Question on penis enlargement

[Guest dut*****]

I understand that the pills and creams dont work and the different types of surgrey that is out there, I just wanted to know if any one has used A product like the X4 Labs Penis Extender, if so did it work for them?

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

Nope, haven't used. This stuff is definitely dangerous, and pretty much certainly useless. Not to mention pointless. Don't risk nerve and tissue damage! Stick with what nature gave you - you can have endless fun with it!

[Maverick 2873]

I suggest you talk to your doctor about it.

[Grizzly Slushie 1487]

I wish I was larger and thicker, but with all the "pro's" and "con's" for penis enlargements, I will stick with my wee man the way he is. Plus I am better and pleasing a gal with oral than penetration.

 

BD

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

Gentlemen, please....

 

Most men who consider themselves to be too small simply are not! Honest. You can trust me on this one: I'm sure I've seen, handled and otherwise engaged with far more penises of various dimensions than you have. :biggrin:

 

Let's think about this, for a minute or two. Most women's vaginas are about five to five and a half inches long from entrance to cervix. A woman's g-spot is located about two inches inside her vagina. Many women do not have vaginal orgasms, but those of us who do don't need a penis to be especially long, or wide, to have one. Penises that are more than about six inches long when fully erect can be downright uncomfortable for many women. A lot of us don't like to feel anything banging against our cervixes and, if the man thrusts on an angle, he runs the risk of driving against an ovary, which is excruciatingly painful for the woman and will surely bring things to a sudden, unpleasant halt!

 

If one is hoping to give an orgasm by rubbing the length of one's penis against the woman's clitoris, whether this is going to work or not has more to do with positions than with the size of the penis. If the woman is on top, she may be able to position herself or grind against the base of her partner's organ. Rubbing while in the missionary position rarely works.

 

There are some men who have unusually small penises, it's true. But they are very few and far between. Those organs are usually fully functional, meaning that the owner can have very satisfying sexual contact, though he and his partner(s) may find that intercourse is not their most favourite act.

 

Speaking for myself, alone, though I imagine that many women agree with me, penises are great, but what a man does with his hands, his tongue and, above all, his mind are the things that make the most difference.

[ostirch 1668]

Penises that are more than about six inches long when fully erect can be downright uncomfortable for many women.

 

I know, I know. But some of us (me included) have secret fantasies of one day becoming a porn-star. I say this in all seriousness.

 

In the end, I would not worry though, the perfect penis size ends up being the projected ideals of the people marketing that penis enlarger.

[Grizzly Slushie 1487]

Thank you for the last part at least Samantha. BD

 

I am a large man, and it just sucks that my penis is not proportioned to my body is all. Especially my hand, I need a gal with small hands to help out. But I know being too long of a penis does damage a gals innards. I prefer about an extra half inch wide and 2 in length.

 

That is a "wishful" hope, as I said above, I have focused on pleasing the lass with other means. The tongue is my favourite and BEST utility of choice.

[NotchJohnson 214071]

First off I'm happy with what my genes gave me. I believe that what dutchmen and many men wants is to have the big one, not really to show off but guys have a ego and we don't want to be caught with our pants down.

 

Unless a man has above 9-10 inches soft he is careful to whom he would show it. Some women are the same when it comes to their breasts, but luckily for them there is surgery which I don't see a reason for(except for special cases).

 

To finish we are the same as women, a woman with big breasts has more confidence and a man with a larger penis has too. I do not want to generalize this theory but I'm sure many will admit to this.

[Kathryn Bardot 99339]

To finish we are the same as women, a woman with big breasts has more confidence and a man with a larger penis has too. I do not want to generalize this theory but I'm sure many will admit to this.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but I LOVE my Bs and I have no qualms about going topless. I wouldn't get surgery even if it was on someone else's dime.

[billybob 20128]

Sorry to burst your bubble, but I LOVE my Bs and I have no qualms about going topless. I wouldn't get surgery even if it was on someone else's dime.

 

I think it's great that you are proud of yourself the way you are, honestly I wish more were like you, but I do believe NotchJohnson is correct, I if you look at the number of ladies, even here on cerb, who have implants you will see that this is the case.

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

What I learned from Dildo was...

 

1. That if there is will there is way to make any situation work if the parties are both willing to explore their options together.

 

2. Penis size is inconsequential in the big scheme of things.

 

3. Never remain in a one sided relationship.

 

4. When you end a relationship either move to another country or set your ex up with another that will service his needs to avoid the bitter acting out that will inevitably surface.

 

5. Never trust a monkey who is being nice to you. You will end up with a sticky ear canal.

 

All of these are lessons that have served me well...

 

cat

 

I'm thinking of putting together a collection of your wisdom, Cat. This post is sure to be a classic!

[Kathryn Bardot 99339]

I think it's great that you are proud of yourself the way you are, honestly I wish more were like you, but I do believe NotchJohnson is correct, I if you look at the number of ladies, even here on cerb, who have implants you will see that this is the case.

I don't think it's fair to assume you know the reasoning behind the decision to get implants, and that implants are only gotten because ladies are insecure. Some ladies get them for purely work reasons, and have them removed when they exit the industry. Some prefer the look of implants. Some get reconstructive surgery for whatever reason. It's not always insecurity that drives our decisions ;)

[CristyCurves 169032]

I don't think it's fair to assume you know the reasoning behind the decision to get implants, and that implants are only gotten because ladies are insecure. Some ladies get them for purely work reasons, and have them removed when they exit the industry. Some prefer the look of implants. Some get reconstructive surgery for whatever reason. It's not always insecurity that drives our decisions ;)

 

I personally can speak to this as I have a set! Of implants that is ,I didn't get them because I was insecure,I had pretty breasts and a fairly good size,c cup,before hand ,I simply wanted bigger knockers because I feel they look better,to me,and regretfully choose the wrong doctor because I didn't get the size I wanted he gave me what he wanted, so I'll probably do it again!They haven't given me any more confidence,had some before,they just gave me another reason to like them more!I have always felt implanted breasts,wether they are big or on the more modest size just look better to me .

 

Back to the subject at hand,penis size .Most large guys always think they are small and some smaller guys have felt they were large?But to all men I say,sometimes the tongue is more fun,so worry more about how you are at using it,lol and love your penis,big,small or in between,we do!

[roamingguy 300291]

I wonder how much of this question of penis size comes from the media, first the porn industry, where the guys are hung like horses, and then companies marketing creams, pumps, pills etc. Probably the average guy is just that, average, but may feel less so when he watches a porn movie, or hears about his buddy's exploits in the bedroom (which are likely a work of fiction). But reading what the ladies here have said should make guys feel happy with what they got

And one difference between getting a woman getting a breast enlargement, vs a man getting a penis enlarged (if we are making comparisons here)...ok well there's lots of differences, but a big penis can hurt a lady, while a woman enlarging her breasts, no such risk to a guy.

For me, I'm average and proud of it, it's the guy inside that should count.

And for me personally, I find after kissing and hugging, that the most intimate act isn't intercourse, it's oral (daty and bj) and I'm sure for the ladies, with oral, smaller is better.

So do I worry about size, no, got what God gave me, and there are more important things in life to worry about

I hope this rambling wasn't too long LOL

RG

[fortunateone 156618]

I've met a number of above average guys who seem to think they are small. And some very large (often older fellas) who had no idea that they were very large. And seen some smaller when soft that triple in size when hard, then large when soft simply get hard with little size change.

[NotchJohnson 214071]

I don't think it's fair to assume you know the reasoning behind the decision to get implants, and that implants are only gotten because ladies are insecure. Some ladies get them for purely work reasons, and have them removed when they exit the industry. Some prefer the look of implants. Some get reconstructive surgery for whatever reason. It's not always insecurity that drives our decisions ;)

 

I just want to say that I personally prefer smaller breast like yours Amelia and that the last sp that I visited had small breast and that is what I was looking for. You can see in my reply that I do not encourage breast implants unless it was totally necessary. This is what I wrote:

 

"First off I'm happy with what my genes gave me. I believe that what dutchmen and many men wants is to have the big one, not really to show off but guys have a ego and we don't want to be caught with our pants down.

 

Unless a man has above 9-10 inches soft he is careful to whom he would show it. Some women are the same when it comes to their breasts, but luckily for them there is surgery which I don't see a reason for(except for special cases).

 

To finish we are the same as women, a woman with big breasts has more confidence and a man with a larger penis has too. I do not want to generalize this theory but I'm sure many will admit to this."

 

I was not looking for a debate about breasts. I was only trying to help my friends from CERB's about the penis size, and as many mentioned here just be happy with what you got.

[roamingguy 300291]

Couldn't resist, especially with his last name LOL

Sorry, hope this isn't a thread hijack

RG

 

[billybob 20128]

I was not looking for a debate about breasts. I was only trying to help my friends from CERB's about the penis size, and as many mentioned here just be happy with what you got.

 

I was not looking to hijack the thread either, which is why i did not respond.

