Ashley Ann

Thanks guys, for ALL of your responses, very appreciated..BTW he is NOT a cerb member! Cerb gents would not pull that type of b.s. :icon_biggrin: AND BTW: I should also mention, that this guy, was one of the most paranoid clients I have ever met when it came to DISCRETION...crazy huh, considering his tactics...He would always state how much he had to lose if anyone was to EVER find out... Vanessa xoxo

Hello guys: Just wanted to share a recent experience of mine because I would like to know your thoughts on the matter, if any hobbiests have done this before, and if any of the ladies have ever experienced something like this: Yesterday, I was out and about...went in to Lone Star restaurant for a take out order. When I walked in and approached the take out stand, which is at the bar..the first person I see is a repeat client , actually, I should now say former after what he pulled. I choose to overlook him and not pay him any attention at all, he was there with a friend..plus, that is just the way I am, I would rather risk some hurt feelings by ingoring the person rather than risk exposing them, or myself. So as I am standing there, I can hear them chatting, and my former reg client says...you see her..I know her...his friend asks..you do...and my former reg client informs him that he has "fucked me a few times" his words, not mine...and that he met me on C>L, and that I am "one of those girls"... Wow..my usual feisty self, wanted to say something, but I was speechless! So ok, who does that? Do some of you guys feel that is necessary to share that type of info whenever and if ever you happened to run into an sp you have been with? And sp's ..has this happened to you? The whole thing really bugs me because I choose not to show my beautiful face lol, because I like being discreet and do not want to be recognized by anyone other than who I am spending time with, but at the same time..even that is not always a guarantee!!! Do you think this is right and should be expected ...thanks in advance for your time to respond to this thread. Vanessa

I think I might be interested in perhaps beautiful shoes & handbags ...BUT , at the same time, I do this to survive financially, so I would still want money too....perhaps if I was a high volume sp that would work for me.... I have been contacted by a man to barter services for an Iphone ( hello ladies..I know many of you know what I mean) AND by a supposed photographer who offered his services for pro pics...which he indicated I desperately needed to make any money...lol....or even better a message like this: I have a proposition for you...do you like liquor? If so let's chat! Let me know....:chug: Like AS IF!!!!!!!!!!! I think there is a definite level of trust that requires something like this, I also think if you were to attempt this sort of thing, the initial visit should be strictly CASH and then perhaps see from there.

I think it is a combination of things, such as for for starters....many men do not read all of the information our ad entails. I have done this before myself, not with sp's ads , but with other type of informative pages/links. I personally receive many pm's asking me about my availability in the evening...when my ad always states that I am available during the days only ( there is the odd occasion when I am available during the evening, but I will indicate so in my ad or my availability page on my site..... While I understand some must rush to look at our ads, for discretion reasons, I totally get that....but the ones who repetitively pm indicating they want to see me, especially when I indicate that I am at a hotel for the day, and that if they want to see me they must CALL me...I simply no longer reply back, I know, it sounds harsh, but for me, I find that if you are unable to take the time to fully understand on how to go about booking something with me, well that indicates to me that they are not as serious as the men who do want to see me, because the gents who have seen me, know just how to go about it:icon_biggrin:

While I understand we all have our own opinions....I strongly disagree with your statement, only because, I am an sp with ONE rec (been on here since November 2009)....and I do not believe its because I provide a shitty service and/or do not deserve one, because believe me...I DO!!! I truly think the reason for this is because a) the men I see do not bother with recs at all and/or b) are embarassed to post a rec which would indicate thier love for bigger ladies. I am able to back this claim up because I have quite a few friends from this site who have returned and/ or are ongoing. I realize my shape is not every one's cup of tea, so I fully admit my client base is smaller than most...BUT the clients I do see are happy, and highly doubt they are holding back on providing me with a rec because my service is whack...... I have learned to deal with this, because after all what I appreciate the most is when they return, and what I LOVE is the lovely notes they send to me privately, after it's all said and done :grin: Others have also said " if nothing is said on here about someone,it must be because there is nothing good to say' this too I feel is uncalled for, because it can give the impression that it's true, when clearly it is not. Not trying to be a Negative Nancy, so my apologies if I come off as rude. I just wanted to indicate the other side to why some ladies may not have any recs. Vanessa

