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[Guest N***he**Ont**y]

Some of us have been on the "NET" for many years and have established identities on other sites so to speak but have changed names for personal reasons. I am one of those who has another identity that is used in another hobby of mine. We aren't hiding anything on purpose its just sometimes it is more convienent. I am a retired admin from another forum and it was for convenience that I established another handle to use here. Sometimes things that happen on other boards can follow us all over the Net. I can certainly appreciate what Mod goes through on this site and I am sure we all appreciate it!

[CristyCurves 169032]

I can give you one reason because I've done it. I tried to use the same name on another site as I did here but it was used, so I just picked another name.

 

I didn't think to try and make it similar because I gave no thought about connecting the 2 sites, perhaps naive or stupid on my part by I didn't do it to be malicious or to try and hide.

 

Perhaps it's good that it's been brought up, maybe if the gents are comfortable with it, they could say, hi, it's Mr.x,- MR.c from cerb, I would like to meet, I know this would have saved some confusion with myself and another gent. Some of us need things to be as simple as possible, lol.

[Lexy Grace 103696]

I can give you one reason because I've done it. I tried to use the same name on another site as I did here but it was used, so I just picked another name.

 

I didn't think to try and make it similar because I gave no thought about connecting the 2 sites, perhaps naive or stupid on my part by I didn't do it to be malicious or to try and hide.

 

Adding numbers to your existing name from CERB on other sites can help and telling the lady up front, I'm a CERB member and can send you a PM there and switch all communication to CERB.

For me on EC I have left my name as just Lexy but will get to adding my last name (Grace) soon. Still getting use to the last name :icon_wink:. My independent name has always been Lexy with a "Y" whether it had my area code or a name in front of Lexy. I have never changed Lexy with a "Y".

 

Lexy

[aubreyxxx 20240]

All I am recommending is that if you have other alias's on other sites it would be common courtesy to inform the lady of your other username's. Pretty simple and vise versa for SP to hobbyist,

[billybob 20128]

All I am recommending is that if you have other alias's on other sites it would be common courtesy to inform the lady of your other username's. Pretty simple and vise versa for SP to hobbyist,

 

Speaking for myself I do inform ladies from CERB when I email them that I am BillyBob from CERB. I created my hotmail account 10 years ago and when I created my CERB handle 3 years ago it didn't dawn on me to sync up with my email. I saw an escort site and I said cool, lets join and see what that's all about :)

[sandimoon 72517]

I completely agree Cristy. I understand that everyone has their reasons, but an issue with men doing this has become a real problematic situation for me recently

A man had used me for a reference for a reputable lady on cerb who requires references from fellow SPs on CERB. I had not originally met him on this site but on another one (didnt even know he was on here) and when she had requested info regarding the username he had provided I had no idea who he was and told her just that.

 

Turns out I had seen this fellow several times but under a different name from the other site, and he missed out on seeing the lady when she was on a tour here because of this issue.

 

I understand everyone has their reasons to use different alias's but life is much easier when we use the same one lol

What a shame.

It sounds as though he wasn't trying anything underhanded,

just mixed up his handles.

He could avoid this next time by PMing the lady he is using as a reference

as well as the lady he wants to visit

on EACH site to clarify that he is both member ABC & XYZ.

Then they will both know he is the same person,

as opposed to someone trying to produce a false reference.

 

I met a guy lat night that had this same issue..He wanted to see an Sp that we all recognise(she posts all the time around Canada very often) and he is an elite on cerb,yet she had asked him for 2 references and he had not seen a lady in several months,so comfortably she declined the date( I too would) but then he gave her legit references and she still declined,claming more info needed,so I think some people that say there so and so on one site and different on another is just apart of there business stratogey(as long as there not being deceptive then who really cares...

 

So much wrong with this, I am at a loss as to where to begin.

So I will start from the bottom.

An SPs business strategy is just that: Business. Hers, not all of Halifax.

A Hobbyist HAS no business agenda.

And while he may not be trying to be deceitful,

but like Billybob, unable to secure his favoured handle on CERB,

his identity or any other information she requires is for her safety & comfort.

And I imagine SHE cares.

So if she asks for 2 references, provide them or move on.

Also, I have yet to see a website where a lady who

requests references does not provide alternate options.

If you have none, that's fair, but follow her secondary protocol.

In the part of your post that I highlighted I would not see him either! This particular member comes across as quite deceptive what with multiple handles and not so accurate references! It seems to me that this portion goes to the point that others are making which is why the hell would someone do this? Acts like these reek of underhanded dishonesty and in my opinion should be condemned to the nth degree!

No shit!

If he had none at first, where did he suddenly

find them only after she declined an encounter?

And who is to say they were legit?

Him? Another SP?

If she now requests more, provide it or move on.

And seriously, who really cares if he is Elite?

By virtue of his behaviour,

that is the last word I would use to describe him.

As a long time member, he should know the score.

If not, hardly her concern.

On another note you might consider being a bit more vague with members, SP's and locations. It isn't too hard to figure out some of the names involved what with you current location and a quick view of the advertisements section, etc.

It's very gracious of you Steve to assume this was not the intent

from the onset & I am sure you are sincere.

I on the other hand do not possess

the " benefit-of-the-doubt-it " gene.

