Narman

This is exactly what I'm looking for guys. I'm interested in knowing how different people work seeing an SP into their relationship with their SO. I know everyone is different and it all really only matters what each individual thinks of their own situation, but it's good to hear other perspectives.

I'm interested in hearing others opinions on this. My view of it is that since hiring an SP doesn't require the emotional investment it is at least "less" like cheating. Am I simply rationalizing my "mis-deeds", or is there a difference? I've been thinking about this for two reasons. One of them stems from a conversation with an old friend of mine. His very long term girlfriend/"wife" is suffering from gynaecological issues that effect her ability to have, and her desire for sex. This is something that has been on-going for quite awhile. They are a really open couple, and have had group sex etc. on a few occasions in an attempt to satisfy his urge for vaginal sex. Apparently this was going quite well for them up until a year ago when they started having all these issues with the woman they'd been fooling around with. She (the third) turned out to be interested in a more formal thing like a "real relationship", but the real problem is that the situation turned them (especially the wife) off of the idea altogether. So after a year of no "sex" he's grown bored with BJs (I personally can't imagine), and can't seem to bring the situation around. He's a good looking guy and could probably pick up if he wanted but he feels guilty about it all. I talked to him (briefly) about seeing an SP, or maybe even talking to his wife about either him, or both of them seeing an SP. He seems to think that it wouldn't fly, and he has concerns that are actually the opposite of mine. He thinks it's a greater "offence" to pay for it than to meet someone the "regular" way. I am torn, but I respect his opinion, though I think it's tied up in a moralist view of prostitution. The second issue concerns me. I've been seeing a particular gal in a professional relationship for over a year. We really started getting along and for the last few months we've been seeing each other outside of this relationship. Mostly little dates and that sort of thing. Our relationship kinda switched before Xmas. I drove her around to do some shopping after an appointment. Since then we've hungout whenever I'm in town. She started getting offended if I try to pay her after, and actually insists on paying for dinner etc. This all is great and I really like this girl, but it has definately caused some issues with my view of the relationship with her and if it's "ok". My own relationship is open in the sense that we both agreed that sex (safe!) was ok, but "relationships" aren't. We've both strayed before on this but have always thought it was a bad idea to get too involved and have ended it since we feel it would have a negative effect on our relationship. So as much as I like hanging out with the SP, it seems "wrong". Anyway this is sort of a long post, but I'm interested in anyone's views/opinions etc. on any of this. Thanks in advance. Cheers, Narman.

With Courtney (it seems) that you don't get high mileage, but she's a sure thing in the sense of getting a decent-to-good massage, and a good-to-great finish. She is a gem though, and I definatly agree with a previous thread that she seems to like her work. She's almost too sweet sometimes. But yeah this was a thread about Jasmine, so has anyone seen her or should I follow the golden rule of CERB (If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all) on this one? Well cheers folks, merry xmas, happy hanukah, happy festivus (lol), and all that jazz. Narman

Hey, I was wondering if anyone had been into acqua or luna to check out Jasmine? I was planning on it last week but I wasn't sure about her, so I decided on a safe bet (and a favourite) and saw Courtney instead. Anyone with any info on her?!? PM me if nessesary. Cheers, and happy hobbiedayz (ok that was cheezy) Narman

WOW! Its good that this topic has come up as I'm sure quite a few guys have lost it this way. I have a question before I give any advice/feedback though. How far have you gone with a lady before? HJ? BJ? If you've never had either of these, I'd personally suggest them first. This is for two reasons. One, and this sounds sappy, but I find that any contact with an SP/MA generally makes me feel more confident, and for some reason it just seems easier to pick up "civilian" women when you're more confident, so maybe after a little SP lovin' you'll be able to build up the confidence to pick up a lady who'll possibly want more then an appointment with you. The second reason would be that for your first you're most likely gonna be a quick shot, and as much as SPs deal with this alot i'm sure. It's never a great feeling to hardly get in a groove before you pop, so you should take it slow by getting a bj or something. Plus its a good way to test the waters before taking the plunge. But to be honest, I personally never saw the big deal with guys losing it. I personally did greek first (again, ahhh catholic girls) but i didn't feel like I was a virgin after, but I guess I was. My point is that male virginity is overrated, girls experience losing it as a right of passage, but for guys it's just doesn't seem to equate. If you choose to go with an SP, do yourself a favour and don't "fall in love". Anyway cheers, and I hope it works out for ya. Narman

It would be a very noble/generous thing for you to do, though if it's who I'm thinking of, you may be "exposed" since the media seems to already stepped over a few boundaries in the case i'm thinking of. But like I said it would be very noble and generous. Maybe you could get her lawyer to ask the judge to grant a media ban on your name, since of course you were a straight customer, and if she were to be found guilty it would damage your reputation. Though as far as perjury goes what would you answer if you were asked by the prosecutor "have you ever had sexual relations/contact with the accused?"......this is tough! I hope you can make the best decision that you can make.......but yeah, though. Good luck man. Narman p.s. If you end up in the paper I'll look you up and take you for a beer.

