Miss S. Lane

I would like very much to believe that it is simply because the general population is becoming more enlightened, more aware. Monogamy is not natural. Those who believe it is need to recognize that strict sexual fidelity is a lofty but perhaps fundamentally doomed aspiration. Just look at the rise in divorces, and the number of "celeb" stories about infidelity. Tiger Woods was ridiculed for his multiple sex partners. Justin Bieber gets thrown to the media wolves for hiring a sex worker. Looking at mammals alone (as yes, even we humans are animals), 3-5% practice some form of monogamy, and even then there are limits. Even Emperor Penguins mate with one penguin for a year, and then move on. :) From a chemical and biological standpoint, sexual monogamy depends not just on particular hormones that are released in the brain, but on receptors for these hormones. Among humans, we have the chemicals and the receptors, but it varies from person to person how much we have. Based on brain wiring alone, inclination toward fidelity can vary dramatically from one individual to another. Quite simply, SEX is as necessary to humans as eating and breathing. And with the apparent surge in the swingers lifestyle, I am thrilled to think that couples, who chose to be together on the long term, have realized that while their hearts are committed to each other, they can still explore their sexual fantasies without "cheating". What's more, it VERY often ends up teaching them trust in each other, increasing communication between them, and improving their own PERSONAL sex life tenfold!!! Women and men BOTH have a desire to "stray" or "explore". Swinging allows couples to do just that, and what's more, they can do it TOGETHER.

Thank you so much for your insightful posts and congrats on your incredible milestone! Xoxo

Happy Birthday sweetheart!!!!

Singapore!!! So many cool structures, amazing architecture!!!!

I have been known to enjoy being spanked. I also have been whipped on occasion, and liked it. Hair pulling? Yes please. HOWEVER, it depends on the mood, the moment and the individual. If I was meeting a client for the first time and he started off with this - I'd be pissed lol. S&M, even mild forms, is hugely based on mutual respect and trust. That doesn't come without effort from both sides, as well as history.

My life hasn't changed. I have run into clients in public and we have an understanding... A smile or a nod is fine -- but don't come over to me and I won't go over to you. I refuse to change my life for fear of ANYTHING. Life is too short!!!! :)

"You GOT a score of 15 out of 21 Your rating: Superb! Only 2 Newfies have ever scored this high..." Hahaha!!

Happy Birthday, sweet PistolPete!!!!! I hope you have a wonderful day :) xoxo

Yes - she asked every sex worker in St. John's to meet with her for research. I was asked about 5 times. I'm glad they are dealing with seedy agencies and exploitation, but hate that they seem to be painting sex work in NL with a broad stroke brush.

I have incredibly mad crush on this Victoria Secret model, so she is now and forever forgiven for her camel toe :)

Happy Birthday, MellyBelly!! Have a great one!! xo

Honestly, the best advice I can give you is to cut out preservatives. It means you have to plan your meals and cook, but it becomes second nature pretty fast and it's FUN. I can guarantee you will drop weight from that alone. In addition, DRINK MORE WATER! No one ever drinks enough and this contributes to bloating and all types of other issues. Thirdly - just move. You like going to the gym? Then go. If you like walking, walk. Take the stairs. Park at the far side of the parking lot. Have sex :) Whatever to keep yourself MOVING !!!!!!!!! It doesn't have to be complicated :)

Hubby!!!!! You mean I get to meet you??!!!

I am in!!!!! Can't wait :)

Victoria my sweet, I think what that other SP is doing to you and other SP's is ridiculously childish. Why does She need to worry about competition? If she was offering a service that clients enjoyed, then her service would sell itself. Instead she plays immature games to try and mess with other people. I think that letting her win, so to speak, is a bad idea. She doesn't get to bully everyone. I live here -- and I too have gotten some insane emails lately. More than usual. But I'm not going anywhere... So I just pay no mind and keep doing what I'm doing. You are an upscale, well respected SP. Keep doing your thing. The trash will fade and the pathetic will lose. Xoxo

You have met with an SP a few times and enjoyed her company very much. You should now: 1) text or email all the time, but never book because really, you've moved past that 2) make promises to book and never do, just to keep her guessing! 3) book her the next time your schedule allows to show her you appreciate the effort shes made, and write to her every once in a while (within respectable reason) to say hello.

