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12 hours ago, Greenteal said:

     No matter the type of relationship, monotony tends to set in after some time. Solutions can go from diversifying activities to distancing dates in order to grow the craving. Again a question of communication and chemistry to find a path to longevity.

Agree!  I’m not a good actor, so I tend to let the session flows naturally and see whether or not we can build a good chemistry during a session.  
 

As you mentioned before, the first session can be a great session but it will be more challenging for  the second and even more challenging for the third one and so on.

But....hey...that’s why I don’t like to be labeled SW or even worse prostitute, because I’m truly not.

I, we as an escort deliver companionship not only sex. A mutual, intimate communication at the SAME LEVEL is the only way to maintain a strong relationship between a provider and a client.
 Sex is definitely part of it but it’s for sure not the most important aspect of it, at least for the long run 😊

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46 minutes ago, Allie Zeon said:

Agree!  I’m not a good actor, so I tend to let the session flows naturally and see whether or not we can build a good chemistry during a session.  
 

As you mentioned before, the first session can be a great session but it will be more challenging for  the second and even more challenging for the third one and so on.

But....hey...that’s why I don’t like to be labeled SW or even worse prostitute, because I’m truly not.

I, we as an escort deliver companionship not only sex. A mutual, intimate communication at the SAME LEVEL is the only way to maintain a strong relationship between a provider and a client.
 Sex is definitely part of it but it’s for sure not the most important aspect of it, at least for the long run 😊

Most definitely let the session flow naturally.  Yes, clients are seeking an intimate encounter but also a connection, friendship etc.  Perhaps some are missing out by having a short session where sex is the only objective (not that this is wrong), but could gain much more from a longer date, taking the time to chat, share a drink/meal or what ever.  

Of course each person has their own needs/reasons to visit a provider.  As such, from my view point like anything you get out what you put in.  Regardless, sessions are generally enjoyable for all.

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On 12/11/2020 at 9:27 AM, Allie Zeon said:

Agree!  I’m not a good actor, so I tend to let the session flows naturally and see whether or not we can build a good chemistry during a session.  
 

As you mentioned before, the first session can be a great session but it will be more challenging for  the second and even more challenging for the third one and so on.

But....hey...that’s why I don’t like to be labeled SW or even worse prostitute, because I’m truly not.

I, we as an escort deliver companionship not only sex. A mutual, intimate communication at the SAME LEVEL is the only way to maintain a strong relationship between a provider and a client.
 Sex is definitely part of it but it’s for sure not the most important aspect of it, at least for the long run 😊

I think letting the session flow naturally is the best thing that can happen.  
 While I understand the challenge of keeping things interesting, there’s also the fact that when you get to know an SP there’s also a level of comfort that develops and you can focus on each other’s mutual pleasure.  Whereas meeting someone new, while thrilling, involves a lot of awkwardness and stumbling around to get acquainted.

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After the fourth session, I will see my clients differently.  First, I feel grateful. Second, I ask them jokingly don’t they get bored of seeing me lol.  Third, I know they like me the way I am and there is no need to put or perform certain acts or service.  For me, this is the best and I look forward to seeing them again and again.

i am outgoing and truly enjoy the company of a person. 

This week, I have one of my dearest regulars who will teach me how to paint the wall of my house.  Excited! 

😚

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2 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

After the fourth session, I will see my clients differently.  First, I feel grateful. Second, I ask them jokingly don’t they get bored of seeing me lol.  Third, I know they like me the way I am and there is no need to put or perform certain acts or service.  For me, this is the best and I look forward to seeing them again and again.

i am outgoing and truly enjoy the company of a person. 

This week, I have one of my dearest regulars who will teach me how to paint the wall of my house.  Excited! 

😚

Yes I’ve noticed that I relax so much more after 3 or 4 sessions.  That’s when some real mutual pleasure can happen.  
I'm not sure if the words “paint” and “excited” belong in the same sentence...

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7 hours ago, Sharpe said:

Yes I’ve noticed that I relax so much more after 3 or 4 sessions.  That’s when some real mutual pleasure can happen.  
I'm not sure if the words “paint” and “excited” belong in the same sentence...

Good to know that we share the same feeling my dear.

To create a great session, both parties have to put an effort and respect, open and trust each other.

Providers are not  goddesses.  We are not a mind reader either nor that we can create a miracle of a fantastic session if the clients do nothing or don’t put any effort into it.

Therefore If someone tells me he is a first timer, I’m actually not that thrilled. With first timers, I have to do more mental preparation, making sure I’m 100 per cent ready to soothe their nerves and deliver the best service that they deserve. It’s not easy.  Tips are expected lol 😊


btw, I am excited that my dear regular will teach me how to paint the walls of my house correctly in few days. Never done it before.  I hope my house will be brighter in color and shinier in time for Christmas and New Year🎄🎵

 

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Just teasing about the painting.  I find it a chore personally but it’s nice when it’s all finished.

I don’t think I could have done any more stupid things my first time if I visited a lady 
I went to the wrong room.