Hmmmm, let's see...Busty Bertha,,,,How hateful of a name would that be?? I don't think anybody would copy that one... lol

When I was 19, I worked for an agency ( the year before that, I had worked at a law firm as a co-op placement). The agency got a call for a bachelor party and they had sent me and two other girls, to this party at a private home. We get there, and the first person I make eye contact with is one of the lawyers from the firm, turns out they were all there except for the head honcho of the firm...that was one of the MOST EMBARASSING moments in my life!!!!! But at the same time, could not have been too shamed about it, cause I stayed..just avoided a particular group of men. lol

Ok yes, that would deserve a phone call or email...I go by first name only, and it is such a common one...but yes for sure, those with a first and last..that would be flat out copying..it's easy enough to overlook a single name, especially if it's a common one..but when it's that close, your right, a call would be in order...

I am in Ottawa, use the name Vanessa, and I really wish I would have picked a less common name because there are like a gazillion Vanessa's....a name change may be coming soon ;) I would never think of calling out any other Vanessa sp's who came out after me, that's a touch too aggressive I think... What I do think would be irratating tho is if someone by chance choose the same name as you AND happend to look like you and be shaped like you......but eventually I am certain the gents would figure out who's who

:biggrin: Happy Birthday!!! Hope your day is spent the way you like best. :icon_wink:

We are all different, but for me, I would not be able to do this if I had a boyfriend or s/o. I have been single for over a whole decade, and unfortunately will probably be single for a while longer!!! Although I have had many 9-5 jobs through out the past decade, in between, I would still see 2 regular clients. The type of man I would choose to be with in a relationship would not be ok with this. I may be open sexually (while I am single) but actually very "old fashioned" in the sense when it comes to "commitment". Being single allows me do to this, otherwise I would not. FOR ME personally, I have no desire to be in a relationship with a man who has no issues with me performing sexual services for men...like I said, I am old fashioned.

I suppose 4 years is better than nothing, BUT I think she should have gotten at LEAST 10 years, and as for her tears , they are only for herself. NOT only is she selfish, but heartless too.

Theresa Russell was the actress who played the "whore", I believe it came out in 1991. I seen it too! One of the first movies I seen was one of those made for TV movies....The mayflower madam...Candice Bergen played the madam....I remember thinking WOW..fur coats, flying in private jets and and all of that money.....as an 8 year old, it seemed so amazing....The other was another TV movie, Loni Anderson played a high class hooker...in the movie she married her #1 regular and lived happily every after...

Once in while (2x a year) I rent myself a hotel suite..just for ME (not for business purposes) , to get away from it all! Every two weeks I get manicures & pedicures...and about twice a month I will have a little Pinot Grigio..just a glass and I'm good ;) I strongly suggest those who have never had a pedicure, especially the men, to try this out...they are so relaxing..and they also do wonders for your feet.

Hello Velvet, First I just want to say OMG..your recent pics are freaking fabulous..you are a stunner!! Now for the room mate stuff... Without knowing any major details, I presume you live with this guy, cause you have to ( I realize rent is crazy where you are, in other words, it is for financial reasons.. Did you move into his place? If you have, you could always request for him to perhaps ask his ladies friends to keep it down & that he needs to explain to whomever that he has a room mate ( I never understood that type of disrespect, going into someone's house, knowing fully that there are others in the house..ok yes it may feel good, but I think that is very inconsiderate & super TACKY for the other's to have to listen to that.....and let's face it, usually really embarassing the next day......LOL If it was your place and he moved in, well then you have the right to notify, not ask, that there needs to be a little more respect on his part...unfortunately, this young buck is probably in his prime, therefore there will probably be many more :icon_wink: so asking him to limit his dates would be an impossible task..all you can do is ask to keep the noise down...or try and find yourself a DECENT room mate. Best of luck to you!