I am one of those SP's who truly believes in building a rapport between client and SP. It adds to the experience for me, as well as for the client. However, I have my limitations. When a new client I've never seen before wants to email or text back and forth for weeks on end with no intention to book, I tell him to stop contacting me. I don't have TIME to be chatting my time away for free. With a client I've seen before, I rather enjoy keeping in touch. I like hearing how they are, and getting the occasional hello. However, again there are limits. When communication starts to invade my personal time, when communication and actions therein start to invade my personal life, when communications suggest that I engage in things that are inappropriate or when communication, after 5 months, becomes obvious that there is NO intent to book again, with lots of mixed messages and dishonesty confirmed by my colleagues, then yes. You are a time waster. Period. I have always said... When clients are respectful of MY time, I will be glad to look after them. Respect is earned, not a given. Trust, once lost, is difficult to recover and for most SP's, not worth the headache.

The liquor, I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you, but I wanted to send you a message to let you know I find your strength, courage and overall approach to the difficulties life has thrown your way to be genuinely inspiring. I am not a religious person, however I firmly believe that in this life, we are offered challenges not to test our strength, but because we have the strength to endure it -- sometimes whether we realize it or not. Hold onto your strength. Gleam it from other sources... Your friends, your family, through things that matter to you. And above all, LIVE. Fully and completely each and every day. Have no regrets. Feel the fear and do it anyway. Each and everyone of us gets ONE CHANCE at this thing we call life, and I for one want to slide into home base at the end screaming "WOOHOO what a ride!!" ((((Hugs of strength)))) from me.

Wanted to take a moment to say the hospitality shown to me on my first trip was beyond compare. Thank you for making me feel so welcome. I look forward to travelling to your fine city again!!!

While I am certain you are looking for a recommendation from a fellow hobbiest, I can tell you from my experience of working with her that she is excellent. Her and I have entertained a few duos together, and she is the real deal. If you're looking for a mature woman, the ultimate in discretion and a great experience to boot, you'll enjoy her :) PM with any other questions if you'd like !!

I just wanted to take a moment to thank the wonderful gentlemen I've met here in St.John's. We are lucky to have such a fine group of truly discerning gentleman, and I am incredibly blessed to have been able to spend time with those of you I have met with. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! See you soon ;)

You guys are all so sweet!! I had no idea I'd reached a milestone! :) Thanks for making me smile and thinking of me :) XOXO

I do believe the "right" amount varies from person to person. Sexual desire runs stronger in some. It also can fluctuate depending on life circumstances. Stress plays a role, illness, etc. For myself, I don't believe there is a "too much". I think you play to your own personal needs. Just because one person may have more of a need than the next, doesn't mean the person having sex more is "addicted" or having it "too much". I have always had a high sexual desire. At one time, thanks to societal stigma and external influences, I thought this was "wrong". Now? I embrace who I am. A woman with high sexual desire. It is part of me, so why would that be a problem? Good topic :)

Wow! You are awe inspiring my friend :) Congrats !!

I had a friend -- who, at the time, was 31yrs old and had three children. Happily married, and they had a healthy sex life. However, upon her and I discussing, she told me she'd never masturbated. Then she got curious and called me to ask how. I tried my best to explain it. Of course, I created a monster lol. Truth is, sex on the whole and societal approach has changed a lot over the years. It was once regarded as "unhealthy" or "sinful" to touch yourself for pleasure. Think back to the days of "you'll go blind". Now? It's the norm - but there are those stuck in old patterns of thinking who are having a hard time coming to grips with their carnal desires. I hope for her sake she was lying! Masturbation is, in my opinion, an important part of self discovery.