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An Interview With... Sam Gaines - Being a Male Escort

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Thanks for the interview @lydiahardwood.  Although I take issue with some of his comments and don’t agree, I do appreciate the opportunity to read about and try to understand his point of view.  Thanks!

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  Interesting topic for sure. But as true "Technically, anyone with a pulse can become a male escort", it requires a solid foot in the door and proper word to mouth in the right kind of affluent market to make a living from it. Being a very niche markets, it takes a bit more than looks and skills to make it a career.

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Guy's a modern day Casanova. I wonder if he gives advice to regular joes, when it comes to attracting and being intimate with women.

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Great interview and perspective, thanks again! I Ike that it illustrates in the end we are all human and have needs, and its more than the ‘mechanics.’

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Good for you (& your lovers) dude. If companionship became fully legal in Canada, I would do it part time.

I am sure there is a niche market for overweight - frighteningly unconventional looking - mid age man, specializing in South Park & other morbid humour (basically Shrek .. but human) 😁

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Thank you for this interview @lydiahardwood and thank you for the honesty and strength of your metal Sam Gaines. I can relate to some of the rudeness you have to deal with. As a Bi MtF CD Escort I deal with rude comments as well but they just make me more determined to carry on and never return the rude comments. I often counsel men with their nervousness about trying someone like me for the first time. I have been very successful doing that and have made many friends and help them with other disappointments in their life. Keep up the good work Sam and continue being very personable and understanding. You are right when you say it feels great to see the smiles on their faces when the find they can trust you. I am lucky to see that with the men I have counseled, pleasured and shown something they hadn't experienced before. It is my pleasure to give them a Great Experience without any attitude and never rush our sessions. 

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6 hours ago, beesh said:

Good for you (& your lovers) dude. If companionship became fully legal in Canada, I would do it part time.

I am sure there is a niche market for overweight - frighteningly unconventional looking - mid age man, specializing in South Park & other morbid humour (basically Shrek .. but human) 😁

I think Shrek is quite sexy 😗

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9 hours ago, Greenteal said:

  Interesting topic for sure. But as true "Technically, anyone with a pulse can become a male escort", it requires a solid foot in the door and proper word to mouth in the right kind of affluent market to make a living from it. Being a very niche markets, it takes a bit more than looks and skills to make it a career.

Technically, everybody can be an escort but only very few can make it as a fulfilling career.  Being male escort is very challenging since most women can get laid pretty easily compared to men.  

This is rather personal question to Sam:. Are you doing this full time?   

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10 hours ago, Sharpe said:

Thanks for the interview @lydiahardwood.  Although I take issue with some of his comments and don’t agree, I do appreciate the opportunity to read about and try to understand his point of view.  Thanks!

I would like to hear a different opinion from Sharpe.  This is the first time I read the interview of a male escort and read his comments.  Such an eye opener and much more complex than I thought originally.  Love to hear different opinions from you. 

We are all adults here.  As long as we respect the differences, having a different opinion or point of view will be totally fine imo

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11 minutes ago, Allie Zeon said:

Technically, everybody can be an escort but only very few can make it as a fulfilling career.  Being male escort is very challenging since most women can get laid pretty easily compared to men.  

This is rather personal question to Sam:. Are you doing this full time?   

   I agree and my point was how good networking at the right time and place will make all the difference for someone trying to make it in such a limited market. Kind of situation where reputation is more important than looks and gimmicks.

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Networking and reputation?  I think discretion is pretty important and the clients might not tell their personal experience to others.  There is no review board for straight male escort either.

I just look at Sam's website.  Articulately written and he seems to be very patient and capable of soothing and convincing his clients.  There is no Price set on his website although he mentions multiple hours booking is recommended.

I look at his gallery: fit, muscular with a nice masculine jaw  as well as being a gentleman.  I'm intrigued too 😜

Is Sam a member of Lyla? I have more personal questions lol

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11 hours ago, lydiahardwood said:

A woman needs a man to care for her, so that she can express herself in the world without fear. However, she needs a man with a developed character to do that. Someone who she can trust. Someone who she knows is able to care about her due to his own overcoming of selfish desires that plague most men. When a man is able to love her in this way, she can and will love him back, which is a beautiful thing. This nourishes the human spirit.

Thank you @Allie Zeon.  Maybe I read into this too much, but I felt the above passage was a bit condescending and disrespectful towards women.  

 

11 hours ago, lydiahardwood said:

Women are vulnerable and men are there to care for and protect women. If a woman feels like the man does not care about her and her interests, and only cares about his own, then she cannot trust him. If she cannot trust him, then she cannot be open to him emotionally and therefore physically. 