When I am asked the question, how much for just a bj..I usually provide the link to my service page from my site..so they CAN READ what I have to offer. Other times, when I am asked, can you do just a b.j for 80$, I send them a link to sp's ads who do provide this type of service ( as indicated in their ads) without any other type of reply, just the link. Once I do that, it usually ends all correspondence, which is fine with me, because IMO, those are usually the type of men I have no desire to spend time with :icon_razz:.

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I know just what you mean...I am very generous with my time too, especially if they have not finished within their selected time, I feel it would be wrong to say: OK..YOUR TIME IS UP... I will give them the extra time, but at the same time I feel , if you KNOW you are not a HALF HOUR kinda guy, and require longer ,,,,well then you should book longer...I have recently stopped providing half hour services due to the fact that I am low volume and hate the pressure of rushing. I do however still accept half hour sessions to a handful of regular clients...and one of them always goes over his time, and he is fully aware...because he always pays me afterwards ( I trust him) and checks the time out too, so I know he knows he is usually overstaying the time he requests...and he NEVER compensates me for it...... Since it's been a few times now, I have no choice but to inform him we have 30 minutes or so to spend together....not 50 minutes for a 30 minute rate. Being the super friendly person I am, I always feel awkward to indicate this....I feel like I am going to hurt their feelings or come of as rude...or worse, lose a client. It's nice to be paid to do what you like, but at the same time this is a business otherwise we would all be doing it for free right? Sounds harsh, but it is what it is :ThankYou:

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Back when I was 21, I got my first 9-5 job, this was after a couple of years of escorting, I decided to go back to school, took an office admin course..anyways one day got pulled right out of class and was brought to an office within the building I was going to school in and was placed right then & there...My first 9-5 job. I remember having to wait a month for a paycheck, and it was sooooooo hard...not being able to make the money I used to.....Had to drastically adjust my lifestyle..I used to be take out queen, therefore I had to learn how to cook..and take the buss, used to take cabs everywhere...and I did not have any money for new office gear...BUT I will say this, I may have been struggling and living pay cheque to pay cheque, but I felt GREAT about myself and really loved the fact that when the pays started to come in that I always had a guaranteed income and a lot less stress.

Your preference does not make you immature at all.....as you said, its a preference :) Many men are not into sexual activities with a lady when she is menstruating, even if it does not involve full service.

Now that was a very shitty move on the s.p's part...not to mention tacky & low class-ish!!!! Misunderstandings can happen, but to indicate all the service types she can offer you, but is only able to offer you one type of service during your encounter...that should have been indicated beforehand as this sp knew in advance what you were expecting...your right, you were ripped off...not cool.

I am an sp who works during her time of the month, why.... because there are MANY men who are not the full service types...HOWEVER WITH THAT BEING SAID....when this occurs_ I dont come out and say, sorry boys I am menstruating in my ads...I simply INDICATE with a special note that there is NO FULL SERVICE available........ Unfortunately, I had a very humiliating and hurtful experience with a man who I presumed took the time to look at my ad I had on the day he contacted me for an appointment......WRONG!!!!!!!!!!! I will also point out that I did not confirm this over the phone ( I should have) would have saved me a lot of grief!! Unfortunately, I was fully undressed , and had been touched , fondled & kissed by this guest prior to us coming to the realization he was there for much more......My compensation......$20!!!! .........so ladies all this to say, if you do, CONFIRM WITH THEM that you are not providing full service, EVEN if it is stated in your ad, so you don't get effed over like I did!!!!

I do!!!!!!!! The first one I went to was HOT SHOTS in GATINEAU!!!! I was 16 and amaaaaazed by all the naked men!!! I remember my first lap dance too, VERY EXCITING :bigclap:!!!!! I went back the next week, with a bunch of girlfriends, and yes, being the newbies we were, we all sat in the "pervert row" section!!!! They had a dance floor for the ladies too, so both the ladies & male dancers would be dancing & dry humping with one another..... :boobies:...so much fun!!!!

SCREAM 4 !!!!!!!!!! :icon_twisted: I loved all three, hopefully this will be just as awesome!!!