An Interview With... Sam Gaines - Being a Male Escort

[Phaedrus 209521]

Another really interesting interview!

I must admit, I had a similar reaction as Sharpe to the bits he called out, and for the same reasons. It strikes me as being similar to hearing something like, "All men just want a skinny 20-year-old blonde with big tits" coming from a provider who happens to fit that description. It may well be true to some extent - I daresay some guys really do just want that, and most of the rest of us wouldn't turn her down - but it's far from being the end of the conversation and a true picture would be rather more... complex.

I should say, I don't intend that comment to put Sam down at all - he has clearly figured out how to market the stuff he's good at and build a successful business in a field where it seems to be very difficult to get any kind of traction at all.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

He is a good marketer, probably a good businessman too.  check this last quote of him:

"I am very passionate about what I do and I think if done right it can really help people. I am here to give women what they need from a man. I just use my profession as an unconventional way to do it 😉"

It;s almost exactly what i expressed on my interview with Lydia. Being an escort, either as a male, female, non binary, trans, gay or lesbian or anything in between (crossdresser) if we do it properly we really do make people happier and energized.

Again, Sam has confirmed it on his interview.

He is a smartie:)

[Allie Zeon 2925]

3 hours ago, Phaedrus said:

Another really interesting interview!

I must admit, I had a similar reaction as Sharpe to the bits he called out, and for the same reasons. It strikes me as being similar to hearing something like, "All men just want a skinny 20-year-old blonde with big tits" coming from a provider who happens to fit that description. It may well be true to some extent - I daresay some guys really do just want that, and most of the rest of us wouldn't turn her down - but it's far from being the end of the conversation and a true picture would be rather more... complex.

I should say, I don't intend that comment to put Sam down at all - he has clearly figured out how to market the stuff he's good at and build a successful business in a field where it seems to be very difficult to get any kind of traction at all.

it's funny, i;m usually not impressed of what female escort writes on her bio but guy like you probably like it.  As a matter of fact, i usually don't read her bio because the bio is written to attract male clienteles in general.

There is difference  between us on the opposite spectrum for sure. C'est la vie:)

[Guest lydiahardwood]

Just wanted to jump in here to say that one of Sam's clients has kindly agreed to be interviewed! How exciting is that?! If you have any questions you'd like to ask her please DM me or comment on here with them 🙂

 

Also, recommendation for Sam here - 

 

[Sharpe 771]

That’s excellent @lydiahardwood, I would be interested in reading that. Thank you.

[SamGaines 30]

Hi everyone :) This is Sam here. Thanks for taking the time to comment and share your thoughts. I also want to say thanks to Lydia for taking the time to interview me. 

 

I will try to make sure to answer each question you guys have. Also if you have any other questions you want to ask me directly and discreetly, you can always contact me through my website www.samgaines.com or via email at [email protected]

[SamGaines 30]

On 2/7/2021 at 12:08 PM, vegeta85 said:

Guy's a modern day Casanova. I wonder if he gives advice to regular joes, when it comes to attracting and being intimate with women.

Yes I do also give coaching to men who want to develop themselves in this way.

[SamGaines 30]

On 2/7/2021 at 8:11 PM, Allie Zeon said:

Technically, everybody can be an escort but only very few can make it as a fulfilling career.  Being male escort is very challenging since most women can get laid pretty easily compared to men.  

This is rather personal question to Sam:. Are you doing this full time?   

Hi Allie :)

 

Yes I am doing this full time. You are right in that it is more challenging in that regard. The market is actually very small.

[SamGaines 30]

19 hours ago, Kitten said:

I AM A FAN OF SAM!

Do we have one of these humans in Ottawa?

Thrilled to see that there are men providing for ladies as well and genuine connection is at the top of this lady's list. I believe that's why I adore worship so much.

Men like Sam truly are precious  💋

Going give this another read but must bring my toy with me this time...

Yes, I am based in Ottawa :p I travel all over but base myself there.

[Kitten 1281]

36 minutes ago, SamGaines said:

Yes, I am based in Ottawa 😛 I travel all over but base myself there.

 

Excellent and noted 😽 

Do they call Ottawa the city fun forgot because most of the fun people in Ottawa are travelling? 

Covid has me a bit more stationary these days but I need my ass on the East Coast again soon!

