Incall at Private Residence

[Dabbler 702]

I seen SPs at hotels and at private residences for incalls. I must say that I'm way more comfortable at a hotel.

 

I'd be interested in hearing your thought on the topic.

 

Would you visit an SP at her private residence?

 

Dabbler

[Goldenboy 237]

Private residence would be my first choice.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

Hotels offer a nice neutral space, but they are much more expensive. I like to stay low-volume, and it's difficult for me to justify the price of a hotel for only 2 clients per day.

[BarrhavenWoody 10776]

I've met with ladies at hotels and also at their private residences. I prefer the residences. (Although I wonder why they would invite a stranger into their home. This can't be as safe for them as using a hotel.)

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

I've met with ladies at hotels and also at their private residences. I prefer the residences. (Although I wonder why they would invite a stranger into their home. This can't be as safe for them as using a hotel.)

A lot of ladies either:

-Have a residence solely for work.

-Work out of a friend's residence.

-Live with a boyfriend/husband.

 

So it's not as dangerous as it sounds!

[roamingguy 300291]

My personal preference is outcall to my hotel, just the anticipation of waiting for that knock on your door, and when you answer, a beautiful woman is there, waiting (in my case, not long)

For incall, depends on the incall...very fond memories of a certain house in Ottawa, knocked on the door, to be greeted by a very beautiful woman

Then the other incall was to a condo in Toronto, after paying a hefty parking fee for two hours parking, had to follow detailed instructions, remember buzzer codes etc, reminded me more of going through security checks when I go to work...would have preferred an outcall to a hotel

For whatever it's worth

RG

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I don't do incalls myself, but to answer OP's question hypothetically speaking if I ever do incalls, I would prefer private residence if the lady lives by herself or a girlfriend (living with a BF or husband makes me feel uncomfortable to visit) and hotels otherwise. Take outcalls if you can. It is both safer and legal.

[Boomer 33202]

There is also an other option. After getting comfortable with an SP I've on several occasions invited them to my residence.

[A***** A***** 510]

There is also an other option. After getting comfortable with an SP I've on several occasions invited them to my residence.

 

That must involve alot of trust eh?

[harmony-bc 319]

A lot of ladies either:

-Have a residence solely for work.

-Work out of a friend's residence.

-Live with a boyfriend/husband.

 

So it's not as dangerous as it sounds!

 

I used to have a separate suite' date=' that I shared with 2 other girls. We were like a micro agency, hahaha. We had a very nice 2 bedroom condo. We always had a duo partner on hand and we had tons of fun.

 

I have tried working out of a friends place. Way too awkward to coordinate times. I had to give her tons of notice [which is sometimes hard to do'], meet her where ever she was to get the keys, etc. Sometimes she couldn't do it for whatever reason. Its better to just have your own place.

 

Now, while I acknowledge that it would be safer to have some guy around, I think that it would scare off a lot of clientele. I also don't think its a good idea to involve any relationship I may have with working. If guys knew about a SO, I think it would wreck the fantasy for some. Some guys are lonely, and they want to believe for that hour or two, that its a real date. I actually don't date in my personal life. I am way too much of a free spirit. I get enough sex at work and I have pets and friends for companionship, lol

 

For the last few years, I've been an independent working out of my home. I consider it living at the office, lol. I want to own a house and can't justify paying 2 high rents. I have to have a nice place to bring my callers and I have to live in a nice place. So I combine the 2. I am careful about leaving bills in plain site, and I don't have anything of value left out, and I listen to my gut.

 

My last place was a one bedroom condo, in an extremely high security building. There was cameras everywhere. I could watch a gentleman buzz, and then get into the elevator on my TV. I also had an escape route pre planned, and safety measures in place. I personally would not be comfortable working completely alone unless it was a high security building. I'm also very empathic and rely a lot on gut instincts.

 

Currently I share a big 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom, 2 floor town house with another working girl and our pets. We both work, but we're both low volume, so we rarely ever work at the same time. if that ever happens we stagger our appointments by half hours so they don't meet at the front door, lol.

 

I like doing out calls to hotels, but my place is very clean and comfortable. And I'm very comfy to be with, so it works for me.:bddog:

[roamingguy 300291]

"I am way too much of a free spirit. I get enough sex at work and I have pets and friends for companionship", lol

 

:bddog:

 

Geez, almost the same here, except instead of calling myself a free spirit, I prefer being a happy single guy, I get my sex through hobbying (not work...and you don't want to know where I work) and I have friends and a pet very shortly

RG

[namssa 562]

Most of the girls that I see are travelling SP's and I see them at their hotel incall mostly. There are a few girls that I see at their private residence in the big cities and a couple of them use a second apartment or condo as their incall, so not their primary residence. Occasionally I visit a MP, but that is becoming less frequent. I would not see any SP's at my home due to my personal situation.

 

 

I would and have seen SP's at their private residence for a session. Not sure how the ladies work it, but I would think/hope that not just any guy gets an invitation to see a lady at her home. I think the ladies feel much safer at home for the most part. Perhaps the guys that visit are known to be of good character and his posts and reviews are researched by the SP to help judge if he should be admitted.

