Lexy Grace 103696 Report post Posted March 17, 2016 I just have a question for the clients/hobbyists and companions please do chime in with advice, experience as your input is always welcome. When visiting the personal and private residence of a companion, upon entry if you see family/friend photos around or on walls of the residence you are visiting as this may or most likely is the companions home that you have been invited to, is that a turn-off ? Or does it not effect or bother you to see such photos and you are aware obviously that companions have a regular life outside of providing companionship. In all honestly you are not visiting to view the companions walls and are there to spend quality time and companionship with the companion and as long as the location is clean, provides all fresh linens and amenities. Do personal photos really matter? Thank you! Hugs & Kisses, Lexy 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PyroPyotr 1599 Report post Posted March 17, 2016 It does not bother me at all. I understand that companions have a life of their own. Myself, I certainly would avoid the topic altogether out of respect. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mikeyboy 27113 Report post Posted March 17, 2016 It's an interesting question. I do realize that sp's have outside lives and families outside this industry. There is always an invisible line however when it comes to acknowledging this. I know better than to ask about kids, boyfriends, husbands and other family members. I am very conscious not to ask questions that may seem too personal or identifying as I know it makes some ladies uncomfortable. I like to at least take the ladies lead in these matters. I wouldn't personally have an issue with the photos and other items being there, and I would still understand that the lady is still entitled to their privacy. Some however, may see it as an invitation to discuss your personal life. It's natural to comment on and ask questions about personal items like photos just as a matter of making small talk. I guess it comes down to how comfortable you feel with it and how heavily you guard those aspects of your personal life. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ElissaMarie 4310 Report post Posted March 17, 2016 Good afternoon Lexy, Since you invited companions to give you advice on this I'll give you what is more my opinion on this topic. I would personally not feel comfortable having any personal family photos or even photos with people other than myself displayed anywhere where guests can see them, I haven't thought that they may feel uncomfortable by it which I doubt the majority would but is somewhat getting these people involved in a part of your life that they may not be aware of and there's always a possibility that someone may recognize them which I may not be comfortable with either and can put them both (my guest and whoever is in the picture) in an awkward situation but this is just an opinion, not saying is right or wrong. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted March 17, 2016 Lexy its better that you keep family photos out of your in call. I have one SP friend that has seen personal photos of my family but she is one I totally trust. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad 49548 Report post Posted March 17, 2016 Interesting question. No, I don't think it would bother me, at least generally speaking. As mentioned, though one can be discrete I typically imagine it's safe to assume ladies all have their own life! But I suppose discrete is the right word here. A few photos here and there like anyone would have is one thing. I do like to keep each other the focus of our attentions, so if you had a three foot tall portrait of your boyfriend/hubby hanging up on the wall staring down at us that might hurt the atmosphere a bit. ;) Nice of you to consider what other's would feel, but of course at the end of the day it truly comes down to what you're comfortable with. It's your life and house after all. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted March 17, 2016 I personally keep personal effects out of the areas my guys would be in. Pictures of myself - ok, but pictures of my family - no. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Victoria Phoenix 3403 Report post Posted March 17, 2016 Congrats on the new place! I do not have family pics visible to anyone, I did when I first started, and quickly learned my lesson, when a gentleman recognized my daughter! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tada902 356 Report post Posted March 17, 2016 Congrats on the new place! I do not have family pics visible to anyone, I did when I first started, and quickly learned my lesson, when a gentleman recognized my daughter! WOW....i ll tell ya...the last thing I'm looking at is pictures on the wall...time goes by too fast to focus on anything but the goddess that opened the door and invited me in. If that turns a client off I'd say he may want to do out calls perhaps. Posted via Mobile Device 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted March 17, 2016 I think to many personal photos is a bad idea but that is just me. I'm very open and talk freely . I would not however as someone mentioned want someone to see my sister for example. She is a high ranking government official. Perhaps a guest may not wish to see her as possibly they know each other . I have on my mantle one photo of my departed father and my nephew when he was a baby and a bit older. For those who are frequent visitors they are familiar with Marilyn Monroe photos. She covers most walls in my play room. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted March 17, 2016 I for one don't mind seeing family pictures. I'm a family man. I value family mementos such as pictures. It is a pleasure for me to be welcomed by a companion to share her space and a little slice of her personality. Now, that being said - it could be awkward if I were to recognize a family member. Absolute discretion is of course always necessary and I wouldn't cross that privacy line by saying anything to anyone. By displaying pictures, you remove that choice of privacy from your loved one. Why take that chance. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103696 Report post Posted March 18, 2016 Congrats on the new place! I do not have family pics visible to anyone, I did when I first started, and quickly learned my lesson, when a gentleman recognized my daughter! Thank you Victoria! I'm so sorry that your daughter was recognized. My move in date is a few weeks away but in preparation I figured I would pose this question. I would never have personal pictures out bold in my guests face, they would be strategically placed and certainly not in my private entertaining area and with that said any guests who I would invite to visit I would have already met and they know me and parts of my personal life. For new guest they will obviously be screened thoroughly. The pictures that I may possibly display, no guest would identify who they are in public so that is not a concern for me. I would only invite guests who I trust with my privacy as I do the same for them. There always is the option for me to just allow guests in specific areas of my home, not my style of entertaining but until an understanding and a conversation takes place, that may just be the answer. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Highsexdrivebabe 11800 Report post Posted March 18, 2016 Hi sexy, As I have mentioned in another post different than this one I am an open book. When gentlemen walk in there is a frame in the hallway with some of my son's drawings, paintings throughout the years and on the left hand there is the kitchen and the fridge right there with pics of my son. I don't mind displaying both as I want my clients to feel that I am yes a REAL person with a life after the other life but also because with regulars we both talk about kids and they inquire about my son as I do with theirs. Really not to invade but just to feel that before all I am a human being. Quite honestly my clients either new or regulars assuredly don't mind seeing both and if one, at one point, felt it wasn't ok, never confided in me. Other family pics are in the living room where my guests are not allowed and cannot see anything when they come they walk in or go to my nest of indulgence. It's personal but I am the type of person who thinks that if you try too hard to hide something it will, somehow, be found out. Then again you might think I am too naive and that could be the case. Bisous sexy Barbara xxoo 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78396 Report post Posted March 20, 2016 I don't have any problem if the lady I have a booking with has personal things in her incall... frankly , think that is totally her call and makes no difference to me... I understand that she has a life outside of work and that it is not really my business. That said I certainly understand why a lady might keep it to a very minimum just for her own personal discretion. I have seen a few ladies where I could tell her incall was also her home but I can't really recall ever thinking it was too personal... interestingly I have had a lady I used to see fairly regularly visit my home for an overnight which went extremely well but she shared with me later that she really did not like being in my personal home amongst my wife's things when she knew my wife was not aware of my seeing escorts.... she never mentioned it at the time and if she had I would have been fine with a hotel... I only suggested my place so that I could cook for her and have more comfortable space for our longer encounter. I think what I have learned is that it is crucially important that we just be honest with each other... if personal items would cause him or her concern then say so. Just my Opinion 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