I wandered around the hotel parking lot like a total idiot.

had to call her three times to get the instructions straight (not like they were hard instructions- park in front of my door and come in when I open it]
I kissed her on the lips.  Still not sure if was keen on that or was too polite to tell me to knock it off.

I know cowboys ride angry bulls longer than I lasted

So talk about nerves that needed to be calmed!  Thank God she was a kind soul.

Anyway that was a few years ago.  A different story these days.  Of course I’m amazing now!  Ha!

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SJ isn’t too far away from you.  Hopefully we’ll see you in January.  I’m sure the dog will be with me.  We can test the theory that he’ll get more attention than me.

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On 11/26/2020 at 2:27 PM, Allie Zeon said:

Hi,

Some ladies are doing extremely well in this industry. I wonder what are the best criteria of an escort from clients’ perspective?

Special skills....certain ages...body type...etc..etc...?

i have something in my mind like, we have to be attractive, easy to talk to, punctual....but I think there are something crucial that set a particular escort apart and become popular.

I know a lady in Toronto in her late 40s and still very busy and has been working full time as an escort more than 10 years.


Her body is phenomenal for her age, but I think she must have something more than that to become that popular to the point you have to book her weeks in advance.

Let me know the answer and please state your age and ethnicity too since I believe younger men have different criteria than older men:)

thanks for sharing 

 

Allie

 

 

 

 

On 11/26/2020 at 2:27 PM, Allie Zeon said:

Hi,

Some ladies are doing extremely well in this industry. I wonder what are the best criteria of an escort from clients’ perspective?

Special skills....certain ages...body type...etc..etc...?

i have something in my mind like, we have to be attractive, easy to talk to, punctual....but I think there are something crucial that set a particular escort apart and become popular.

I know a lady in Toronto in her late 40s and still very busy and has been working full time as an escort more than 10 years.


Her body is phenomenal for her age, but I think she must have something more than that to become that popular to the point you have to book her weeks in advance.

Let me know the answer and please state your age and ethnicity too since I believe younger men have different criteria than older men:)

thanks for sharing 

 

Allie

 

 

 

Allie I’m a Caucasian male of 50 plus years on this planet I’m of good looks and good body . I find and look for physical attraction first , then read write ups and if a bj is covered I pass on uncovered bj is a must . I also look for special skills and lastly dollar cost . Exotics are first then localshope this helps   steven trent  

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I think you may know my answer to this Allie but I will answer it for anyone else curious. There are no set requirements when I am meeting someone for the first times as it relates to looks or physical attraction or age or specific things sexual. That is just me. Be true to myself and just try to enjoy the moments as they come. There is so much more enjoyment to this if I allow myself to just let it organically happen. And also being open minded and willing to try some things that I may not have thought of trying before. If or when I meet a companion that I can have a mutually enjoyable time with, regardless of the details, it is just more fulfilling. 

Now, having said that, obviously sex is a vital component in all of this. We are, after all, sexual creatures and my libido, even at 61 is still very alive and well. So yes, that part of it is the driving motivation behind this lifestyle. The  intimacy and release keeps me healthy mentally and spiritually. Therefore, obviously the companion I choose must be skilled in the art of sexual satisfaction and for the most part, that has not been an issue.

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After nearly 10 years of seeing SPs the number 1 factor in me enjoying my time with a girl is whether they seem engaged and seem like they are enjoying what they are doing!  There is nothing sexier than when a woman is enjoying sexy time with her partner. Make me feel wanted and sexy please! Its what I am missing at home and why I hobby.

There is also a marked difference in making your client feel they are sexy and wanted and acting like you are sexy and doing sexy things for them. I mean its best with both but it comes through big time when you are 'performing' and not 'enjoying'

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13 hours ago, fisforfuun said:

After nearly 10 years of seeing SPs the number 1 factor in me enjoying my time with a girl is whether they seem engaged and seem like they are enjoying what they are doing!  There is nothing sexier than when a woman is enjoying sexy time with her partner. Make me feel wanted and sexy please! Its what I am missing at home and why I hobby.

There is also a marked difference in making your client feel they are sexy and wanted and acting like you are sexy and doing sexy things for them. I mean its best with both but it comes through big time when you are 'performing' and not 'enjoying'

There are some ladies that I see and I swear that they are enjoying my time more then what I do theirs.  Don't get me wrong, I enjoy it A LOT.

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On 11/28/2020 at 5:25 AM, Allie Zeon said:

How about if you have several ladies to choose from and you have not seen them all, just the pics? I think your decision will be based on their reviews and look correct?

@Allie Zeon In my experience, how the first/initial contact feels also plays a factor(even just the first few text messages).  If I were to message 2 girls on the same day, a warmer first impression goes a long way. Pics and reviews may sway me one way also.

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5 hours ago, thecowdealer said:

@Allie Zeon In my experience, how the first/initial contact feels also plays a factor(even just the first few text messages).  If I were to message 2 girls on the same day, a warmer first impression goes a long way. Pics and reviews may sway me one way also.