[xmy556 6095]

I wish I was larger and thicker, but with all the "pro's" and "con's" for penis enlargements, I will stick with my wee man the way he is.

 

 

Why give it a thought? Like Roosevelt said...

 

 

Enjoy what ya got.. happy pooning!

[ulixestrojan 3757]

At the moment of orgasm, who cares what size you are.

[nevets 326]

I may not hit bottom, but I will sure bang the hell out of the sides!

[Guest dut*****]

I understand that everyone, is looking at this like my question is related to getting an above average member, this is not the case, my problem is im above average in every way except that way. Im 6'4, size 15 shoe, but only 4 inches where it counts.

[Loki318 1631]

I understand that everyone, is looking at this like my question is related to getting an above average member, this is not the case, my problem is im above average in every way except that way. Im 6'4, size 15 shoe, but only 4 inches where it counts.

 

The risk And it is very very real is "nerve damage" to the extent that it will no longer get hard on its own, oh you will feel like it should it will feel like it wants too but it just wont "grow". I had two very extensive surgery's down there and Know the result of nerve damage. I went 18 months trying to "get it back"; haveing sex with a softie, ( Oh yea it is possible,isn't it girls ;) ) until my Doc would prescribe the the cure that works ..... Injection therapy....

 

That has one large draw back:

.... You have to stick a small needle in the side of your penis! (you do get used to it)

 

The good side is:

.... It works every time

.... It last from 2 to 4 hours (you learn to adjust dosage to the situation )

.... You can have multiple O's with out getting soft in between >>>

 

I know its difficult to do but please take all the good advise here ... if it is working don't even try to fix it .... If it isn't working see a well recomended Urologist and ask how he can fix it ;)

 

Just my 2 cents worth

 

Loki318

[Miss Scarlett 25073]

In conjunction with the above comments, I knew a guy who just got it pierced thinking he would give more pleasure that way. The person who did the piercing was not very good at it and ended up with permanent damage to nerves and skin tissues. I am not sure if he ever got it fixed or if the Dr.'s could fix it. So as it has been said if it isn't broke don't fix it.

 

On a personal note I hate big ones. I have refused clients due to being too large girth and length. I have had guys who were too large almost tear me, so it is not worth the risk. If you are average or below then you should be proud of what you have. I have between a C-D natural boobs, but have been an A cup and B cup before (weight gain/loss). I have always been proud of who I am.

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

I understand that everyone, is looking at this like my question is related to getting an above average member, this is not the case, my problem is im above average in every way except that way. Im 6'4, size 15 shoe, but only 4 inches where it counts.

 

You may seem disproportionately small to yourself or when you've compared yourself to other men, but I have to say I would find a four-inch long penis to be great. Whether you realize it or not, you're probably well-endowed in terms of girth, and that's a lovely thing, as far as I'm concerned, especially when I don't have to worry about being choked in the worst ways or having the man thrust too deep or off-angle.

 

Other men have told me the same things that Loki has said about nerve damage in addition to reduced or lost sensation and an inability to know whether you're erect or not. And, while injections and even penis implants are available and very effective for many men, I can't imagine why anyone would want to run the risk of needing them if they don't have to.

 

In my experience, sex and sensuality change in a wide variety of ways as we age. Our bodies change. Men who could have a dozen erections and orgasms a night when they were 18 might be able to have two of them when they're in their 40s. Many women, including me, will happily say that middle-aged men make much better lovers in part because of this change. They learn to slow down, to take their time, to enjoy more aspects and nuances of the connection they have with partners.

 

Health problems such as Type 2 diabetes, hypertension and heart disease can also interfere with male sexual response, making erections difficult to achieve and sometimes making orgasms seem impossible.

 

But, whether you consider yourself to be under-endowed or whether you have acquired a problem, my opinion is that the best and most rewarding thing is for you to learn about the myriad ways that you experience pleasure. Exactly where do you most enjoy being touched? How do you want to be caressed? What kinds of things do you find most fulfilling when you have intimate contact with someone? Maybe it's a lot of cuddling and caressing. Maybe you want more kissing. Maybe you like to be surprised and would enjoy being blindfolded so that sensations are heightened because you don't know what your partner is doing until it's happening. Maybe you'd really, really like to watch your partner pleasure herself and/or show you what she likes. Maybe you've never had enough opportunity to explore your partner's body in detail and would feel like your own pleasure is more enhanced if you understood hers better.

 

My point is that you may be surprised at how fulfilling it is not to focus on your penis too much when you have other things to experience and explore.