Loki318

Happy retirement Spike!! I too stgarted in the workforce eairly and am now approching 60 and stuck in middle management....; some days looking forward to retirement and some days Happy to stay for a few more years :) I hope that retirment from the J.O.B. dosent also bring retirement from the hobby :) All the best Loki318

Thanks Mod long posts with thought like these take a lot more time to write than to read ! Re the upgrade; I have seen some of the recently upgraded Vbulletin software and personally dont care for it ..... but then I am old and resist change..... Loki318

Ok all good points :) Just as a personal preferance I didnt follow the Picture threads except for the Red Heads occassionally ;) I just dont have that much time.... The ""Donation Button" Excelent idea!! especially if different levels of "donation" could come with extra privlidiges such as posting pictures ?? or axcess to the shout box etc.... I am not an expert with Vbulletin but I have used and mannaged simular software and I would be surprised if different user levels were not available. Expireing infractions sensible idea, My first post however long ago earned me my first and only infraction, mainly because I was a dumbass and didnt read all the Rules first; now what Guy ever reads the instructions first? That is why we have to be taught how to "make love" all the girls know this ;) Sub or assistant "MODS" For sure! I never thought that this site was managed with just one mod! this site is growing and it is too big a job for just one person. There are I am sure qualified people on here (not me though, been there done that ::) Loki318

That was my origional intent but I was so sure that someone would say that the service level for one would be worth far more than for another LOL Are we confused yet. Loki

During a recent 2 hr visit with an agency Lady in the Maritime's we got to talking about the "business side" of things like advertising, Indi vs Agency, and hourly rates etc etc.... I mentions this site and a couple of others that she had not been aware of and some of the going rates .. Her amassed Exclaimation was !!! "That Much !! For What!!! What the !@#$ do they do that I don't!!" I had to assure her that there was nothing missing in her service ;) Although the agency and the Lady in this instance was/is in the "bargain price" range it was one of the nicest encounters I had in all of 2009 and the best bj in years .. but I digress... I am quite sure this has been done before in one form or another but it is worth redoing in the changing economic climate :) The question Guys is this: Where is your price break, All things "service" equal what is the top price you would be willing to Pay for a Two (2) Hour appointment. I use 2 hours as that is all I book :) Loki318 ps all prices before any tips ;)

No matter how many times one falls in love and no matter who with it is never the same way twice ;) If you have a "regular" SP, or GF, or Friend with Benifits.... any one your are seeing regularly (not even necessarily often) You do have some sort of "love" feelings for them. I suspect that the same is true of the SP's ;) The heart break comes when one falls out of love and the other dosen't! I am so glad that we can be "in love" with so many different people at the same time :D Loki318

I have to agree but I do not think that the change in "feel" of the "board" or community, is due to this one and only "incident"; there have been a few others perhaps not so "hot" or not so public that have contributed to the change also !! I find my self coming here less and less and more often returning to my old haunts; Which by the way has been just as satisfying :oops:, and has brought me back within my budget :-D Happy new year Every one!!!! Loki

Happy Holidays to you and all of yours Mod.... Yea I'm going some place Warm.... not .... I am on my way to Red Deer AB LOL Loki318

Experiance leads me to agree with you with the following elaboration.... we all start as your "regular guy", as we get past the guilt and find that we can "Get Away" with it if careful we become "frequent" guy and then if the finances allow we graduate to letting our sex drive take over and go full out.... Then after all of this if we can not slow down or back off to the point that our finances allow us to maintain meaning we spend more on the hobby than we can afford ie:running up CC's;cashing in investments, remortgaging the family home etc that is addiction.... At this point I expect we either come to our senses by our selves and pull out of it (cold turkey) OR we get sloppy and get caught which would usually mean we "loose it all" to the Lawyers. I havent been caught yet and am contemplating Retirement ..... someday maybe next yr ;) Loki318

What was the winning thread? Loki318

If you are going to hire an SP make it "all about YOU" that is what they are best at.... Dont hire an SP and make it all about her .... she is gone. JJust my 2 cents Loki318

Reminds me of a story about a TV watching Grannie and yapping dogs...... Loki318

" Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should Rage and Burn at close of day, Rage rage against the dying of the light" Loki318

