Ashley Ann

Wow, so many replies , and so quickly too!! THANKS!!! Just one thing, I forgot to mention, the lady would also have the body type that YOU are into ;) .....and like I said, I am not trying to figure out a new way to market myself, I am probably the biggest fan of my own ads..:sm185:...I am not looking to change my approach, because I like they way they work for me... Just strictly wondering about the ad types that intrigue you and if they make any kind of difference when you have so many gorgeous ladies to choose from :razz:

Hello Gentlemen, A little question for you all regarding advertisements & marketing??? There are many different types of service providers out there who offer an array of services, as we know, our advertisements are a terrific tool to market ourselves so we can attempt to represent ourselves regarding what we do and how we do it, some provide greater detail than others. With mine, they tend to be pretty long & descriptive (that?s what I like personally, I have fun with them :-P ) some others are too and some are very short, sweet and to the point?. there are a lot of really great ads on here!!! My question is what type of advertising intrigues you the most? ( and no, I am not asking this because I am considering a change in my advertising approach, I am just curious) Lets just say the below mentioned ad titles are all for the same lady, which would intrigue you the most, which would actually make you think about perhaps spending time with the service provider?? Oh and lets also just say that she will provide the SAME service type , regardless of what ad title she is using that day ;) ...... Hard Core: Ram your cock into the back of my throat, cum fuck my hot tight wet pussy and cum all over my face Sweet & Inviting: Come and spend a splendid afternoon with lots of sensuality & fun Classy & Sophisticated: Beautiful, Charming & Classy Lady available for your pleasure I am fully aware there is more than one factor that applies when making your choice, such as RECS & posts, and her site?however, when looking for an sp, it usually starts with one looking at her ads??so regarding the above mentioned titles, which one would intrigue you most???? Hmmmm, wonder which one it will be??????? :twisted: Thanks in advance for takinging the time to read & respond :D

I believe the porn shop on Rideau street does this, its right close to the side street of Augusta, across from the Quickie, (used to be a 7-11), ........BTW, off topic here a little bit......but the sexy toys are waaaaay cheaper there than the ones at the adultfunstore or elsewhere...from what I have seen anyway....

I presume you will get many different responses to your question as it really does depend on the individual, their mind frame and of course their own view on their own business ...... For MYSELF (speaking on behalf of myself) in order to genuinely enjoy what I do, these are the following rules I must abide by to retain my personal and mental health...... 1) Do NOT have a boyfriend, or be in a relationship I am a pretty open minded person, like to have sex with no strings attached, don't really have to know someone all that well, ( gotta love condoms!!!) I love sex!!!! HOWEVER, when its time for me to settle down ( if ever) and be in a committed relationship with someone (do they even exist??) It will surely be AFTER I pull the plug on this business.....I have tried a different route in previous years,,, I had a boyfriend, we lived together (prior to my child) I would tell him to leave when someone was on the way....or I had to leave to go on a call, honestly, He would be on my mind the whole time that I would be with clients, wondering if he cared, did this bug him, as well as <why the fuck does he allow this, why doesn't he try to stop me, why doesnt this bother him???> That type of shit totally affected me, my mentality & my personal life, which then trickled down to my clients..... 2) Limit the clients I see & never, ever work on a day when I am NOT feeling it...NO MATTER WHAT!!! Because of the low volume of clients that I see, this really helps me maintain my positive and pleasant attitude, it also helps keep me liking what I do. Keeps it fresh & exciting, NOT old & stale..A few year back, I had an apartment on the side, I would see many clients per month, ( round it out to about 2-3 clients per day, 4 to 5 days a week) the money was fantab , but I was really, really unhappy, did not like the way I felt, cause most of the men I was seeing were men I would never even have a conversation with, had it not been for the money....now if I do not like the sound of your voice, your approach or what you write to me in emails, or even if I have any kind of funny and/or odd feeling, I do not see them...this method really does work best for ME... 3) Not really into clients who are unsure if they are attracted to bigger girls or not, for me, what gets me off in the hardest way is when the men I see are really into & love my body!!! And yes, these men do exisit..lol!!! If a man appears to be uncertain about me in anyway when he sees me, well, I pass on them too!!! I guess some feel, they drove out here, made the appointment, and might as well go through with it attitude, I pass, the amount of money is just not worth me feeling uncomfortable and taking a chance on altering my business by providing a half ass service..and NO I do NOT take money for being uncertain..not into causing drama for 20-40 cancellation fee( this only happened once so far since my return, but have no problem sticking to it!!! Please note, many of us have the best intentions when meeting new clients, we like to meet new guys, as well as build lasting & ongoing relationships, this really is our intent (most of us anyway) and we want to get off too, sexually, and have a little high afterwards too, cause we enjoyed ourselves so much, while already looking forward to seeing the client again in the future ( this is what makes our job awesome)...this does occur for sure, BUT , I would be full of serious shit if I indicated that this happens to us with every hobbiest we meet , cause that is not the case at all,,it has to do with chemistry, and if you connect on a really hot sensual level... All this to say, there is no full proof method to find a sp who genuinely enjoys her work and who will ALSO genuinely enjoy her time with YOU just cause its a for sure thing (kinda sorta)..It is a matter of finding one you can connect with on many levels... Sooooo, guys, when you find that type of sp TREAT her right & do not take her for granted, you never what the future will hold for her and where her future career plans may take her...