Thanks and I realize that too.  Unfortunately there are people who call and text simply just to kill their boredom or to fulfill their curiosity. They actually do not intend to come.  I’m pretty sure we have tons of people like that.

At the beginning of my career, I did take some times to answer text, email or phone calls. I would say only 10-20 per cent of them turned out to come to see me.  
 

The chance is much bigger is the sender send it through a review board like Lyla and he is a verified member.

Finally, I decided voicemail only.  And if I like what I hear from the voicemail (clear, polite voice) I will return the voicemail with text and followed by booking.  Very efficient.

 

So for those who want to get to know more info of me, please send your requests in here so I can see your handle too 😊

 

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7 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

Thanks and I realize that too.  Unfortunately there are people who call and text simply just to kill their boredom or to fulfill their curiosity. They actually do not intend to come.  I’m pretty sure we have tons of people like that.

At the beginning of my career, I did take some times to answer text, email or phone calls. I would say only 10-20 per cent of them turned out to come to see me.  
 

The chance is much bigger is the sender send it through a review board like Lyla and he is a verified member.

Finally, I decided voicemail only.  And if I like what I hear from the voicemail (clear, polite voice) I will return the voicemail with text and followed by booking.  Very efficient.

 

So for those who want to get to know more info of me, please send your requests in here so I can see your handle too 😊

 

I think it's interesting you mention the voicemail. I think you can definitely get a better feel for someone if you can hear the intonation of their voice. It's not 100% but it does give one a much better impression than just words on a screen. I remember the first time I contacted you and you wanted that call to confirm the booking. It made things so much easier when I arrived at your door because some of the nervousness was less. 

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59 minutes ago, peacectryguy said:

I think it's interesting you mention the voicemail. I think you can definitely get a better feel for someone if you can hear the intonation of their voice. It's not 100% but it does give one a much better impression than just words on a screen. I remember the first time I contacted you and you wanted that call to confirm the booking. It made things so much easier when I arrived at your door because some of the nervousness was less. 

yes, i remember that dear.  You also mention that it's not guarantee even though the voice sounded ok. True! That's why i require deposit or at least a thorough screening, especially if you intend to see me at my private residence prior to a rendezvous. It's not easy doing this profession you know.  I had a hard time when i started few years back.  It's getting much better now because i have learnt from every mistakes i made:)

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@Allie Zeon

sorry! I am late to the party 😝 ... I do not know what to suggest for escorting

I have always been a 1- companion lover, and here is how or why I have been with my companions for the last 4 years:

  • kiss me like you mean it
  • hug me like you never wanna let go
  • wear less or no make up because I wanna eat YOU not your L'Oreal

After going through the thread I feel somewhat oddball in the 'visual appeal' segment

I find ALL women soooo pretty ... I really mean it. Visually, I love everything about them. 

I love the uneven bumps on the tushy of my current companion | I loved the odd hair tufts near the hoo-haa of my previous companion | and I loved the 'running away from each other' breasts of my first companion .. I LOVE it all 😙

... because my companions have made me feel, all of 'these' are just for me 🙂

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to all

 

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On 12/6/2020 at 3:02 PM, Neil young said:

 

I used to get clothing , dress, lingerie requests and I kind of liked it . It was a small thing I could do and usually I had the requested item. These days I have noticed much less of that and  am told to wear what is comfortable. I like dressing up , it makes me feel like I  tried and also I feel a little sexier. Deep down I'm a Tomboy Betty  and I embrace that side as well . Lots of visitors like the look so its a nice change. These  guests like the casual look as it is more authentic for them . Makes sense .  We don't spend a lot of time at home in high heels, stockings and garter belts. 🙂  

I agree with Mark , conservation and a few laughs get the chemistry brewing and  without conversation and some banter it can be a dull date. When I entertain at home I'm not busy and would far prefer some chat on the couch,  I'm not concerned about being over time .  Hey my overhead is low . 🙂   

My way may not be for everyone but it works best for me . If I'm happy it means my guest is happy .

We all approach our dates different  and I am sure everyone has their special way to make the most of the time . 

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On 12/4/2020 at 12:02 AM, Zachmont said:

I'm likely the exception to the rule... I'm perfectly happy with literally whatever. Some ladies are more comfortable in lingerie as it sets the mood, but I'd just as happy with jeans/sweats and a teeshirt if that's what they prefer. In some ways, more so. Really, whatever makes my companion happy and most comfortable. If I'm getting a playstation 5 for christmas, I'm not going to be the one complaining about the wrapping paper!

I do get that others are more sexually turned on by clothing, it's just not particularly me.

For pictures in an ad, however, I'd probably expect a bit more "sexy" for lack of a better term. I don't expect a full carnal display, but something tasteful and with effort/thought put in. A semi-professional or tasteful photoshoot shows more effort (and dare I say professionalism?) than a mirror selfie, which in turn suggests something about the lady in question to me.

I do admit to being a sucker for a woman with a pony tail, though 🙂

Ha Ha ,I have a pony tail and sometimes even pig tails . Fun to lightly tug and direct 😉  Currently my hair is green for an  added fun change . 

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