SP/MA can you write a Hobbyist Recommendation?

[someguy 67067]

Hi I thought this would be a fun thread to do.

I want the SP's or MA's to put the shoes on the other foot.

Guy's have been writing recommendations or positive reviews on you gal's.

How about turning the tables around and you gal's write a recommendation on your most fun/erotic/sexiest encounters with a cerb member. This can be based on a real encounter or even a fantasy encounter. It would be nice to see the Sp/Ma's point of view of a great session.

Please use a made up name to protect the made up name of a Cerb member :)

Remember this is CERB, a recommendation board not a review board :)

Looking forward to reading your recommendations.

This could be a learning experience for us hobbyist to learn what makes a great session for you and we could learn a thing or too.

It's never too late to teach a old dog new tricks.

[Eric Northman 16522]

If you're looking for that sort of thing, Emily J posted a 'client reco' on her blog right here. It's a description of meeting a client who was seeing an escort for the first time. Good read. You might also enjoy reading her reco of Il Re.

[IsaMassage 54318]

If they can be done, i would certainly have written some already! There is so many of youbthat deserve it, perhaps there should be a section for clients recos..,where us ladies can talk about the wonderful experiences with gentlemen :-)

[emb3750 9398]

It does happen on occasion...twice actually for me ;)

[someguy 67067]

I'm not sure if I explained this thread right?

I thought that the sp/ma could write a recommendation for a encounter they have had similar to the type that a hobbyist would write.

But it would be under a fake name, like for instance, JohnyXXX. They should not identify the real person.

This could be based on a real encounter, or you could make one up if you wish. I thought that this could produce some interesting reading from the other persons point of view?

[Eric Northman 16522]

I guess I wonder how often it is that one of us really stands out. We see escorts much less frequently than they see clients. It's nice to think that we're special or different in some way but I imagine the majority of us are just....ordinary.

 

I always try to be my best and make the experience nice for the lady too but I can't imagine I'm the only one who does that and I certainly doubt I succeed all the time. I like to think seeing me is pleasant enough but interesting enough to write about? I doubt it.

 

I think these ladies are very good at making us feel special which is why we like them so much. Are we that good at actually BEING special?

[Guest c**io**m7]

I am certain some of us stand out, whether it be because of a nice gift, large tip, treating the lady wonderfully or being an amazing stud in the sack (of course we all wish we stand out for this reason). I, for one, have always been proud of my tongue and only hope the compliments received from the cerb ladies are genuine.

We must, however, keep in mind that we are the clients and each of us, especially regulars will be only a wallet to some and, to the most reputable, we will each have something about us that is special to each individual lady.

There are a couple I genuinely care about and, in turn, I know their friendships are also genuine.

[Mister T 45020]

I'm not sure if I explained this thread right?

I thought that the sp/ma could write a recommendation for a encounter they have had similar to the type that a hobbyist would write.

But it would be under a fake name, like for instance, JohnyXXX. They should not identify the real person.

This could be based on a real encounter, or you could make one up if you wish. I thought that this could produce some interesting reading from the other persons point of view?

 

While it can be flattering for some, for others, being part of public thread of "hobbyist recommendation", may not be so enchanting ... especially if written without prior consent (same principle as some of us use before posting a reco, we vet it with the lady), even if the handle is changed or story changed. While we may write recos (good for business and guidance for potential clients), we generally expect the ladies to use discretion in return about our encounters.

 

If they can be done, i would certainly have written some already! There is so many of youbthat deserve it, perhaps there should be a section for clients recos..,where us ladies can talk about the wonderful experiences with gentlemen :-)

 

There is a thread that got started yesterday on this very topic.

 

I am not saying this can't or should not be done, i am saying though, that care should be exercised.

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

I do have some wonderful men to write about,but I need to ask permission first.

[someguy 67067]

Thanks Emily.

Exactly what i wanted. Very well written.

Give's us a good idea of what to expect when we finally meet you :)

 

Thanks from Some guy (aka Xavier lol )

 

 

Sophia, I don't think you need permission as you are not suppose to use a real name or Cerb Alias. Just make up a name like Emily did.

Hope to read your story soon :)

[dialtone 100]

A great idea! I'd love to hear some encounters from the POV of the escort.

[Eric Northman 16522]

@Emily J: That's fantastic. I'd love to give one of you ladies an experience that was memorable enough to write about some day. Gives us all something to aspire to. Right...back to my tongue exercises. la la la la duh duh duh duh.... Anyone know where you can buy tongue dumbbells?

 

:-D

[Mister T 45020]

Thanks Emily.

Exactly what i wanted. Very well written.

Give's us a good idea of what to expect when we finally meet you :)

 

Thanks from Some guy (aka Xavier lol )

 

 

Sophia, I don't think you need permission as you are not suppose to use a real name or Cerb Alias. Just make up a name like Emily did.

Hope to read your story soon :)

 

Let me be more blunt than in my previous post.... What is the purpose of prompting ladies in breaking what is comsidered sacrosanct in this industry? I'm talking about DISCRETION !

[Andee 220524]

I don't know if it's just me, but using a real name or not, I'm not inclined to discuss the details of the encounters I have with my guests.

[Eric Northman 16522]

@MisterT

 

I agree...that would be asking providers to do something that is extremely taboo. Many clients would be extremely uncomfortable with this kind of thing, even if it was 'anonymized'. I don't think that was the original intent though.

 

That being said, I think it can be done 'the right way'. If you read Emily J's blog post, she did explicitly ask her clients permission to write the review. I personally always ask SPs for permission to write reviews as well. I think if it were 'strictly for entertainment purposes' and done with permission, it could be a bit of harmless fun.