 

 

Feeling is much more sensual and erotic seeing a girl at her place (helps for that GFE feel) and some ladies have a great set up. One girl I see has a basement suite in her home set up as her incall and she has done a very nice job setting things up. Everything you need is at hand, and when she is done and you leave, she only has to go upstairs and she is home.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I don't see clients at my home and it's something I'm not comfortable with. Instead I share space with another lady and we are both discreet about it. It is also safer because there are times she is there or vice versa and out of sight and if there ever were a problem, at least someone would be there to help. Most guys are cool knowing she is there and some have even asked her to come downstairs during the appt. Hah. Not going to happen. We also have certain protocol for booking appts which is one reason we don't book from payphones.

 

 

In the past I've had 2 really nice condos (one with a concierge) that I've worked out of in the past and both locations cost in upwards of $1500 a month. At one point I had both locations at the same time in 2 different cities. . Not something a person can justify. However in those days I could do 2-3 one hour appts in a day without blinking an eye. After a while it became a burden when I still had to pay for my own home as well and I wanted to wind down a bit from seeing clients.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

Now, while I acknowledge that it would be safer to have some guy around, I think that it would scare off a lot of clientele.

The ladies I know who do it don't obviously don't discuss it with the client. They kick out their SO and then clear the place of any men's deoderent, shoes, etc. It's personally not something I would do, but I respect the ladies who do it.

 

I said it was safer because if a client were to come back another day, without an appointment, he would meet with her SO.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I said it was safer because if a client were to come back another day' date=' without an appointment, he would meet with her SO.[/quote']

 

I am wondering how often this happens? A guy showing up unannounced? A guy who I had never met showed up at my gf's place looking for me once and I think he assumed I lived there and he had been there before to see a different SP who was there very briefly. My friend said this never happened to her. Imagine a guy answered the door? OMG! lol. Had I been there, I would have told him he had the wrong address. I don't answer the door unless I know someone is coming and they have to call me first. A note to the guys: Don't ever do this! A definite way to get on an SP's bad side. However, most of the Cerb guys know better of course. :)

[Boomer 33202]

I've been a hobbiest for many years. I've as a rule met most SPs as incalls at a residence. The only thing that has been troubling, and I'm not suggesting that they were there at the time, is not the boy friend but when there has been evidence of children living there.

[qwertyaccount 15793]

Chrildren! What a turn off! (I don't have any as you can probably guess)

[VedaSloan 119179]

My incall is a private residence (mine) which is shared with my (male) partner. He is never on the premises during calls, but he is my safety call.

 

I just hope nobody mistakes my Transformers poster and giant stuffed Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle as evidence of children. I'm really just an 8 year old on the inside. Haha.

[harmony-bc 319]

The ladies I know who do it don't obviously don't discuss it with the client. They kick out their SO and then clear the place of any men's deoderent' date=' shoes, etc. It's personally not something I would do, but I respect the ladies who do it.

 

I said it was safer because if a client were to come back another day, without an appointment, he would meet with her SO.[/quote']

I have known a few women that have shooed their lovers out when they have an appointment. I also know a woman who's huge guy stays in a separate room the whole time. She's the safest, lol. I don't judge it. I was just stating why I wouldn't do it, and explaining my circumstances, and how things work for me. Putting in my 2 cents 8)

[cat 262460]

Chrildren! What a turn off! (I don't have any as you can probably guess)

 

Turn off? Women turn to escorting for many reasons but the most driving urge in a woman is to provide and protect for her children. Eliminating the evidence of children is next to impossible and if she is a low volumn provider then it is impossible to maintain a separate working location at times. SPs are often mothers, we are also sisters, daughters and wives as well. We are people doing this for a reason and it seldom is because we are nymphomaniacs.

 

Your personal preference is your own, but "Children? What a turn off!" is a statement that offers great insight, note taken....

 

cat

[Boomer 33202]

I agree with Cat's post. Troubled may not have been the best choice of words. In Halifax many years ago I saw a lady for about five years who was in a situation like Cat describes. I understood her need to work in this manner ( she always maintained a clean comfortable appartment), and believe I always treated her with respect and always enjoyed my times with her.

[qwertyaccount 15793]

Turn off? Women turn to escorting for many reasons but the most driving urge in a woman is to provide and protect for her children. Eliminating the evidence of children is next to impossible and if she is a low volumn provider then it is impossible to maintain a separate working location at times. SPs are often mothers, we are also sisters, daughters and wives as well. We are people doing this for a reason and it seldom is because we are nymphomaniacs.

 

Your personal preference is your own, but "Children? What a turn off!" is a statement that offers great insight, note taken....

 

cat

 

Sorry to offend Cat, that was supposed to be a joke! I actually love spending time with my nieces and nephews.

[Papasmurf 100]

Definately prefer the private residence if it looks safe and secure and as long as its not in Vanier... lol. I do not like to visit ladies at hotel there is something about passing besides the check in desk and getting that stare, etc. Outcals to my place is much preferred to a hotel as I am very comfortable at home.

[miguel 100]

I am new to this. Can you visit a SP at her Hotel room without having to check in at the front desk of the Hotel?

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

I am new to this. Can you visit a SP at her Hotel room without having to check in at the front desk of the Hotel?

 

Yes. The ladies choose their hotels carefully for a number of reasons, including convenience of access.