Both discs - 1 & 2 !!! Awesome movie, Awesome Soundtrack, if you like music from the 70's & a touch of the early eighties....

Jesus, Mary, Joseph, I cannot believe an sp would offer BBFS or BBBJ-(right of the bat anyway) (sorry gotta say it) ....and I will tell you why.....this opinion is not just a matter of me thinking its the wrong thing to do, cause its not, its a matter of HEALTH...there is plenty of public information out there that advises us on these matters and the nasty consequences that can occur from doing so....wont go into full blown details, but you know what I am saying!!! I am a little confused, because, you see, as ladies who provide services, we are even more knowledgeable about the risks AND we are at a much higher risk because of what we do for a living, so what do we do, we PROTECT ourselves.... I do not see anything wrong with providing a BBBJ , but only ONCE you have established some sort of regular relationship, along with a mutual understanding and trust regarding personal health.....still a risk, but much lower.....you see ladies, back in the day, it just really was not like this, and back then we had less info and resources to go with...NOW we truly know the deal and what is out there, and unprotected services are now on the rise in the sp world.........SO YA, guys who do no care about protection, are probably thinking ok, if I can get her to blow me without a condom, why the fuck not ask for Full SERVICE, is this right of them to think that way, hell NO :ablow: , but its bound to happen, especially those "ignorant dont wanna use any protection ever-type of guys" who think with their cock and not their brain.... It blows my mind that soooooooooooo many people out there are willing to take the biggest risk for a short time of pleasure....... Sorry to my girls who do this, not trying to be hateful, just find it odd how this is one of the most open minded sites there are, yet we seem to pretend that we are in some type of fantasy land where std's do not exsist.........

Hello Malika, Welcome Back!!! You are very popular on here & have a nice following, I am sure the guys will be soooooo happy to have your sexy self back on board!!!!! Good luck, sent you a pm too!!! Vanessa

Check out cowboy Kenny's site today.......http://www.cowboysdiary.info :sm185: Our city is very fortunate to have C.K and his investigative talents!!! :bowdown:

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=29176 HAVE FUN :bjs::jackoff:

Before I begin, this is not meant to insult anyone, however I am sure it will, so my apologies in advance...:bowdown: We could discuss the bare back thing till we are all blue in the face, some do it and some do not.....I returned to sp-ing last August after a 4 year break, I was very, very surprised to see that soooo many providers do this, before it was about 20% of the sp's who did so, now, my opinion, it seems to be that 20% of the sp's DO not, the rest seem to be ok with it, either right of the bat, or for an extra cost, the fact that it now seems to be the norm to provide a blow job without a condom, it kinda sorta impacts your business a little, cause lets face it if a guy can get blown without a condom, I think he will choose the lady who will do so for him without a condom, especially when their is such a variety of ladies who do so, its not like he only has 1 or 2 to choose from, there are many... I have had many clients contact me, via cerb, asking for BBBJ, when I indicate that I am unable to provide that service, even though it clearly indicates on my site that I only play SAFELY;) many of them have declined to meet with me, because NO bbbj is a DEAL BREAKER...oh well :-) I know this does not apply to all hobbiests, but I do think it applies to most, There are a few hobbiests out there who insist on CBJ, but not many :( Bare back is a very personal choice, for me its a no-go, but PLEASE do not think I am saying it is wrong for everyone, it is just wrong for me...:-D

PK agency stands out the most to me when I think about who could accomodate your request. "]I am pretty sure that some PK girls do that, ...it is OFTEN mentioned in the ads, in fact one claims to really love it!!!!! One of their most recent ad titles on CL indicates there is a girl who really wants you to cum on her face, and she looks very attractive......that is my suggestion since you are looking for 'some'one who actually likes facials, usually when someone advertises a particular service, that is detailed in the header of the ad title, that is probably one who actually likes it, because if she didn't, well then she would not advertise that service type ;) Good luck!!!