[Sweet Emily J 172062]

After reading some of my naughty stories... I actually have had several clients over the past few months specifically ASK ME to write a story about our encounter, or tell me that it was cool if I wanted to share the dirty details. Kind of like their own personal erotic tale for the spank bank.. hehe ;) I really like this, and I have lots of naughty stories to share on my blog over the next few months :)

 

I would never divulge personal details about someone if it wasn't previously discussed, and have asked everyone who has ever been a character in any of my stories/recommendations if they were okay with it. The one above is just kind of a very generic run through for newbies of how the basic things could play out during a positive encounter.

 

I think what someguy is asking is just to give the POV from an escort, on what to do and not to do, and have it play out in a scenario. He even said it could be a fantasy of a perfect encounter. Laying out rules and etiquette is one thing, but having it play out like a story can be just another creative mechanism to get the point across. Maybe kind of like the same way when I first started I used other ladies recommendations and reviews to find out what guys liked and didn't like and learn how to get better at what I do. :)

 

Edit: Also, the other similar thread that has been mentioned is asking for something different, with actual details about specifics clients by name, (which is obviously inappropriate), and from my understanding, something different than what this thread is suggesting. We shouldn't confuse the two.

[jdstar 1065]

I don't think that SP's should feel the need to publicly praise their clients. It's a business relationship. Are our ego's so fragile that we need a lady we paid to express how much fun she had with us? I don't really think that that's what the relationship is all about.

If ladies want to recommend clients to each other, I'm sure its more on the merits of cleanliness, safety and respect...and they have a private area to do so. I don't think when they are looking for recommendations from each other that it has much to do with how hard a client made them cum...but of course I could be wrong.

[Eric Northman 16522]

The way I see it, many of these women are truly the best you are ever going to meet. They have way more skill and experience than most of us will ever have. They know what they like, what makes a good encounter for them, and they know it at a very immediate level. That is to say, dispense with all the fluff, romance, flowers, wining, dining and what you have left is a man showing up at their door and both of them having a fantastic time in spite of none of that history. A great encounter for these ladies is compacting sex, romance, chemistry and connection into a very brief time frame. Granted some of the best stories might be with regulars but still, there isn't necessarily a lot of interaction outside of the date.

 

Clients who can do that for a lady are the ones we should learn from. These ladies sharing what, for them, is a fabulous date, is an incredibly valuable resource for us who aspire to excellence in the lady-pleasing arts.

 

I would consider it an honor for a lady to write of me.

[roamingguy 300291]

I posted in the other thread on this similiar topic but I'll post words to the same effect here.

For a gentleman who gets a public recommendation/review written by a lady it can possibly be flattering...an ego boost

What about a client who did nothing wrong, the encounter was textbook ok just no chemistry, or maybe he liked her and did everything right but she felt no chemistry, to her he was just a passable client but nothing special. He gets no reco. And he might then feel slighted if none is written

A lady's way of acknowleging and thanking a gentleman for a good encounter comes from post encounter emails, pm's etc. And she most likely will give a reference if asked. And she will see the gentleman for future encounters

But, with the exception of giving a reference if asked, the lady's way of acknowledging a good and special client is private between her and the gentleman, it isn't in my opinion really something for public disclosure on an escort recommendation board. It serves no purpose that I can see.

RG

[Eric Northman 16522]

Seriously...have not ONE of you actually read the original question and replies?

 

No one is talking about anything other than ANONYMOUS stories of encounters. No handles, no identification.

 

SPs writing about encounters....real, imagined or some combination of both. We're not talking about specific reviews of specific people.

 

Come on people. It's only a 2 page thread.

[Guest c**io**m7]

I, for one, would not object if any fine lady on here wanted to write about an encounter with me, especially if she enjoyed it as much, or more, than I did. I would even be cool with my handle being used...what's the worst that could happen? An ego boost maybe??

[someguy 67067]

I'm not sure how this thread got off topic. Hobbyist have wrote recommendations on how they felt before the door open and about their experiences. I was hoping to get the same from the SP/MA point of view. No real names, the story could be a real one, or a combination of several encounters or completely made up, It was mean for fun and not to hurt anyone's feelings. No explicit details needed. Discretion respected. Just some interesting reading about their experiences. or something nice that a client had done for them. A feel good type of experience :) like Emily's story.

[piano8950 32577]

And I thought it was going to be a thread of random anonymous fun

[Eric Northman 16522]

And I thought it was going to be a thread of random anonymous fun

 

Me too bro, me too. You just never know when the buzz-kill brigade will show up.

[Phaedrus 209521]

Me too bro, me too. You just never know when the buzz-kill brigade will show up.

 

I wouldn't put it that way. All we're seeing is a difference of opinion between some folks who think this would be great, and some who prefer their meetings to remain strictly private, and some who may fall in one camp but care about what others may feel. And, of course, all those who are somewhere in between. Similarly, SPs differ in their preferences on recos; some may be happy with guys posting blow-by-blow accounts of appointments, others prefer to keep some stuff private, and a few prefer not to have anything written at all.

 

My gut feeling is that there's plenty of scope here for ladies to write anonymized accounts of particularly good encounters, although any who do so will obviously have to be prepared to deal with questions along the lines of, "Why didn't you write about ME???". And yes, obviously the same questions arise whenever any of us guys see a SP or MA and don't choose to write a reco... but - if you'll all forgive the observation - I suspect the ladies are better at dealing with this than we guys are. SPs are by their very nature a pretty tough bunch, in general, whereas I think we guys are rather more delicate, especially where easily-bruised egos are concerned...