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Do I belong here? Do you really want me here? Is it really going to be a problem that I'm not currently advertising or working so much due to my deteriorating health, that I can't actively participate in this forum? Is it a big deal, having worked 10 years in the field, take a break now and can't be apart of it still, here? Do you really think I'm a man trapped in a woman's curvacious body? Should I be thrown to the fringes because I'm a defective non-advertising service provider? Have I been rude on the forum to any specific individuals, fought or gnawed at anyone for a difference of opinion, disrespected or slandered someone's good name? I've come to learn the ropes and play nice. I've never been suspended. Okay, I have an infraction! Now everyone knows "kick her out". Is this really how the forum works, that I need proof that I am female? It's too bad that the Moderators of this site have to deal with theses groundless accusations. Heck, the Mod's are too busy for this, I can't even get my cute pink icon saying I'm special for my +2 votes. This is some serious venomous witch hunting from where I'm standing and it's not funny. It's actually quite hurtful. Can't y'all play a game or get laid instead of pick on me lol (that was meant to be funny) I know the majority of the members here are awesome sweethearts. This evening I had the pleasure to speak with Miss Emma Alexandra, we had a great conversation, what a peach! Thanks for the faith and the laughs Emma A. Thanks for people like you. It's sweet people like that make this site Great! I feel like I could be Courtney Love at Kurt Cobain's funeral except I wanna yell "I'M A GIRL" but, I'm not much for yelling, more like slow head roll, hair toss, loud exhale, scratch my head then tap my finger nails on the table. Well the word is out I'm a female. I have lovely lady lumps. I'm simply not working as much right now and no that does not make me a man. And because of that should I be subjected to harassment, alienation and vile accusations? I take tonnes of meds and I'm in pain most days and hope to have surgery soon. JuliasUndies is not my working name it is F.A.K.E. So that if/when I am better, I can resume working under my working alias. I love you guys, you make me very happy and I'm blessed to have found Cerb, it makes it easier for me from going from working-to sick-to not working so much. It has made the transition that much easier for me coming to a place that I recognize and can relate too. So thanks for all those that have welcomed me with open arms, you have been terrific. Now, if we can all just get along again without "JuliasUndies Controversy" Smile, let's all smile together okay :) SMILE, JUSY DO IT!! IT FEELS GREAT! :) Cheers! :) :) :) :)

READ!!!! Don't book an appt and THEN ask for donation requirements, restrictions etc... I would say that most ladies either post their info in their ads and if not they include links to their websites. Some of us utilize the "about me" tab to explain as much as we can. Don't be lazy...get your ducks in a row and everyone will have a much more satisfying time!

What is your opinion: Do you think an sp should stop at a certain age,or if there is a demand for their services then they should continue regardless of age?Since society is youth obsessed are hobbyists? Or is there a need for all ages{legal of course}as there is for all shapes and sizes and races?

Breaking Bad (!!! Everyone must watch this !!!) Boardwalk Empire (but my interest is waning) Walking Dead (but my interest is waning) Daily Show/Colbert Report (do these count?)

Dexter How I've meet your mother The big bang theory Secret diary of a call girl The Simpsons Family Guy I don't own a TV...I stream everything online but ssssssh don't tell!

Is there an age that's too old to play video games? ;) There's never "too old" to do anything, but more are you physically able, really. My grandmothers were about the same age, but one could barely walk anywhere for about ten years while the other was still trucking it across town and working.

Basic economic principles apply to the sex trade as well as to other industries. If you've got a product that no one wants or is satisfied with, you've got a problem. But if there's a demand and you can meet it, you're in business.

I'm sure you wanted to get this off your chest and I too don't know what's been said to you by whom but sometimes dealing with them directly is the best way otherwise everyone else is left scratching their heads and wondering what is going on. I'm not sure it's any of our business nor should it be.

It does happen quite often especially when a lady is quite new and ask which hotels to stay on public board..Many guys do not realise and name hotels ... I think that if you come accross one person that ask the question or state hotel name to kindly remind her via pm that she should erase any hotels names and to ask people to pm her instead of posting it. On an other board i had to pm the mod and ask him to delete a tread where many hotels were mentionned as safe as i was staying in one of them...Remember that you are on a public board and bylaw can read everything too It is for the safety of all VJ

She should stop working when she no longer wants to work. If she's making money, that's proof she's not "too old".