There is an extreme lack of manners, common courtesy, & consideration of others all over the place ..... From the ignorant non mannered individuals on the o.c buses who do not offer their seat to elders, pregnant ladies or people with infants...then you have those who insist that their personal cell conversation is sooooooo dam important, that they MUST speak very loudly and in full detail for the WHOLE bus to hear...< and I was like ...and he was like....and then OMG we were like???!!! > I had to listen to that for 17 minutes the other day... Then you have those who cannot be bothered to hold open the door, yet have not problem when someone holds it open for them !!?? Then there is the line up situation at a store, especially where there is NO express lanes, if you find yourself in line with a bunch of items, and see someone behind you with like 2, 3 maybe even 4 or 5, would it kill ya to let that person go ahead of you, I ALWAYS offer this when I find someone behind me with just a few items...why not?? PARENTS really need to take the time to show their kids manners....you see plenty of kids walking around today in designer outfits, expensive gadgets, but NO MANNERS or "Social Skills"'!!!!! Funny thing, 'I was chit chatting about manners today with a friend, I think they should start to teach manners 101 in elementary school due to the fact that many people with kids who 'DO NOT teach their kids any manners...do not get me started on discipline...thats for another thread all together......

Capital man, you are right, everything you said is correct, however, I think we are kinda going off into another direction when it comes to the subject regarding the lack of recs for bigger girls.... We are not indicating that we would like an ass load of recs, we are just wondering why there seems to be only a handful of them, if that,...yes I realize bbws are not as common as the rest of the ladies on here, BUT, I have great difficulty believing that ALL THE BBW loving hobbiests all seem to be on the same page when it comes to not being interested in writing recs OR are just too busy..some yes, but not all . Hey maybe I am wrong, but that would be too much of a coincidence...(my opinion) I guess what we are trying to say is that most of us bigger girls are alot of fun to be with, provide a great service and have many happy returns, yet NOBODY knows about it SHHHHHHHH :oops: So when you say earn your recs, the next question is well, ok what if we have, but yet to have them?? We are NOT sitting on the couch popping bons bons and looking at our clients wack off while watching TV:handjob: (unless of course some of you bbw loving clients are into that type of stuff, I could do that if you like ;)..LMAO) a little humor :sm185: But seriously now....... This post was not meant to be mean spirited or shame or humiliate anyone, I think since this is such an open mind community...we thought why not put the message or question out there, all though there are PLENTY of men on here who LOVE US, why is there no mention of it??? However, if some hobbiests are too shy to indicate their love for us in recs, well I am confident that not many will respond to this post because then they would be outed!!!!!! :oops: AND for those of you men who like to have a taste of it all...why do you only do the recs for the slim & trim ones, but no recs for the bigger ones, even though you have just as good as a time with both types ....:? I am not saying this applies to ALL, it just applies to those who are ashamed of liking us BIG ladies!! Ok to summarize, in everyday life, it does not surprise me, that most, not all , but most guys do not want to be know as the guy who likes :cooter: to eff fat girls...even if they do, they hide it cause it is not the norm in everyday society, but on here, where everybody seems to be so OPEN, ...I am surprised it seems to be on the major DOWN LOW At the end of the day, us bbw sps are doing just fine business wise, so although there is a mention of a lack of recs, please do not confuse this with us BEGGING our special friends for recs, it is just simply something to put out there for discussion... HOPE everyone who reads this has a really nice day:D:-P

Apparently this sort of thing does occur from time to time, I have met with a gentlemen from here a few times and each time he has indicated to me that some ladies he has met with PM him quite a bit to ask when if he wants an appointment ...:-? I would NEVER do that!!!! Even when someone leaves me a voicemail on my cell, I will only return their call if it was within the last hour, OR they leave a detailed message with particular instructions that they ALWAYS have access to their phone & to call them back whenever I get the message, but those message are rare.... You just never, ever know what can occur when calling someones phone, the S.O/ co workers/ family could be close by, right beside, or even worse, have the phone on them:ablow:!!!! I think most hobbiests enjoy the fact the can call and/or pm a lady, set something up, have a good time, with NO strings attached, and thats it!!!! :motion: THAT has to be a MAJOR turn off :handjob: for you men whenever an sp behaves in that sort of super tacky manner..A BIG part of this game we like to play includes the pursuit of men approaching us, NOT the other way around

