mister_crufty

There you see the difference between TV and reality. TV: "Yo bitch...you best get off my corner afore I cut you." Reality: "You should see this girl. She'd be great for you." I SO much prefer the reality version. Very nice of you to refer a fellow provider Malika. Such a friendly place this can be. :-D

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Yes, very indelicately worded on my part. I meant it more along the lines of 'not my favorite part of the job but I don't mind it so it's worthwhile.' I was hoping more for the above response, that the ladies enjoy it as much as I do.

Interesting viewpoint but while I feel that much of ethics is, as you say, relative, there are also common threads within all human cultures. As an example, murder is almost universally condemned in all human cultures. The definition of what constitutes murder is highly variable but it always exists. Incest taboos exist in every culture. This may be 'ethics' or 'evolutionary survival' but I would argue they are almost the same. Our survival in a tribe is enhanced by empathy, altruism and support for other tribe members. Over time, our tribes have expanded from a few people in your physical vicinity to friends the world over but the concept is the same. So I don't think it's just "do onto others before they do you." I think we should all aspire to, at minimum, do no harm.

That's what I was hoping to hear. I know a lot of women love it (men too) because it can induce such ridiculously powerful orgasms.

Ah Japan...they have words for everything. Bukkake...what a concept. You should also google 'Yaoi'. "Rule 34. If it exists, there is porn for it." "Japan: Rule 34 Island"

I think if you're finding this ethically challenging you're in the wrong line of work. You have to know that if you're an investigator, sometimes you're going to find things that harm people. Part of the job. This case is different to you because it strikes to the heart of your own hobby but it's really no different than investigating someone for fraud or having a regular girlfriend on the side. If you find yourself conflicted, perhaps you should do something that won't put you in that position. I'm sure there are many others more ruthless than you willing to step in and take your place. If I were a cop, I'd expect to have to bust some heads some times. If I were a soldier, I'd expect to have to shoot people some times. If I were a doctor I'd expect to accidentally kill people some times. You can't just take the Nuremberg defence. Either you decide to hurt people or you don't. If you do, then own it. Nobody is forcing you.

I'm a huge fan of voyages to Greece but I have yet to summon the nerve to try it with an SP. To be honest, I haven't missed it since my encounters so far have been great even without. A little DATO on occasion but that's about it. Actually a little nervous because it's such a huge turn-on for me. Many providers don't do it, whether because they don't like it, health concerns, whatever. It's also generally an a-la-carte premium add-in which makes sense because there's extra work involved. Also supply and demand allows for an extra charge so why wouldn't you? So here's the question. Would it be wrong to assume that the providers who offer Greek are generally big fans of it? They do it because they like it? Or would it be a mixed bag of some who like it and some who tolerate it for extra money? The reason I ask is because I'm not a fan of doing anything with anyone that they don't want to do. I always like to imagine, at least, that the lady is also enjoying our encounter.

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I've seen this before too. Remarkable display of composure and professionalism. I think that this probably represents the majority of police officers too...it doesn't take many bad apples to spoil a bunch. I always compare it to software development. If all you ever see is bugs and broken software, it's easy to start thinking that all software sucks and is badly written. Same with being in medicine. Seeing sickness and injuries all day long can give an exaggerated view on the likelihood of various illnesses and accidents. Try buying a motorcycle if your mom is an ER nurse..."Over my dead body!!" We often see so many videos of bad cops, we forget that there are many more good ones who don't abuse their authority. But rarely does anyone post videos like this so the message is unbalanced.

If there's one thing I've learned it's that we don't learn from our mistakes. We've been inflating stock market bubbles over and over for hundreds of years. We've been buying into propaganda from leaders who would send us to war for thousands more. "Plus ça change, plus c'est la même chose" -Jean-Baptiste Alphonse Karr "A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky dangerous animals and you know it." - Kay (Men in Black)

Not sure the OPs reasoning but for me, it's a huge turn-on to see sexy photos of a lady that I ACTUALLY can have. Or have already been with. Internet porn starts to all look the same after a while. Seeing sexy pictures of ladies that you actually know? Way hotter. I like to look back at the photos of ladies I've seen and do my best frat boy impression to myself, "Dude! You totally hit that! Self high-five!" :-D

Oh my god, I'm dying here. This is one of the most awesome things I've ever heard. Malika, you made my day! I'm just imagining you lying on your back practicing pussy farting. If you do enough kegels, you should be able to whistle a jaunty tune. Wow...now I really hope at least someone here has the same sense of humor as me. Seriously Malika...you're great.

Maybe you should just feel sorry for them. Think about it. They can't imagine that anyone who would sleep with them wouldn't hate it. "If you're sleeping with someone like me, you must really hate your life." How crushingly low their self-esteem must be. How worthless they must see themselves. Me, I love that these women love their jobs. They don't have to be here and they don't have to have a date with me. They do it because they like it and they enjoy their time with me. I think this hobby can be fun for everyone!

Thank you for that. I didn't believe I was sharing anything about providers that would have been considered private or confidential...I thought all of my reviews were strictly about my experience with them and nothing more. I could be wrong though and I'll certainly try to be more careful. I feel that I've been extremely open about myself but I was pretty sure I didn't overshare anything about providers. Please correct me if I'm wrong. If there are any specific examples, I'd be happy to edit or delete the posts. In any event, I don't want to be seen as a chatty cathy so I'll be extra diligent going forward. Truth is, I'm through my OCD phase of interest in this hobby. You really won't be hearing from me much from now on. At this point I'm only responding to posts directed specifically at me or one of my threads so soon there will be very little to talk about. I do appreciate everyone's patience with me though. I know I've been very disruptive.

I think you're taking this one level of abstraction higher than I originally intended it to go. I wish that my writing and thinking had been clearer but in the end, it came down to prejudices. I EXPECTED to feel badly about this. That's why I waited so long. I expected to feel like a lonely desperate dude handing cash to bored indifferent women so that I could get off. All I knew of this was from crappy tv shows and news reports of street walkers getting into cars for a hit of meth. I didn't expect to have chemistry and good feelings and warm thoughts and kind, caring women who really seem to want to make me happy. I didn't expect that I would leave a little bit of my heart with each of the women I met. I didn't expect to come out feeling good about myself. I certainly didn't expect the kind of support I've seen on this board. If you only knew how many other men have PMed me and told me how similar my experience is to theirs. I posted earlier to the 'things that suck thread' the fact that I get insomnia and a lady out west PMed me suggesting I check my calcium and magnesium levels. Quick google and she's right. I'd never heard of that connection before. This place is freaking awesome and full of awesome people. The original subject was meant to be rhetorical. Perhaps it was too subtle.