Um ....just no.  This just sounds like quotes from bad self help relationship books mashed together.  
Again maybe I’m making too much of it.  Sorry.

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1 minute ago, Allie Zeon said:

Networking and reputation?  I think discretion is pretty important and the clients might not tell their personal experience to others.  There is no review board for straight male escort either.

I just look at Sam's website.  Articulately written and he seems to be very patient and capable of soothing and convincing his clients.  There is no Price set on his website although he mentions multiple hours booking is recommended.

I look at his gallery: fit, muscular with a nice masculine jaw  as well as being a gentleman.  I'm intrigued too 😜

Is Sam a member of Lyla? I have more personal questions lol

    Without having clients talking about their personal experiences online or elsewhere, being referred by someone or a trusted source will be far more effective than any written ad, no matter how detailed it is. The goal is achieving name recognition, and from there making a living from it becomes more realistic.

   

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1 minute ago, Greenteal said:

    Without having clients talking about their personal experiences online or elsewhere, being referred by someone or a trusted source will be far more effective than any written ad, no matter how detailed it is. The goal is achieving name recognition, and from there making a living from it becomes more realistic.

   

Agreed.  If I were his client I would recommend to my friends.  Not too sure, how many women can be like me though

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1 minute ago, Allie Zeon said:

Agreed.  If I were his client I would recommend to my friends.  Not too sure, how many women can be like me though

  As for your last question , he doesn't seem to be a member of this board. Reasons why Lydia posted a link to his website.

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5 minutes ago, Sharpe said:

Thank you @Allie Zeon.  Maybe I read into this too much, but I felt the above passage was a bit condescending and disrespectful towards women.  

 

Um ....just no.  This just sounds like quotes from bad self help relationship books mashed together.  
Again maybe I’m making too much of it.  Sorry.

You are blunt Sharpe.  Realistically I would agree with you but remember Sam's target market is women who are lonely, betrayed, unsure or women who want to be treated like a woman.  O yes, we love being protected, loved and hugged...no matter how successful and independent we are.

I cried a lot due to loneliness before I became an escort eventhough people think I was strong and successful and independent

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9 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

You are blunt Sharpe.  Realistically I would agree with you but remember Sam's target market is women who are lonely, betrayed, unsure or women who want to be treated like a woman.  O yes, we love being protected, loved and hugged...no matter how successful and independent we are.

I cried a lot due to loneliness before I became an escort eventhough people think I was strong and successful and independent

The world needs male escort like Sam just as much as all the fine ladies like the ones we have on here.  I'm not single or divorced but I also need intimacy and comfort like all the ladies that see male escorts.  Yes, Sam may be a good looking guy(from a woman point of view) but he has the character to do his job well and not everyone can do that.  I'm reminded of the movie "Deuce Bigelow, male gigolo" where all he did was make the women feel good about their selves.

Man and women are wired differently and not everyone can decipher all of that.  Sam may have the magic touch to do so.

 

Thanks @lydiahardwood for inviting him this week.

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15 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

I think Shrek is quite sexy 😗

Now I am blushing 🥰 ... but with my skin tone of a baked ham, you can never guess 😆

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I AM A FAN OF SAM!

Do we have one of these humans in Ottawa?

Thrilled to see that there are men providing for ladies as well and genuine connection is at the top of this lady's list. I believe that's why I adore worship so much.

Men like Sam truly are precious  💋

Going give this another read but must bring my toy with me this time...

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19 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

I would like to hear a different opinion from Sharpe.  This is the first time I read the interview of a male escort and read his comments.  Such an eye opener and much more complex than I thought originally.  Love to hear different opinions from you. 

We are all adults here.  As long as we respect the differences, having a different opinion or point of view will be totally fine imo

I am happy you asked this @Allie Zeon as the raging feminist in me was quite curious as well. I am a fan of differing perspective and debate. Thank you Sharpe for sharing his.

Although I can understand how those words may seem insulting, deep down those are the things that women want and helps us feel calm.

I do very much like it when a man holds me and I can literally feel myself melt into him. We may not admit it but we do like to be vulnerable.

Allie had the best point when she had brought up that he is marketing towards lonely women and feel hes hitting the target quite well there!

I did cruise through the site a little more and this whole God thing might throw me off a little bit. Women do like to feel disneyfied and I feel that is what Sam is delivering here. We like your strength very much. Sadly more men (at least the ones I have known outside this type of work) use it to destroy then to protect.

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This is quite exciting to see and I would love to see more men do this! There being a niche for everything is not gender-specific.

Perhaps it was making something stubborn deliver for me earlier that's got me in such a good mood 😉

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