If a client requests a lower price or tries to bargain, I also find it offensive, however, I understand it because there are sps who will accept lower prices, which, in my opinion opens the door to the hobbiests bargaining strategies, especially once they have had a taste of having their request granted.......In a perfect world, all sps would stick to their guns, most do, I am sure, but there are certainly a few who do not... I am actually all about giving a discounted rate to returning clients, meaning a client who comes back to see me for a second time within a 3 month period of our last meeting & also for the regular clients, the ones who come to see you AT LEAST every 2-4 months) What I DO NOT really appreciate ( but I suppose its my own fault for not clarifying, I just presume people would get this**) is when clients I have previously seen contact me to inquire about there discounted rate for being a regular , yet I have not seen them in like 6-8 months...Wow, guess that sounds super bitchy but its the way I feel !! As a matter of fact, I will make it a point to clarify this on my site :butt:-in the nicest way possible :p

Although, bra sizes can vary from store to store, I am pretty sure that is not what the cowboy was getting at. If an sp is wearing a C-cup bra from the La Senza & wears a B-Cup bra from The Bay, that type of variance is not all that off from the sps actual cup size....I think the point he is trying to make is that there are a few sps who indicate that have a D cup, when in fact its probably a B cup....ESPECIALLY on CL, have not really seen that on here to be honest, BUT on CL, there are many who describe themselves as BUSTY when the pictures clearly shows they are not, ya I know, this coming from a girl who has ginorm boobs, however, I am in no way using mine as a comparison, we all have different views on shapes & sizes, But to me personally, if someone is to describe themselves as busty, its should be because you are actually busty, not because you have a bust lol That tactic is equivalent to me trying to indicate that my body is slim, petite, tight & toned..LOL !!! Mind you I am sure a hobbiest would be less reluctant to be with a slim girl who lied about her cup size than a bigger sp who lied about her entire body shape...:D

Here is another birthday wish coming your way...Gonna have to have you over for some BIRTHDAY CAKE!!! ;) All the best to a real sweet, mesmerizing & mature lady! :D

Tess is a great name for a hot & sexy little miss like yourself, great choice!

I am not sure they are still enforcing those rules because I have stayed at the delta about 5 different occasions since January 2010, and it was all good...I even request an early check in 12:30 ish, and its always a go!!! Next time, for convenience, I will be staying at the albert at bay, a ONE bedroom suite/apartment like room, is about 100 dollars ish.......and they are really big rooms! BTW , my girlfriend works at the front desk of the DELTA, NO she has no idea what I do, and she has indicated to me that the staff is fully aware of who is a sp and who is not, in fact they discuss it amongst themselves, NOT COOL...but what can you do, I guess they pick up on a few things here and there when NON discreet sps stay there.....Apparently, one time an sp called down to the front desk, screaming that a maid interrupted her while she was with a client!!!!! She should NOT have used the term client ...but I could TOTALLY understand her frustration !!!!

If its calming, instrumental music, I am just fine with that, however, most music/ songs, for me anyway, are usually linked to some type of memory whether its good or bad ones ( memories that is), so that can kinda sorta be distracting, especially if its the radio, and some song that reminds me of my childhood, well, ya know, that is really uncomfortable, lol, for me anyway! So basically, friends, please do not ask for (kool fm) or (magic 100) they usually play plenty of songs from my childhood era...

We all have our own opinions, regarding the services we provide & just how we advertise them. The positive & logical solution I can come up with is for you to not read other sp ads....that is something that can be easily done on your part to avoid frustration....:rolleyes: BTW, Just to give you the heads up, I love to use all sorts or colors, pics, & different fonts in my ad.. so be sure not to look at mine, they may put you in a rage!!:ablow: LOL just a little joke for ya!!! :-D Trying to keep this pleasant!!:-P

< Hi, Hello, Howdy> Roller Girl aka Heather Graham from the movie BOOGIE NIGHTS...love. love,love that movie...a lot of good & seriously funny quotes & sayings from that movie...... Little Bill aka William H Macy <Ah... my fuckin' wife, man, she's over there... she's got some idiot's dick in her, people standing around watching - it's a fuckin' embarassment. > His wife is played by none other than NINA HARTLEY !!! Jack Horner: aka Burt Reynolds< Ah, where are you going? > Becky Barnett: aka Nicole Ari Parker < I gotta go wash my vagina. > Jack Horner: <How long you gonna be? > Becky Barnett: < Five minutes. You want it clean, don't you? > Love that movie!!! Gonna go watch the DVD again!!! :cooter:

Hope your day is extremely pleasant :wink: & spent the way you wish!!! :razz:

She uses the name Manuella on CL, but on here she goes by ANABELLA..here is a link to her rec....she should change her online cerb name to include (aka Manuella) , it would probably be beneficial to her! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=M&t=16501 Good luck, hope this helps you!!

Birthday Cake..Vanilla or Chocolate, dont matter :razz:!!! In fact I buy them for all sorts of occasions, not just birthdays!!!:sm185: