Is it wrong to ask a SP for verification?

[RobertDion 146]

9 minutes ago, MikeyInHalifax said:

Bro... Who hurt you?

haha, a story for another time.

[therealsweetie 151]

On 9/1/2025 at 8:53 AM, RobertDion said:

Seriously?  That's low. Your excuse for needing someone licence and down payment and references... is that THAT will prevent you from being murdered??? I sincerely doubt any SP would be doing this line of work if you legitimately feared being murdered that much. You're counting on the client's honesty to simply not give you a fake licence, and WE are trusting that you won't blackmail us later by simply threatening to not sell our identity/info online. 

 

100% noted to never offer you any type of services! thanks for showing your true colours on this post babe❤️ xoxo 

[therealsweetie 151]

On 9/2/2025 at 5:55 PM, RobertDion said:

Again, the initial conversation he started has conveniently gone unanswered. Exactly how does it make an SP feel more safe by them having a copy of my driver's licence?

Imagine I go onto a gift shop, browse around, pick out an item, go up to the cashier, I have my debit card out and she asks me for a credit check.... "a credit check? I can pay cash, I have it right here". "Nope, I need to check your credit score before we can make this transaction, you know, in case you want to rob me, I'm protected" -- I fail to see the logic in this.

Again, I don't to see how collecting and keeping a hobbyist's personal info protects the SP from violence. I found drakonis17's question to be a bit ridiculous, because just like Ms Manda pointed out, no SP in their right mind would do such a thing, heck half the ads on LL state "will not provide any more photos"   ... but I was just pointing out therealsweetier's hypocrisy in her response. Don't kid yourself too much their Mikey, you'll out yourself. Because let's not forget; we're the ones not allowed to ask questions, we're the ones paying the cash, we're the ones having to verify our identity, we're the ones paying deposits, we're the ones going to their locations, we're not the ones setting the prices, they are (as it should be), perhaps your've been lucky and you haven't been screwed over Mikey, wether it's a reputable agency or independant or not... but I'll call the BS when I see it, make no mistake.

There's no need to score brownie points with your virtue-signalling by saying they're already at a disadvantage. Not when they keep stacking up the claims that they're wanting deposits, and IDs and references and all this under the reasons of 'personal safety' --so let's CALM down---- let's not dig ourselves into a deeper hole. Because it looks like people are taking advantage of the situation in my eyes.

Think io it - To what end will this go? Why not just ask for all the money up front? If what you're saying is true, and they are at such a severe disadvantage, then why not demand MORE safety and assurance?? Ask for twice as much and for all of it to be e-transfered up front? If all SPs did this, would we not have no choice but to comply? You know, for the safety and reassurance of everyone? To make it fair? Yes? Since the economics of this and supply-and-demand seem to be irrelevant.

Why not evolve all this to its next logical step?

Yeah? No?

so we can give a trusted person your full name in case we end up disappearing so at least justice can be served in the worst case scenario… or if you decide to stalk, threaten, harrass, we have your name to take action. this attitude, way of thinking and behaviour from you is absolutely absurd. 

[RobertDion 146]

On 9/5/2025 at 12:23 PM, therealsweetie said:

100% noted to never offer you any type of services! thanks for showing your true colours on this post babe❤️ xoxo 

You already have, you're welcome for not posting a review of the experience.

[therealsweetie 151]

44 minutes ago, RobertDion said:

You already have, you're welcome for not posting a review of the experience.

This is how i know you’re lying …. I took a break from this 2023-2025, i recently just started back up last month and i have only taking reputable clients on lyla. One of which you have not been. 

 

I Haven’t even posted a leolist ad yet or used a number. Strictly only seeing clients and using Lyla PM’s. Thank god or else i would have actually believed you! Also only strictly offering tantra which has nothing but good reviews for me thankfully as well 🙂 

 

The fact you’re trying to lie and on top insinuate you saw me and got bad services just shows how much disrespect and hate you have for sex workers. 

 

which is a huge red flag and once again a reminder to NEVER offer you services as you are showing your true colours on this thread… It’s disturbing how hateful you are towards me because i ask my clients for ID verification. A HUGE red flag and i 100% would not feel safe seeing you. 

[RobertDion 146]

I didn't question why SPs would ask for IDs until the backlash someone else got from the thought of asking an SP for her ID. I knew that wasn't a realistic ask, but the reaction people had at the thought of it made me dig deeper, I wasn't expecting all the BS, but it's understandable for being all defensive. But once I found out WHY you collect ID s and what you do with them, regardless of whether they are a negative client or not, well, let's just say I won't be handing over my ID anymore, now that I know the truth.

[therealsweetie 151]

Just now, RobertDion said:

I didn't question why SPs would ask for IDs until the backlash someone else got from the thought of asking an SP for her ID. I knew that wasn't a realistic ask, but the reaction people had at the thought of it made me dig deeper, I wasn't expecting all the BS, but it's understandable for being all defensive. But once I found out WHY you collect ID s and what you do with them, regardless of whether they are a negative client or not, well, let's just say I won't be handing over my ID anymore, now that I know the truth.

You just tried to lie to sabotage my reputation. This is the last comment i’m making to you since you’re clearly a dangerous person. 

[RobertDion 146]

11 minutes ago, therealsweetie said:

This is how i know you’re lying …. I took a break from this 2023-2025, i recently just started back up last month and i have only taking reputable clients on lyla. One of which you have not been. 

 

I Haven’t even posted a leolist ad yet or used a number. Strictly only seeing clients and using Lyla PM’s. Thank god or else i would have actually believed you! Also only strictly offering tantra which has nothing but good reviews for me thankfully as well 🙂 

 

The fact you’re trying to lie and on top insinuate you saw me and got bad services just shows how much disrespect and hate you have for sex workers. 

 

which is a huge red flag and once again a reminder to NEVER offer you services as you are showing your true colours on this thread… It’s disturbing how hateful you are towards me because i ask my clients for ID verification. A HUGE red flag and i 100% would not feel safe seeing you. 

Yeah it was 2022, and no need to push your luck, you've dug yourself in this hole too much, no need for more.

[RobertDion 146]

Just now, therealsweetie said:

You just tried to lie to sabotage my reputation. This is the last comment i’m making to you since you’re clearly a dangerous person. 

Not at all, I was just curious of the truth behind this whole "collecting IDs" thing, and I got the answers.

[RobertDion 146]

Don't know what you mean by true colors I simply asked some questions. Thank you all for the DMs and the insights on here. No need to try your rage baiting, I won't post up our encounter.

[crustychris69 86]

13 minutes ago, RobertDion said:

Don't know what you mean by true colors I simply asked some questions. Thank you all for the DMs and the insights on here. No need to try your rage baiting, I won't post up our encounter.

If your encounter was anything but good, I wouldn’t believe it anyways.

 

Sweetie has been someone I’ve been seeing since 2020. Never had one bad experience with her. Sweetest girl. 

 

Being angry because she  needs ID verification for a booking process is a bit dramatic. 

 

Amazing girl, amazing reviews, amazing time seeing her. Point blank period. 

[crustychris69 86]

15 minutes ago, RobertDion said:

Don't know what you mean by true colors I simply asked some questions. Thank you all for the DMs and the insights on here. No need to try your rage baiting, I won't post up our encounter.

Reading this thread I think you might be off the snow ranting  like this. Gotta be. 

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31813]

This thread needs to be thrown right in the trash where it belongs, I can't believe it's still going 🗑

The ignorance and lack of respect towards us is fckn sad

But threads like these show people's true characters thank God for that