And right now I am too incensed to wait until

my little yellow pill kicks in.

I find the entire post was in poor taste.

And quite obviously deliberate.

Of course, I am ALSO working under the assumption

ANY of this is true & not just an attempt to slander a touring lady.

Wouldn't be the first time.

That said, I highly doubt the man in question ( real? ) will be happy right now!

Although I have little sympathy for him. ( should he exist )

Or, frankly, respect for either party.

Firstly, a hobbyist with Elite status discussing with one SP another SP,

to the point of naming her,

stating that he was declined by her,

is not only immature, whiny & classless....

.....it is really pathetic.

Have you no decorum?

Have you no pride?

Lastly, have you not the ability to discern the difference

between an SP who can keep secrets & one who....well.......clearly cannot?

It's no wonder she said no!!!

I hope it was worth it.

Because if this attempt at an encounter was real....& now you are

known to talk out of school with less

than circumspect women.....good luck with all the other touring ladies....

...because bad news travels fast.

On that note, said SP, coming to an open forum,

detailing another SPs security measures,

trashing them, then alluding to her identity with this,

we all recognise(she posts all the time around Canada very often)

is inflammatory, beyond unprofessional & potentially dangerous to the SP.

But don't you just love irony?

By doing that with the presumption of impunity,

she has shown ALL of Halifax, CERB & by extension Canada,

she also has no problem discussing publicly what her clients tell her.

Makes me wonder what she says without an audience.....

Sandi

 

P.S. My regards to NM.

I happily take responsibility.

For this time & the last.

[EmilyRushton 253346]

 

Aubrey doll do not take this personally at all,I do not mean to aim this at you but your last poster lol... If he/she wants to be lets say A today on cerb and B on ECanada tomorrow then thats there way of advertising im assuming.Everyone has different agendas and maybe he(dude in question) did not want to be known on cerb? I met a guy lat night that had this same issue..He wanted to see an Sp that we all recognise(she posts all the time around Canada very often) and he is an elite on cerb,yet she had asked him for 2 references and he had not seen a lady in several months,so comfortably she declined the date( I too would) but then he gave her legit references and she still declined,claming more info needed,so I think some people that say there so and so on one site and different on another is just apart of there business stratogey(as long as there not being deceptive then who really cares...

 

Let's get one thing straight her...We are ALL entitled to conduct our business how we see fit. If you disagree, unless safety is in jeopardy it is best not to comment. Judging from this post you made I can only assume it is one of 4 ladies you are referring to by this post and this is wrong, as if I can figure it out so can everyone else.

 

I am a bit confused by your post, you mention the client in question said he had not seen a lady in several months when asked for a reference, yet after he was declined a date he magically had a reference? and your knocking the SP in questions screening policy for that. Why? because she cares about who she lets in her place? or because she wont accept just any rif-raf for a reference? How do you know his references were reputable? In one sentence you mentioned you would not have booked him either yet you saw

him any ways. Your words and actions contradict themselves.

 

The travelling lady you mention did what any reputable touring lady would have done, liars, shadies and deceitful people are not welcome as guests. there is a respect for privacy but when the cards don't add up more questions are always asked.

 

You have no write to publicly call out how others run their business unless you are willing to call out yourself as well.

 

People may have more than one handle on different places, the the respectful gents are usually forthcoming about this, the ones that need to be sneaky can look else where as if they need to hide a handle what else are they hiding. Someone who is an "elite " as you put it, earned his status and has nothing to hide.

 

Someone being deceptive can have life altering consequences, like getting attacked, raped or robbed.

 

 

[Andee 220524]

One thing that has not been mentioned is just because some dude tells me he's so and so on this or any other board, does not necessarily make it true.

 

I have had guys email or call me saying, "I'm so and so from cerb, blah, blah". If my gut feeling is off, I will ask them to pm me, and if they make some excuse or don't, then I have my answer.

 

I think this thread is going off the rails. I don't know if I am more concerned about the SP who was being called out, or the SP who is calling her out (business suicide).

[stevecurious 42059]

 

I think this thread is going off the rails. I don't know if I am more concerned about the SP who was being called out, or the SP who is calling her out (business suicide).

 

[mod 135639]

I agree too. Lets be sure to stay positive and NOT fight or be preachy. No one here wants that here please

 

These things usually escalate into a fight and I will just suspend anyone who starts or gets involved in a fight so please keep it positive. please (i dont want to be the bad guy)

 

Help each other (without being preachy) please... Enjoy the site and your fellow members

 

[Rounding Third 9567]

There once was a Moderator named "Mod"

Who proclaimed this thread got to odd!

"Be good CERBIES I say with my seniority

Or I will suspend because I have the authority"

And for that, we all should applaud!!

 

Sorry everyone. I just tried to lighten the moment. Hope writing a lame limerick is not a suspendable offence. Perhaps it should be!!

[easygoingted 100]

So has anyone seen Daisy recently? Or her friend that is working with her?

[robby72bobby72 120]

Ya she advertises alot of BP and man i think shes hot we need some feedback.. i msged buddy who said h met her but nothing back yet. I wanna try but i'm crazy cousous!

[jyork 910]

I have met with Dasiy recently. Private message for details.