doesn't like what she's getting paid from an agency, she should consider going independent. But to expect the guy to subsidize that is asking him to pay above what is being asked. If for whatever reason she has to work agency, then in my opinion, she is agreeing to the rates being paid. My rates are all inclusive. If I get a tip, I am happy, but I NEVER expect it or would tell anyone it should be mandatory. Sorry, to come down on you, but this is why some guys choose to see indies over agency girls because they don't want the pressure of the upselling once they get there. Additional Comments: I figure like attracts like. If a "bad" agency keeps operating after exploiting (yes, fining is a way of shaking them down), then there is a reason for it. That means there are certain girls who are willing to keep working for them and guys willing to keep calling them. Not all girls are mindful of their rights and if they are being exploited, it can be for many reasons. They are young, naive, dependent on drugs or some other reason for needing the money, low self-esteem, not very good SPs and no one else will hire them - the list goes on. I don't blame the victim so to speak, but with the ability to work indie, review boards like this and other resources, I am surprised to hear that these types of agencies still operate. I understand girls' reluctance to "rat them out". It's tough. I hate to sound like a broken record, but back before working independent or doing in-calls was an option, corrupt agencies were the norm. That is not the case now. There are many good above-board agencies with good reputations out there and some of the names have been mentioned here. Perhaps again it is because you are in a small city and they are the only game in town. It's unfortunate for the ladies who work for them, because they not having the positive experience of working as an SP that should be afforded to them.

Nice thread. Good ideas: connection, exploration, growth, wanting the other's pleasure... It's living the experience fully, not being distracted with other thoughts, getting into the rhythm of it, or the rhythms, from intense and carried-away to slow and sensuous. All the senses engaged, and your partner is, at that moment, your whole world.

Nice thread idea, Voyi. Here is my two cents: An amazing lover is someone who creates a safe space for me to explore my needs and desires. Like you, there needs to be a particular connection. It can be a spiritual, intellectual, and/or sporty connection (etc.). I also need my lovers to languidly explore my body. Not delicately (because pressure is good), but just in a slow and relaxed way. Sex should be an exploration. It's carnal, but there's also a lot of opportunities for growth through sex, if one is open to that possibility in that moment. Gender bending is always nice too. Sometime I'm actively submissive, sometimes, I'm more dominant... never passive.

Maybe I'm taking this the wrong way, but to be honest, saying tipping should be mandatory, doesn't sit well with me. The ladies that say tipping although not expected, is appreciated, that shows some class. I tip the ladies I see because I appreciate the time, companionship and service they provide. Not only that, I provide a gift But I do it because I WANT TO, not because it is mandatory Like I said, maybe I'm taking your post wrong, but expecting/phrasing mandatory tipping, it doesn't sit right with me, really if you want that, just up your rates. From a guy who has tipped every lady he has seen, and will do so again RG

It's funny - I used to be the kind of guy that thought he didn't like perfume on a woman... Natural scent, etc... But a couple of years ago I was with a woman who was wearing something that drove me mad. In the morning I woke up and smelled her perfume on me and I was sent right back to our magical moment. I even bought a bottle of it so I could smell it again. Scent is such a powerful sense... It wires itself into the brain and creates very long-lasting memories. Just writing this sends me back to that day.

When you send a PM requesting information such as availability, please respond to the response. I answer each and every PM as quickly as possible and if between 8am and 8pm it's usually within 30mins. When I get a PM asking if I am available at, let's say, 10:30am tomorrow morning and I reply within 10 minutes saying, not until 11:30; common decency indicates that you let me know that it's not convenient...even if it takes you 12hrs to reply, a reply is warranted!!!!!!!!!!!

So, it is known that we are all here on cerb temporary, some long term but still not eternally. However, it has previously been discussed how someone's sudden absence affects some of us, especially the ones that were 'close' or constantly communicated with that member or even often read his posts if he/she was an active member. Is very understandable and expected that sooner or later for whatever reason (hopefully a positive one) most of us will move on but in most cases the person just disappears on us. I personally in this past week through posts or from my profile noticed that two members on my friends list have become ***** (account no longer active.) And now I'm wondering what happened to them :confused0024: This is not a complaint but I believe same way (some) rely on cerbites to learn about the industry, share things that for some reason they can't tell others, ask for advice, etc. they should let us know when they are ready to leave and say good bye to us and prevent us from worrying about them, yes I and know others have, especially when the account was not even closed. I more than ever am thankful to those ones that obviously can't read this but took the time to let us know they were leaving cerb and said good bye. *Sigh* Good evening all!

It is not so much that it is a discretion thing - it is more a chemistry thing. On any given day, with any given two people and the right chemistry, great things can happen. Discovery is a wonderful thing.