big AL 350 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 How are you all doing? My 25th birthday night is coming up really Soon. I am truly exited about this birthday because Soleil is making the 4 hour trip, to come out and spend my birthday night with me. She is such a nice lady. the two of us have been talking about this for awhile. Soleil, will be coming to see me on November 1st. My Actual birthday is on the 2nd, But Soleil wants to be the 1st person, to wish me a happy 25th birthday :) Isn't she the sweetest? she is so great. I have a very difficult life, and I do not get to have fun very often. Getting to see Soleil Again is going to be possibly the best birthday ever, for me She is going to be a very nice present for me :) this is going to be very special for me because, this is going to be only the 2nd time in my life, that I will be having relations. both times are going to are going to be/have been with Soleil. This is very specal to me because me haing a disability, I have a lot of special needs. With Soleil having visted me one already, she understands me and my situation, very well. with her showing so much compassion and having such a big heart, this is going to make the night spatacular. plus the fact that she is very, very good @ what she does does not hurt ether:) With her staying the whole night with me, is is great. there are several reasons for this. 1.we get to spend a nice amount of time together 2. with me not being able to walk, i have to use a lift to be transferred from my chair, to another place. i.e.-my bed. this takes time, but we will not have to rush, because we have a lot of time. this way we can enjoy ourselves to the fulliset, without any time restraints. 3. As I fall asleep that night, I can be held in her arms. This is a great feealing for me. Soleil is so nice and caring, that while we are dozing off to dreamland in each others arms, I will not have a disability, I will just be a person. Anyway, I truly lookinf forward to my upcoming birthday with Soleil. it is 2 weeks today, till our night together :) 14 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 Every guy deserves to fall asleep then wake up with a beautiful girl, at least once. Dare I say it's best the first time.....after a few times it doesn't seen so exciting. :) I don't know. I remember my first time doing that, I think we "made whoopie" about 10 times during the night/morning! Good luck and happy birthday. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reddog01 30280 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 Best wishes on your Birthday, Big Al. I guess the next two weeks can't go by fast enough..eh...Kudos to Soleil as well, from reading your past posts and you experiences with her, you have found a real gem. My 25th was not as good:lol: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
c****s m********a 123 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 Best wishes on your b day soleil is a real angel good luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 Alex (it is Alex right?) you are just the sweetest ever. I'm glad that you've found such an excellent and warm-hearted SP to spend your birthday with. Soleil really is amazing. Happy early birthday! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
big AL 350 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 thanks so much for your kind words. It means a lot to me :) Additional Comments: Aww, you are so nice for saying That I am sweet, yes, it is Alex. I am also so very happ that Soleil and I are friendsy She is So nice and one of a kind :) Additional Comments: After I get into my bed from my chair, I need a lot of helping moving around, and getting into different postions. I can only move my body a very little bit on my own. This does not bother Soleil in the least, she pulls/pushes me around the bed until I/us are Comfortable. This can be difficult to do at times, but she does this with a smile :) This upcoming 2nd time together, should be a little easier, because we know each other better. Thanks for listening........ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jazzitup 5652 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 Warmest wishes for you on your birthday! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 what a wonderful treat to spend your birthday with not only a lovely lady..but the lovely Soleil! as the french say : you will wake by the sunshine (soleil!) :-) Happy Birthday to you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Catfish101 171 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 the sun is there cause you are there. Ty and then some. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OldBuck 1074 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 It is good to hear from you, Al. Happy 25th! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 there is an old saying "into evey life a little rain must fall" But in your case it is the total opposite.....and you are lucky... "Into your life...a little Soleil will shine" :-D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Soleil Sublime 38108 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 Oh you guys! Thank you so much for all your unbelievably sweet words. But I don't really feel comfortable with all these accolades. Alex is the true hero here and I know, that many of you would do the exact same thing for such an incredible person. Because of his situation, I have offered to go and visit Alex once a year, on his birthday. My present to him. As you can all see, no one deserves it more. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***e Report post Posted October 19, 2010 I couldn't think of a better way to spend a birthday. Enjoy! And a pre-Happy Brithday greeting to you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livenudecats 4067 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 I apologize if this seems like a bit of a hijack but I saw this thread and had to comment. I wish people who demonize this profession could read this thread. Here's a situation where undoubtedly a great guy, Big Al, is afflicted with a disability that unfortunately in our superficial world, many people cannot see past. So what happens, in steps a woman who is not only beautiful on the outside but more importantly, beautiful on the inside (this is what I tell my daughter all the time) who brings him the happiness we all deserve. While I in no way can compare my situation to Big Al's, over the past 8 years since my divorce I've faced my share of challenges and at times loneliness. During some of those times I've had the luck to spend some time with some of Winnipeg's fine SP's and if only for a short time, they made me feel like someone deserving the company of a beatiful lady. Anyway, Happy Birthday Al. I know you'll have great one and to Soleil, you are proof that angels walk amongst us. Cheers 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
renegade 11027 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 Have a fantastic Birthday Alex !! :cool: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lowdark 5613 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 Happy Birthday Big Al. And despite her humility, Soleil is a bit of a hero. Not many would do this. But by all accounts, it sounds like big Al deserves every ounce of kindness and more. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 no matter what this thread says......Al is a hero in my books.....he is open.....honest......beats life at every turn..... I wish Al a great birthday......and many many more....... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 Happy Birthday Big Al - You lucky Guy!!! Warmest wishes from Jabba and the rest of us here in Ottawa.! Thanks for sharing yourself with us; makes me feel young again.:-D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
big AL 350 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 Happy Birthday Big Al - You lucky Guy!!! Warmest wishes from Jabba and the rest of us here in Ottawa.! Thanks for sharing yourself with us; makes me feel young again.:-D Thank you all so much for your very kind words. It truly amazes me how nice and understanding all of you are :) Please Everyone, I am no hero. I am just a person who lives my life to the best of my Ability. thanks so much for your very heart warming words. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Royalfun 55448 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 (...) Please Everyone, I am no hero. I am just a person who lives my life to the best of my Ability. (...) And thank YOU, Big Al, for sharing this with us. That makes us more human and more a community. And have a great birthday !;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tristan_Bowes 115 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 I am so happy that you have found such a caring and loving SP to spend your special day with!!! Happy early birthday sugar and many more to come!!! I know you'll have a wonderful time and enjoy you time with this special lady!!! MANY hugs honey!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted October 19, 2010 I think it should be a requirement to be an Escort that you select someone each year to spend the night with on their birthday! :) :butt: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moonshadow 369 Report post Posted October 20, 2010 Hey, have a great birthday buddy! Sounds like you are in for a memorable 25th. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
conquistador 18487 Report post Posted October 20, 2010 3. As I fall asleep that night, I can be held in her arms. This is a great feealing for me. Soleil is so nice and caring, that while we are dozing off to dreamland in each others arms, I will not have a disability, I will just be a person. ...i think this is what it is all about! That's great that you've found an SP that makes you happey and looks at you like a person, even with all the difficulties. We all have certain needs to be fulfilled and need to enjoy ourselves from time to time...even with a disability. Cheers to you and her...all the best on your birthday! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tristan_Bowes 115 Report post Posted October 20, 2010 I think it should be a requirement to be an Escort that you select someone each year to spend the night with on their birthday! :) :butt: LOL! Good idea - but - what of the escort? What does she get on HER birthday??? :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