What colour hair does she have??? hmmm I was just wondering if she is the same girl as a MA I'd been seeing. I don't think so but damn I hope so. Wait I'm a dumbass this is the winnipeg section.

LE can not take you're car if you were to get pinched. (Unless you were fooling around in your car, and even thats a maybe.) But if you don't have ID you could (and most likely will) be held until you produce it. Imagine calling your wife from lock-up to go get your ID from your car so you can get released. I bet you'd need two lawyers after that! My solution for the LE/SP needing ID was solved when I lost my wallet once, so I went out and bought a new wallet, got a drivers licsense, etc. Anyway a while later I recieved my old wallet back in the mail. Voila two IDs, so I use the old wallet when I go hobbying. I guess the old licsense isn't valid anymore, but it looks valid so who cares. Cheers, 100 POSTS!

LE can not take you're car if you were to get pinched. (Unless you were fooling around in your car, and even thats a maybe.) But if you don't have ID you could (and most likely will) be held until you produce it. Imagine calling your wife from lock-up to go get your ID from your car so you can get released. I bet you'd need two lawyers after that! My solution for the LE/SP needing ID was solved when I lost my wallet once, so I went out and bought a new wallet, got a drivers licsense, etc. Anyway a while later I recieved my old wallet back in the mail. Voila two IDs, so I use the old wallet when I go hobbying. I guess the old licsense isn't valid anymore, but it looks valid so who cares. Cheers, 100 POSTS!

Hahaha, was this in the maritimes? I grew up down there, and for some reason, as children, we were taught penis=bird and vagina=cookie (I have no idea why, but many kids in my neighbourhood used the same terms) Nevertheless, it's still a very odd thing to say. Anyway to keep this on topic I should point out that not all SPs are as honest in their advertising as most on here. I've asked 'stupid questions' like "how old are you"? or "how much do you weigh?" (not usually) It has happened that I've gotten different answers then what their ad says. When this happens all I can think is "what else is she lying about?" Cheers, p.s. The asking about rates then sayin "I just want sex" thing is hilarious

I had it done in my late teens, and I definatley noticed a difference. It was much more sensitive, but over time it's become less sensitive. It sounds weird but its like it become more leathery....probably from rubbing against my unerwear of something. Anyway, there is definately a change IMHO. And before anyone asks, all i'll say is "have you ever seen There's Something About Mary? Well it wasn't that bad, but.....:-?

I stand corrected.

Also in the female washroom of the Mcdonalds on Rideau, when they were in the basement.

No one believes me but I actually had sex on the steps of Parliament in the summer of 2001, I don't know if you could get away with anymore, since 9/11 but I swear to christ/allah/buddah/ and that multi-armed elephant thing it happened!

Messy incall?.....I thought that was part of the GFE??? I'm just kidding ;P Narman

Ok lets be realistic, sure there probably is an RMT with "select" clients. It only makes sense, but the fact is NOONE is gonna drop you that info. (unless they're a little stupid) This is probably for a few reasons but a big one would definately be that they don't want to screw it up, and its possible that it is a "special" client-RMT thing

No I'm sorry, you can't play with the numbers like that. Your chance of getting busted remains 1:11680 everytime you go.

I love that line8)

Actually it was "extra virgin" since we both were before and after, at least in her view....Ahhh Catholic girls.8-)

I really like olive oil, its simple, I like the smell, and there's something that seems "natural" about it. I also think it reminds me of one of my first experiences.....

It's all a preference thing really. Some gals like it, some gals don't, but if you aim to please you'll probably stick it wherever she asks/wants it.

I was thinking about this. Where does the average guy play? Its probably not at home, and not all girls do in-call. Do you rent a hotel just for the date? I personally mostly frequent MPs or in-call, and usually only see outcall girls when I'm away from home and in a hotel. Though I'm very discreet when out of town since the hotel is usually paid for by my employers, and occasionally I'm on the same floor as collegues. Anyway I'm just curious.

I had a few couples dances at Barbs this summer, it was OK though I generally don't get the stripper thing (at least not the lap dance, seems like a tease) But forty bucks a song (stripper+me+lady friend) seemed like a bit of a rip off, since we both could have had a girl each for the same price.

I just want to clarify, I didn't mean you don't have to worry about STIs in Cuba; I just meant that STIs aren't running rampant to the point where they are more of a concern than here. Always be safe!

I would be very careful doing something like picking up in Cuba, (not because of the worry of STIs because as much as they are poor the do have universal health care and one of the highest doctor/patient ratios in the world.) But yes Cuban police, and Cuban men in general, DO NOT seem to appreciate tourist guys trying to get with their women. I've experienced this first hand, as well as having a friend from college getting roughed up (while the police ignored). If you want this sort of action think Mexico, Dominican, even Costa Rica. Though I prefer to dabble with a few 'less than legal' substances when I'm down there, and Cuba doesn't take lightly to these types of things either. I will add that if you go to a resort and get a massage, always go with the local girls, since IMEx some resorts have "white" girls also, and they usually bring their RMT ethics with them.