Older experience SP's vs Younger SP's

[Amelia Fox 9064]

I don't belive so at all. Everyone either been around 10yrs or around 5yrs has different styles and knowledges. Say X did this her ten yr carrer, and Y did this her five yr career.. Doesn't mean one or the other is wiser and/or better off..

My oponion

[Brody Boivin 8445]

That's funny you say that! I myself am 24 but act the part of, I'd say a 32 year old. Not the type to go for wham,bam. I enjoy the conversation and the opportunity, to have a lovely experience. I myself offer lovely services and have only been around 3 years.

 

I think you're thinking of the low balling escorts. You know... "give me your money, no more than once and please hurry up so I can see more people,and make more money", type of ladies, or shall I say girls?

 

I think it's all on the individual, not on the age. I myself have seen a newbie who was, sooo attentive and gave off a lovely vibe.

 

... my two cents

[Ice4fun 78396]

Ok... I generally see more experienced ladies and by experience I am talking about life experience not sexual experience... I personally think that is because I have tended to find over the years that the social and emotional connection I have with them is often better. Why is that... well if if was to guess it's because I am a talker and with the ladies with greater life experience we often find more things to talk about.

 

Now for me this is not a definite I have met much younger ladies who I have had wonderful connections with and frankly when it comes to the topic we are not allowed to talk about on here (sex) it is usually great regardless of the age of the lady.

 

There is no right answer to this it might only be the right answer for you or perhaps the preference you might have based on your individual experience up to now.

 

Let's face it... I am an older guy in what could be at best called middle age shape... if i can find a beautiful sexy lady who is interested in spending intimate time with me doing things I enjoy... well I don't really thing I care about her age.

 

Just my Opinion

[Brody Boivin 8445]

Hi there.

I thought this would be an interesting topic.

I have not met too many SP's yet. Just 2 younger ones and 2 older ones.

However i have found the experiences to be different. Younger ones seem to be in it for mostly the sex. They are wild and try to get it over quickly.

Not as much chatting and foreplay. Older SP's offer more companionship and erotic experience. They are slower and tease more and want to make the sex last longer. Then they cuddle more. As I have not had many experiences yet. Can I get your opinions on whether you find SP's experiences different based on their ages?

 

Age has nothing to do with it. It is dependent on the individual and you truly need to chat with the person to truly know. Maybe ask What they like about this profession.

[mrgreen760 37785]

At my age I don't consider seeing any one under 30.

 

Peace

MG

[CheekyCutie 410]

As the ol' adage goes: Age is all in the... Bed. ;-)

 

Chronological differences aside - it's all aboot attitude and la joie de vivre imho and experience.

 

I've met energetic ladies 15+ yrs on me whom thoroughly enjoy swinging from the chandeliers yelling 'Ye-haw!' while also meeting 20 yr olds whom only do mission and say things like 'Yes Dear'.

 

So, I believe the term is 'open minded' when it comes to age, as much as anything.

 

Surprises and gems shine at all different times throughout life - much like I believe aboot myself :-P Everyone has their moments ;-) ...whether dreaming ahead or reminiscing behind.

 

Waxing philosophically: Regardless of your place in time - seize the moment (peacefully, of course)!

 

To quote my fav soap: Like sands through the hour glass - these are the days of our lives :-D

 

Happy Humpers Day!

[spud271 47779]

I don't care about older vs younger SP's. I have met amazing women from age 19 on up. I've also met some not so amazing women who should find something better to do with their time from age 19 on up. Some women are loads of fun with a great attitude and personality regardless of age.

 

The argument of older versus younger is pretty much pointless in my mind.

[Guest S****r]

I think the difference has to do with shared life experiences. We are all changed as we walk through the various stages of life, and until we have actually walked through them, we can't relate in the same way.

 

That's not about technique, or ability to converse, etc., it has to do with hearing a revelation and having it resonate within you in a way that you know what the person experienced or is saying. And vice versa--being able to share out of your own actual life experience.

 

It is something that can't be rushed--life. We have to have walked through it one day at a time, and it takes time to live it.

 

Just my own thoughts at this moment.

[Monstermash 580]

Give me a great gramma any day!

[Triple HHH 12345]

I do believe its all chemistry between yourself and the person your with, in my

situation the lady I fancy most is 29 years old, we had a great chemistry from our smiles on day one and it's amazing how it justs better and better on each visit, so in my opinion age is not the reason I continue to visit someone:)

[Luckyme 41401]

I have had great encounters with ladies of age 19, 20-something, 30- something and even a 40+. To me, it boils down to how attractive is she to me, the chemistry between us, the connection, mutual respect and like someone says, whether we are on the same page or not.