Thank You MOD Loki318

r100rs: I applaud you and I hope you can manage to stay the course you have set. I once had to semi retire due to lack of funds and it WAS difficult to pay the monthly bills instead of a SP and it was more difficult that I can describe here! There is such a thing as a sex addict!!! My Name is Loki318 and I AM a sex addict! One day when being a sex addict becomes more painful than quitting, then I will try to quit again ..... Although this hobby right now is not as fun as it used to be ... I am not ready to totally retire... Yet but ... So the question although off topic is Can we "retire" ? Loki318

the pros .... see above post .. I have loved a LOT! the cons ..... the possibility of "getting kicked out" and the associated cost of that!!!! Loki318

First the SO of 38 years and yes still do love her just cannot get all the fulfillment there sexually that we had for the first 10 yrs or so ... I'll never leave willingly but may someday get kicked out...... Second the first SP for me which lasted the longest most sex charged night of my life and started me down the hobby trail..... Then the SP who has been semi regular for way over 10 years and at some times more than semi regular, she professes to love me also but I cant get past the feeling she love my wallet more :( ...... Then the "on-Line" romance that turned to a relationship that now is a mutual booty call Could be more in another time and place but never "married"..... Oh! and lets not forget the cute little Number that we Flirt with a couple times a week, at work, or coffee shop or where ever, that we would jump in a heart beat but never really will ;) Yea :) I have loved a lot :) !!! So many Lady's Soo little time and resources ....... Loki318

I have tried Lava, Aff. PoF and possibly ;) others..... Have had a couple of real success stories with Lava one still on going kinda a mutual free booty call as needed (she taught me to appreciate BBW) the other like a meteor hot as hell and just as short :) aka one night stand. AM for me has always been long dist on line type stuff for me.... AFF I saw a few ppl I knew and run for the hills LOL PoF sam as AFF except run for a different reason (not looking for serious) Harmony has never appealed to me .... Hobby with a couple of friednds with benifits is it for me :)) Loki318

As a friend of mine has often said ... "I guy really has to work to get noticed, all a Woman has to do is drop her drawer's and the guys line up :) " Ya you are bang on, now I'll go vote Loki318

IMHO, If you get to see her you will addicted, and she is bar none the most difficult SP to book she is way too busy... Loki318

It can be more than just Great when you both click :)

Mod or Mod in charge :) Is there a limit to the length of a message or post? I have some musings that are not in poetry form and are somewhat longer short stories actually, and how explicit can we get here ?? Loki318 ...... dirty old man :)

This isnt exactly about an SP perhaps I can call it the one that got away: the names have been changed to protect the guilty :) For Melany When I see you, passing by A twinkle comes into my eye. If you should perchance to wave A pleasant joy, I feel to save. To catch your flashing eyes in mine Will sustain me for a time. A friendly word from you, "Hello" Pleases me more than you can Know. A chance for real conversation, So far t'is the ultimate sensatian. But in my realm of Fantasy, You and I will Lovers Be! (three months later) Often I sit and close my eyes Just to see yours looking back Those big brown eyes! Full of smoke and mystery What do they hide, Laughter at my silly advance? What do they feel, Mirth for a silly old fool? And if Not, Then What of me? Do I dare say aloud The things that I pen? Do I dare to make a move Outside of Fantasy? One small step into reality Would change my history! (one month later ) How do I tell you the depth of my feeling How do I tell you I Care! How do I tell you The length of my longing How do I tell you I Care! We meet as two people and we speak Never talking 'bout Feelings & Longings Don't Dare ! If I Were to tell you The depth of my feelings The length of my longing Would you care? Loki318

I found myself in Halifax again ;) Managed to see Britney again :) Started with a little mall talk catching up since the last visit, then some hugs and mutual mauling and disrobing, Hands all over, exploring naked body's.... It just keeps getting better with this girl, she was a little stressed with finials coming up but a little massage time made her forget her worries and I mine! The main event was closer to PSE than her advertised GFE :butt:Loki's Disco stick kept cummin back for one more dance ............I am surprised we didnt set the sprinklers off .....I lost all track of time and I am sure she did too ... Thanks Brit.. the stats ; LFK, datty (lightly), Digits (softly), Mpos. MSG, very nonrushed, YMMV !!

Well it seems she is banned forever????? Such an intelligent and rational poster, A rising star in the local industry, I am at a loss to imagine what line she may have crossed to get the total and forever ban.... "Like Trotsky" ?? After rereading the "closed thread" I am sure that there are others with similar and or stronger feelings expressed there? Amy way as the title says I am treading on thin ice here and "for now" I will not "fall on my sword" as I don't have all the facts; but from what I can see and read this dose seem some what unfair........ Loki318