 

I appreciate your response Sam 💋

[SarahAlexxx 2025]

Damn. I need to find me a Sam. 😮

One of the best interviews to date. Thank you both. This made me cry. ♡

[Phaedrus 209521]

Thanks for dropping in, @SamGaines! If you're up for fielding more questions, one that Lydia didn't ask: I'm aware that most escorts seem to spend a huge amount of time dealing with time-wasters, tire-kickers, trolls, and all sorts of other undesirables that pollute their inboxes, DMs, etc. Do you get the same? And to the same extent?

[Guest lydiahardwood]

8 hours ago, SarahAlexxx said:

Damn. I need to find me a Sam. 😮

One of the best interviews to date. Thank you both. This made me cry. ♡

 Me too! You can tell he's incredible at his job just from this interview ❤️ 

[SarahAlexxx 2025]

5 hours ago, lydiahardwood said:

 Me too! You can tell he's incredible at his job just from this interview ❤️ 

Wanna fly to Ottawa with me? 

[Guest lydiahardwood]

13 minutes ago, SarahAlexxx said:

Wanna fly to Ottawa with me? 

Oh wow could you imagine the fun!! 😜

[SarahAlexxx 2025]

17 minutes ago, lydiahardwood said:

Oh wow could you imagine the fun!! 😜

I could. But let's not... I need to keep my panties dry for the day. 😉

[Guest lydiahardwood]

1 minute ago, SarahAlexxx said:

I could. But let's not... I need to keep my panties dry for the day. 😉

TOO LATE

[SarahAlexxx 2025]

43 minutes ago, lydiahardwood said:

TOO LATE

Someone's in for a splash zone extravaganza!

 

[Guest]

49 minutes ago, lydiahardwood said:

TOO LATE

 

[SarahAlexxx 2025]

1 hour ago, Greenteal said:

 

Probably aisle 6 and 9 too. 

[SamGaines 30]

On 2/9/2021 at 10:55 PM, Phaedrus said:

Thanks for dropping in, @SamGaines! If you're up for fielding more questions, one that Lydia didn't ask: I'm aware that most escorts seem to spend a huge amount of time dealing with time-wasters, tire-kickers, trolls, and all sorts of other undesirables that pollute their inboxes, DMs, etc. Do you get the same? And to the same extent?

Hey its my pleasure ;)

 

Being that my market is very small, fortunately I don't get flooded with enquiries :p I can usually figure out very quickly if somebody is a scammer or not. I don't know exactly what it's like for a female escort but I can only guess they have to spend a lot of time filtering.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

@SamGaines you are the only straight male escort whom I know that can make it as full time career. Bravo to you dear. 

Obviously, the girls like you here simply because you are articulate and know how to treat us right.

Yes, some of your comments are over the top but we like that too lol.

We are selling part of the fantasy as a companion, something that is lacking or missing in our day-to-day  life and you fill this niche perfectly 👍

Btw, you already answer my questions through your replies

[Jjb 14]

I have a meeting scheduled with Sam early March. I have talked and FaceTimed with him and he is what he says he is. I am a widow and can usually find someone for just sex but what Sam offers is an intimate experience of being loved and to be loving. Also a friend and companion.

Thanks for posting this interview.

jj

[Jjb 14]

On 2/17/2021 at 4:13 PM, Jjb said:

I have a meeting scheduled with Sam early March. I have talked and FaceTimed with him and he is what he says he is. I am a widow and can usually find someone for just sex but what Sam offers is an intimate experience of being loved and to be loving. Also a friend and companion.

Thanks for posting this interview.

jj

I should mention Sam is very busy and it takes time to get a meeting so you should contact him now if you want to meet any time soon jj

[Guest]

I found this thread very interesting. Some of you know I was an SP and MP in Ottawa for many years, and I see much truth in his comments. I will say, some of his answers (previously discussed) came off a bit arrogant and very generalized, but he's not entirely wrong and is certainly entitled to his opinion. 

 

I would add, my experiences of the reasons women see a male sp mirrored his responses, although I had a large clientele of couples where the man was providing me for his wife. That said, I think my approach was very different to his. Not criticizing at all...just different. 

All in all, good interview which gave one man's honest opinions and experiences. Not bad...made me miss the biz.