[someguy 67067]

It's been 4 years since I posted this thread and see that people are still replying to it.

Since I have started i have many many women of all ages. I've met many younger women with which I have had a great time. But in general, I've had the best times with women over 30 and a few in their 40's. I just have more in common with them and share the same interest and music. They also have years of experience and can read a man, plus they are in it for their own pleasure also. They know how to pace the date and know how to please a man. But at the same time i've had great chemistry and connection with the younger women also. It all comes down to how much life experiences that they have experience. Some have had a lot of life experiences good and bad in a very short time. But like I said, a lot depends on chemistry and connection. Women of all ages can be very good. It also depends on whether they love their job also.

[Michellexox 120]

Thanks for this post. It's true.

[someguy 67067]

just wanted to bump up this topic to see if anyone has any new opinions. I've met many woman of all ages. And have enjoyed my time with almost all of them. But with the older women comes experience and passion. But have had similar experiences with some of the younger ones also.

[Gregsand 6116]

I discovered a while ago that age and experience are not necessarily proportional. I met 19yo young women and SP's who displayed a lot of experience after being sexually active for many years, while some women in their 40's are just starting to experience more after being stuck in a marriage with years of passionless missionary sex.

 

Same goes with the passion. No matter the attraction and experience, if the chemistry is not there, the session will be at best "average". But sometimes a revisit can spark a completely different experience. One example was with a 20yo SP I met. Her body was very fit and perfect(and I'm not, quite far from it) and on the first session it was a bit cold between us. We went through the motion, barely said a word and was a short session. Weeks later, seen her ad and pictures again and asked her if she did oil wrestling sessions. She wasn't sure and I provided her with video links and pictures and she actually got excited about the idea. So we set a few ground rules and met again. It was like being with a completely different woman. She was smiling, was excited and even kissed me as I was hugging her into submission. It was great.

 

No matter the age, the chemistry and context can make all the difference between an average and great experience.

[Gregsand 6116]

Who wouldn't smile with such a fun activity ������.

 

She was not the first SP to who I presented this. Most were either not on board or had a long list of restrictions sucking the fun out of it. That includes those who specializes in wrestling fetishes. In their case, I had to remain either passive or defensive and never wonder off the scenario or attempt to pin or dominate them. On top of that, their rate was insanely high. A sharp contrast from the young woman who had visible abs and didn't mind a good squeeze. She actually got aroused from the physicality and competitiveness of the experience. And her rate was the same as FS. The only thing she requested, was for me to bring old sheets to cover her mattress and absorb the oil.

 

Finding someone who'll do it, that's easy. Finding someone who'll actually have fun from it and won't "phone it in", that's the hard part.

[Gregsand 6116]

I have a hard time with the ''phony'' part,why accept something if it is not something you really enjoy?

I find it is not professional at all.

 

I'm happy to see you're not that kind of provider. But sadly not all SP's are as enthusiastic. In my first post, I mentioned how I turned a bad chemistry into a good one. But not all attempts are as successful.

[KarynSvensen 2074]

She was not the first SP to who I presented this. Most were either not on board or had a long list of restrictions sucking the fun out of it. That includes those who specializes in wrestling fetishes. In their case, I had to remain either passive or defensive and never wonder off the scenario or attempt to pin or dominate them. On top of that, their rate was insanely high. A sharp contrast from the young woman who had visible abs and didn't mind a good squeeze. She actually got aroused from the physicality and competitiveness of the experience. And her rate was the same as FS. The only thing she requested, was for me to bring old sheets to cover her mattress and absorb the oil.

 

Finding someone who'll do it, that's easy. Finding someone who'll actually have fun from it and won't "phone it in", that's the hard part.

 

Oh my god, if you ever want to redo that leave me a message lol. Wrestling and pinning down, I am going to soak the entire floor lol. I don't know if you will succeed pinning me down though, but it would be fun trying ;)

[someguy 67067]

I've recently seen a couple of woman that are > 30 and > 40. But from their bodies and personality they could easily pass for late 20's. But there is some to say about experience and maturity. They have been thru it all and now can explore and experience whatever they want now. Both young and older women are fun. But older women seem to bring more sensuality and when you have conversations with them, they know what you are talking about :) lol

[someguy 67067]

Recently I have started seeing more older women. Find it easier to communicate with them. They have experience and are free to experience their full sexuality. They know what to do and want to enjoy the experience themselves.

[Blondenextdoor 1625]

YMMV

 

I am in my late 20's, although I am not in my forties I have been described as mature for my age and that I have a deep understanding of intimacy.

The perspectives and comments were interesting, thanks for all who shared.