Sweetie506 3402 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 (edited) Last night I was emailing back and forth with a male. He said he was interested in my services. Asked if I could meet at the starbucks uptown for a coffee cause he didn't want to "play" with someone he didn't know. Just wanted to get to know me. I'm not new to this so I knew that I could be arrested for doing such a thing so I kindly rejected the offer. Today when I woke up I hade an email from him : Here is the thing. Yes, I do belong to the force. I am, therefore, letting you go off with a warning only because you have a child, or so you say and based on that I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt. What you are doing is essentially selling your self for sex. Yeah, you might say that you're selling time, but the way you market yourself (I.e your hourly rate and what you offer in the hr) is evidence to the fact that in exchange for money, sexual acts take place more than often. If I catch you again on the web, in any shape or form,I will not be as forgiving and I'm brining you in. Do you understand? Respond that you understand, otherwise ill take your answer as a no. Fellow sp's feel free to Pm me or his email I have no idea if it is real or just some guy upset that I was charging him for my time. --- My few words are leave us girls alone. Go waste city money on catching sex offenders, woman beaters, and drug dealers. Edited December 18, 2012 by Sweetie506 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 Hmmm this is not cool! First of all, prostitution is legal in Canada. Public soliciting is not. I wonder if he is a dirty cop, trying to reep benifits? If anyone wants to meet in public, make sure you never speak about services and rates. I wonder if the force knows he is doing this?? 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetie506 3402 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 I don't know if they do but he's said that was what he was "tasked" to do, after I started saying he should be ashamed for trying to entrap young ladies. As I said on the first post , I can't ieve they waste city dollars on this when there is so many other people doing worse things! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 Error on the side of caution, and perhaps only seeing our cerb memebers might be the way to go. At least here, we can have references etc... Email is too easy to trick you with. Just a suggestion?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 I think this guy is just full of crap. He's not a cop. No cop would waste their time to threaten you like that (especially mentioning children). Emails are traceable. He was just pissed-off that you wouldn't meet him. You might consider reporting him to the real police on the thought that he's impersonating a police officer. What do you think? Most folks want to avoid the drama though, but it might alert the cops to a predator. 13 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 Report this to the police! Impersonating a police officer is a federal offense and they don't take kindly to it. We had a situation here in Ottawa where that happened and the police went out and "had a talk" with him. If the emailer was LE his behavior is unbecoming a police officer and his superiors should know about it. What you do is not illegal and they "serve and protect" us all... cat 22 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetie506 3402 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 I don't really want to let the local police know what I am doing in fear of my child. And I did meet him here on CERB I just forget his screen name. I'll look threw my sent messages and hopefully I can find him and report him to the MOD. This situation has me a bit shook to be honest. Scary knowing there are creeps out there pretending to be police and get so enraged to threaten me. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bcguy42 38594 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 How very odd. The username for the email, killerbee652, is also the username on Myspace of a girl who, three years ago, was in high school in Pittsfield, Massachusetts. I doubt there is any connection but I find it odd that the killerbee652 thing would randomly happen in two different places. Huh! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetie506 3402 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 Thank you Sophia. I am going to stick to people on this site. I'm just starting to get in the swing of things. Very nice little community CERB has going ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 Thank you Sophia. I am going to stick to people on this site. I'm just starting to get in the swing of things. Very nice little community CERB has going ! Did you say it was a cerb booking to begin with? then he emailed? If it is cerb, then please advice mod. There has been some strange activity lately in STJ. I am only booking PPL I have met and have references. If you need to check a name, feel free to PM me or any other SP that YOU KNOW.. Best luck, but think your best to report this to police, as this could be someone who also can cause you harm with another booking. You did nothing illegal, you cant get in trouble hunni! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
myjeep 279 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 I find this very disturbing! I am very very carful with this hobby and only book through CERB because I felt secure. But something like this makes me wary? Who the hell does something like that? It don't make sense. What does he get out of it? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetie506 3402 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 Thank you so much Sophia, I really appreciate it. Nice to know there's someone out there I can at least get some advice from ! At first he went on about being a virgin and he was from Freddy. Wanted to meet up cause he didn't want to lose his viginity to someone he barely knew :s ... Then he went on to ask if I would meet in a public place. I called him out on it and he "admitted" he was police. All in all I think he's a fake and was just upset I wouldn't go on a coffee date with him. But he should be found and dealt with cause obviously he's not right in the head. Good luck Ladies ! Have a safe holiday , please be careful of this guy and any others like him ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 I don't really want to let the local police know what I am doing in fear of my child. And I did meet him here on CERB I just forget his screen name. I'll look threw my sent messages and hopefully I can find him and report him to the MOD. This situation has me a bit shook to be honest. Scary knowing there are creeps out there pretending to be police and get so enraged to threaten me. I understand your fear but it is unfounded. They aren't going to be asking about your children, they are not concerned about you as a person of interest unless you are under 18, drug addicted or being pimped. They are concerned about men who prey on women, sex worker or not. They are concerned about someone impersonating a police officer. You are not doing anything illegal and you have nothing to fear. Perhaps you could contact Stepping Stones and see if there is an advocate in your area that would accompany you down to file the report. http://www.steppingstonens.ca/ This time he was verbal, the next time he may get someone in person. Reporting him is how to prevent him escalating this into something where someone gets hurt... cat 10 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MightyPen 67414 Report post Posted December 17, 2012 ALL of my instincts tell me this is a poser. The key is the power game he's playing; this complete stranger is positioning himself as the authority in this little "relationship" and telling you what to do. He'll get off on trying to make you conform to his will. Look at the naked power play in this little bit especially: If I catch you again on the web, in any shape or form,I will not be as forgiving and I'm brining you in. Do you understand? Respond that you understand, otherwise ill take your answer as a no. Imagine the satisfaction he would feel if you replied as he commanded, and meekly agreed to his terms by hiding away from the 'net. I suspect he was irked that you wouldn't meet him for free as he wanted, and crafted this to "put you in your place". Good for you for the defiant reply you sent him. I'm with others and suggest you forward this to the real police; who knows where this guy's desire to exert power over women will end up if left unchecked. But of course that's easy for me to recommend from here behind my keyboard. Please accept a virtual hug ( >>hug<< ) and my sympathies for having to deal with this kind of thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetie506 3402 Report post Posted December 18, 2012 Thank you so much for the virtual hug :) --sending a hug back-- ! I do believe he was on a power trip. I do feel I should go to the police also just to protect other women from him. The next girl may not realize what is happening and think its just an innocent meet and end up charged or worse, physically hurt. I won't lie I am terrified that the police are going to look down on me for the proffession I am in , but I think I'm going to call tomorrow and see what can be done so this doesn't happen to anyone else. I feel it would almost be selfish if I didn't. Then if I didn't and found out someone got hurt by the same man , and knowing I could have prevented it I would feel awful !! Thank you for the kind word and advice everyone. Was much needed and very much apprciated. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BarrhavenWoody 10776 Report post Posted December 18, 2012 Good for you Sweetie! I'm glad you have the courage to make that call. You will make your city safer for everyone. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Loki318 1631 Report post Posted December 18, 2012 His Email thread can be traced right to him and the computer that he used so if they should be interested enuf to ask for it send or show it to them I hate to admit it but SJ is a hard city Loki318 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mc Lovin 797 Report post Posted December 18, 2012 if this guy's a cop then I'm the pope ... hopefully he reads this thread so he can see what a jackass he is. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetie506 3402 Report post Posted December 18, 2012 It is taking courage. Hopefully if some other lady is in this situation they get the courage to do what's best for the community and not just themselves. I am stepping out of my comfort zone going to the police but obviously something needs to done. Even if they just put him in his place so to speak its better then just letting him get away with this. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
monctonian007 1357 Report post Posted December 18, 2012 Is it against the rules to put the guys user id and email on here so others can be warned? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetie506 3402 Report post Posted December 18, 2012 I don't know his user name. And if its against the rules to put up a predators email to warn other girls that he is danderous , then its my fault I'll take the blame. I didn't know .. But if it saved someone from getting hurt then I'll have to deal with the consequences. Any apologies if rules were broken. I honestly had no idea. I was to shook I thought I was doing the right thing. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted December 18, 2012 Is it against the rules to put the guys user id and email on here so others can be warned? She only used an email addy, not a cerb name or real name. But I would think MOD has already read this thread and if he/she felt it was a problem he/she would have done something. I think safety in this case out ways anything. I know I would not want to "report" such a thread. Besides, no names have been used. Just clearly a fake email addy. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bcguy42 38594 Report post Posted December 18, 2012 It is taking courage. Hopefully if some other lady is in this situation they get the courage to do what's best for the community and not just themselves. I am stepping out of my comfort zone going to the police but obviously something needs to done. Even if they just put him in his place so to speak its better then just letting him get away with this. Please let us know how this comes out. I am, for one, and I'm sure many others are, concerned about this character and wish you all the best. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135639 Report post Posted December 18, 2012 Your getting lots of good advise. I don't think he is a police officer but you should know that in Canada we do not have any entrapment laws.... but like everyone said prostitution (if you follow the law) is legal in canada. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rickkkm 525 Report post Posted December 19, 2012 Don't make this worst than it is; he is not a police officer, not a chance. Police officers would not have written you such a message in the first place. He is just a jerk, who obviously has nothing better to do. What a loser!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