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Here's an example from a discussion thread in Ottawa: 09-18-2011, 10:44 PM Question: Chimo Hotel http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=65510

It is day 55 of occupy Wallstreet. The world has come together in a plight against the 1%. Among many of the issues being protested some stand out more than others such as healthy food, clean water, health care, workers rights, better pay ect.. When protests began I was excited to see so many people come together for a good cause, and had a glimmer of hope. Now, not so much. I don't want to accept it, but this is the world we live in and I don't see any changes coming in the future. The news is telling us of stories of protesters being beaten, shot at and gassed. You tube is filled with videos, some inspiring and some I wonder how anyone is getting away with treating protesters this way while being caught on camera. It's all too much for me. It's all for nothing. The sad part to me is that to make change, this world has a twisted way to do that and if you want to make history, then to war it is. War? Highly unlikely. We can't all give up our jobs and mortgages, protest, eat off the land and forgo all credit cards, loans and investments. We are dependent off of these almost like a bare essential to live. But..if we all did, all 99% of us started a movement, a spiritual journey let's say..all dance around naked planting potatoes and trading amongst the people..Can't picture that either. So, what can be done? What do you think? Does it matter to you? Would you be willing to make changes, what kind? What do you think about all of this? http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lub42ogI201r25y9yo1_500.jpg

I always watch the Super Bowl with my parents, and we set up a bunch of fun little prop wagers (e.g. which team has the longest run, which QB has more passing yards, etc.) and whoever does worst on their picks has to do the dishes after the game. Also, we eat a lot of food, often something not so healthy like pizza and/or chicken wings. For American college basketball's March Madness, I set up two laptops in front of the big TV and watch 3 or 4 games at the same time, as well as drinking 1L of Dr. Pepper each day. This is literally the highlight of my year, every year.

I would never publicly disclose the location of the hotel that I am staying at when travelling, privacy and discretion should always be of the utmost importance and publicly posting where I am staying would be the complete opposite of that. I would never jeopardize my safety let alone that of anyone that I visit with.

Lol @olddog...that's the way to lighten up the thread and back onto bbbj's .... Seems to me that if you want safety then you play safe and study the risks (not opinions). If one prefers to give or recieve bbbj then hopefully they are doing so with knowledge and safe practices.

To be perfectly clear, I have a wiener, not a vajayjay. I only pee sitting down when I am tired or lazy. If I had a vajayjay (which I do not currently possess nor is there an option for purchase later on) I would welcome DATY cuz that would be the kind of man with a vajayjay I would be, if I had a vajayjay, but I don't cuz I have a wiener. I currently have a wiener verification team deployed, who will verify the distinct lack of vajayosity in my immediate vicinity, even though I could use a bit of work on my chest. I have sub A cup moobies. Genetically and mentally a man, that's what I am.

and lets not forget the brain tumor guy...people do this stuff all the time pretending to be something their not...for many reasons.....I was asking re- her bbbj comment..i was seriously confused...I do apologize for my conduct and speaking off the top of my head... but you are right..off topic so back to the discussion at hand. To each their own when it comes to bbbj's ...i prefer to give them but also I'm tested regularly..and have never had an sti. Maybe it's luck but luck or not it's at My DISCRETION and I don't feel i should be judged on it. I feel i have many very happy clients. If someone wanted a a cbj i will happily oblige.

True. The other day I bought a crapload of vinyls for myself even though I have no record player and nothing to play them on.

I agree Meg.... or please take a look at our pictures before.. dont ask questions like ''What you look like....?'' I just had somebody who asked me if Im white or black.... ??? Its insulting when people contact us dont even bother to read our ads or look the pictures...

There's no stupid questions Europeanman, especially not here. If you knew the things I had no clue when I was new to this you would not stop laughing :) As the others who responded said, some ladies do offer it and some don't or charge extra for it so I agree with them, reading the ads, going through the information on websites and communicating with the lady you are interested to meet is the best you can do. However, don't forget even if someone offers it, that is not a guarantee that it will happen, it depends on how the RV develops, chemistry, etc. but yes, I think chances are higher if you do research and tell the lady your expectations.

I've never offered 15 minute appointments and can't imagine ever doing so--it's just not my style at all. I only offer half hour meetings to established clients, and that doesn't happen very often. But if I were to consider this, I would be concerned about volume and its implications. I work in a very discrete setting and attract no attention here. But if I were to have many clients coming and going throughout the day, I think discretion could become more difficult!

Changing sheets and redoing our makeup is a very small part of our work. Sex work is also emotional labour. Spending 2 hours with one gentleman can be a lot more emotionally draining than spending an hour each with 2 gentlemen. Chemistry would play a huge role here.